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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Dogs don't like the b word. |
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Posted: 25 May 2019, 9:18 am
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Replies: 5
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I don't like being me any more |
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Posted: 04 May 2019, 8:03 pm
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Replies: 9
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| IMO it's more important that you are someone that you like, rather than someone who avoids stepping on any toes at the price that you don't get to be the real you. Look how much power these people have over you. They tell you they don't like something about you and you become ashamed of yourself. A... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: [ Minor Rant ] I'm ignoring you! Deal with it! |
| Earthling |
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Posted: 04 May 2019, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 95
Views: 3,263
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| * I think announcing the "I'm ignoring you" thing is about trying to get a reaction (control). It's manipulative, because it doesn't involve direct communication, yet the user of this tactic usually has a certain goal in mind. Consciously or subconsciously. Manipulative doesn't necessarily... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: She wants to see me to 'speak'. |
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Posted: 04 May 2019, 12:21 pm
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Replies: 31
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| Boo why is it that you aren't clear about not wanting any more contact with this woman? I'm not even asking this for me, but so you think about it for your own sake, because apparently there is something within you that prevents you from acting in a self-loving manner. She has betrayed you, lied to ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: There's very little about WP I like now |
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Posted: 02 May 2019, 8:47 pm
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Replies: 426
Views: 10,601
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auntblabby wrote: ^^^yeh, but that doesn't mean that i won't still miss at least some of them.
Of course not. I too sometimes wonder how some long-gone members are doing. Nothing wrong with that. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: There's very little about WP I like now |
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Posted: 02 May 2019, 7:50 pm
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Replies: 426
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| Yesterday, my best friend was over at my place and we talked some, then he said something quite profound IMO. He said, sometimes people part ways and one or both act in a clingy way, trying to hold on to the other. He thinks if we drift apart for one reason or another, if that reason has something t... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Sly’s cute fox thread, cause foxes slightly cheer me up. |
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Posted: 02 May 2019, 7:19 pm
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Replies: 180
Views: 6,941
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| German? Yeah. Germany is Hariboland, so there is a big selection of different Haribo sweets in many places. Today is the first time I've seen this one, I thought you might like it. Got myself the pack as well, they taste like regular cola bottles, but the designs are cuter. I'd like a bag of freeky... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Sly’s cute fox thread, cause foxes slightly cheer me up. |
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Posted: 02 May 2019, 2:41 pm
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Replies: 180
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Today I was at the supermarket when I saw this:
Freche Füchse = Cheeky Foxes |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Friends brother involved in police standoff. Shoots himself |
| Earthling |
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Posted: 01 May 2019, 8:15 pm
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Replies: 4
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Ohhh noo... This is very sad.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Learning the rules of dating! |
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Posted: 01 May 2019, 9:05 am
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Replies: 20
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| Basically he thought because he had all the knowledge of dating and used it when chatting this girl up it meant he felt entitled for her too like him. What do you make of this situation? Apparently his premise wasn't true, lol. :jester: But honestly, knowledge alone doesn't mean a lot, because even... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attachment Issues |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2019, 5:44 pm
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Replies: 19
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| This topic got me a little choked up, I can relate. Nothing is wrong with you. How you are acting is a very common coping mechanism to being abused as a child. Not only direct abuse, but also a lack of positive caring. Emotional neglect. I want to encourage you, if you can at all get access to it, t... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: were u jealous of the whiz kids in school |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2019, 3:44 pm
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Replies: 41
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| Well, like many other posters here, there was a time (class 7 or 8 ) when my school performance peaked and I got a lot of passive-aggressive hate for it, and I enjoyed every second of it. It was a much better role than being the socially invisible problem-kid. :) Although, it was triggering rejectio... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: What is this a symptom of? |
| Earthling |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2019, 11:06 am
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shortfatbalduglyman wrote: Anxious attachment disorder Codependent  Borderline personality disorders
^ This. And in that order, too. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Erection issue with my current partner. |
| Earthling |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2019, 4:31 am
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Replies: 38
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| Ugh, this is such a difficult topic. Of course, if it gives you a safe feeling, you can go to a doctor. But I want to tell you something important: Sometimes there are temporary reasons why it doesn't work, but when you make a huge deal out of it and think about it every time you are about to have s... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Last person to post wins. |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2019, 12:38 pm
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Replies: 79,717
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Oh, yes I remember and can see it from your sentence structure now. 
Well, I've returned since end of last year, just didn't get into this part of the forum because I tend to get ADDICTED fast. 
The only thing worse than getting addicted is not winning, which, luckily, I just did! |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Last person to post wins. |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2019, 9:45 am
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Replies: 79,717
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How do you know me if you've registered only half year ago? Lurker? There's no shame in lurking, especially since it ensures that I win.  |
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