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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love too advanced for aspies? Getting a gf in university? |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 11:25 am
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Replies: 63
Views: 3,964
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| Making friends is still pretty easy in college, particularly with STEM people. But getting girlfriends and getting laid will actually be HARDER than it was in high school. Goodlookingloser's college social hierarchy pyramid sums up the situation pretty well. Basically you need to be in the top 20% t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I be with an older woman? |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 29 Nov 2015, 4:57 pm
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Replies: 83
Views: 4,028
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| Why not actually travel to the Philippines? It's a single man's paradise. The 19 year old Filipinas will throw themselves at you. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Your age for "first times" |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2015, 11:58 am
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Replies: 99
Views: 7,464
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My first kiss: 16 with a drunk girl (followed by 5 years of no female contact whatsoever)
My first lay: 21 (with a hooker)
My first girlfriend: never had one |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys? |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2015, 8:34 am
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Replies: 672
Views: 33,423
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| I think "signals" are a myth for the most part. I'm a decent looking non-aspy, and I've never received any. All the non-hookers I banged gave me lukewarm reactions at best on our dates. Basically girls can take or leave sex. So, as a guy, if you don't take action (i.e. have great logistics... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys? |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2015, 9:10 am
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Replies: 672
Views: 33,423
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| Girls in their 20s and 30s are statistically more likely then guys of the same age to be in relationships. The second graph shows the number of men and woman with and without autism who are in relationships. You can view it here. http://www.rdos.net/eng/relation.pdf. Scroll down to the second. Why ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: finally shutdown my pof account. |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 10 Nov 2015, 10:37 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 2,103
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I can get responses on Okcupid but not POF. *shrugs*
Doesn't matter though, because the ones who respond either won't meet me or lose interest as soon as we do meet. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys? |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2015, 2:09 pm
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Replies: 672
Views: 33,423
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1) Guys are much, much hornier than girls.
2) Guys are much, much more attracted to girls (both sexually and romantically) than vice versa. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Could any 'effort' be really made to find a partner? |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2015, 1:59 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 929
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| No girl has ever initiated anything with me irl or online. If I hadn't been willing to go through hundreds of rejections, I'd still be a civilian virgin. Just waiting for things to happen? Only women can afford that luxury. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Copying and pasting dating profiles |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2015, 12:16 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,139
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| The only two things guys ask themselves when evaluating a prospective mate: A) Does she look good enough to give me an erection? B) Do I realistically have a shot with her? A) is entirely based on your pics. But s**t, if you're 19 and not grotesquely fat, you automatically pass the boner test for an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Guys only want one thing |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2015, 7:07 am
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Replies: 125
Views: 14,748
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| I remember being painfully horny at that age. Imagine having a full bladder but nowhere to relieve yourself... all day everyday. You see toilets all over the place, but as you get closer you realize the lid won't open on any of them. Imagine how frustrating that would be. There's also the fact that ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Question about attraction |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2015, 7:18 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 876
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| Yes, it's normal to like the way a girl smells. No, you shouldn't tell her how you feel. Never be direct in your interest. You need to get her alone behind closed doors. Find any excuse. "Let's watch a movie" is my favourite. Then once you have her alone, you begin to slowly escalate. Move... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling unwanted hurts |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2015, 11:08 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,319
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| No wonder you're failing: you're trying to date Australian girls, some of the most entitled, man-hating, sex-negative females on the planet. It would be like trying to sell meat at a vegan convention. Book a trip to the Philippines, and your lack of intimacy will be solved OVERNIGHT. I can't get lai... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sexually frustrated - going crazy! |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2015, 7:10 am
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Replies: 76
Views: 2,515
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| Are you overweight? Does your boyfriend have ED? Those are basically the only two reasons a guy would turn down sex from a girl in her 20's. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I'm thinking of visiting a prostitute to lose my virginity |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2015, 9:41 pm
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Replies: 163
Views: 4,223
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| But for someone for whom sex is simply mechanical like you describe and has nothing to do with intimacy, then why is masturbation not enough and someone else has to be there? If it is purely about satisfying a physical urge (which is normal and natural) rather than an urge to be intimate with anoth... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I'm thinking of visiting a prostitute to lose my virginity |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2015, 2:25 pm
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Replies: 163
Views: 4,223
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| But for someone for whom sex is simply mechanical like you describe and has nothing to do with intimacy, then why is masturbation not enough and someone else has to be there? If it is purely about satisfying a physical urge (which is normal and natural) rather than an urge to be intimate with anoth... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I'm thinking of visiting a prostitute to lose my virginity |
| realitypill |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2015, 11:38 am
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Replies: 163
Views: 4,223
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| But for someone for whom sex is simply mechanical like you describe and has nothing to do with intimacy, then why is masturbation not enough and someone else has to be there? If it is purely about satisfying a physical urge (which is normal and natural) rather than an urge to be intimate with anoth... |
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