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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Very high-functioning Aspie lady; no boyfriend

JohnCNM
Posted: 29 Jul 2016, 2:55 am 

Replies: 19
Views: 2,149
I feel my daughter (24) is very high-functioning (great career, academics, etc - and appears normal in many ways), but her underlying Asperger may be the reason she has no boyfriend... Is she just too intense in contacts with possible male partners? Any insights very gratefully received, thank you

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Are you very high-functioning?

JohnCNM
Posted: 29 Jul 2016, 2:52 am 

Replies: 171
Views: 26,581
I'd be interested in any new thoughts on the OP here....

Especially actually from ladies; I feel my daughter (24) is VERY high-functioning (career, academics, etc - and appears normal in many ways), but her underlying Asperger may be the reason she has no boyfriend...

Thanks

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Requesting feedback about adult breakdown/burnout

JohnCNM
Posted: 06 Nov 2015, 3:44 am 

Replies: 46
Views: 6,950
I think coffee is terrible stuff http://caffeineevaluation.blogspot.co.uk/ http://coffeefaq.com/site/node/11 especially for people who metabolize it slowly (from my 23andme genetic analysis; Journal JAMA Study Size Replications None Contrary Studies None Applicable Ethnicities European Marker rs7625...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Requesting feedback about adult breakdown/burnout

JohnCNM
 Post subject: Re: Re:
Posted: 06 Nov 2015, 3:06 am 

Replies: 46
Views: 6,950
but of course (why didn't I see it before?) I CAN'T go back to that because I would just crash again. Amen totally agree. We have to live forward, find new ways. (What I do find good is to spot moments when things go well, and trying to capture what was good then and might be sustainable (in my cas...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Online tests for adult diagnosis of Asperger's?

JohnCNM
Posted: 29 Oct 2015, 7:00 am 

Replies: 152
Views: 182,080
I don't think this test captures the impact of Aspie's learning skills that will get them by in some areas of life

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Using nudge reminders to have better & happier lives

JohnCNM
Posted: 29 Oct 2015, 6:40 am 

Replies: 2
Views: 789
Ok so we find life hard. We have to work at it. I have found it very helpful and powerful to do the following: (p.s. I'm 54 and life is going very well actually; very good career, 30-year marriage, happy family doing well, friendships) 1. analyse what could be better in life (especially when things ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Adult life overload

JohnCNM
 Post subject: Re: Adult life overload
Posted: 29 Oct 2015, 4:34 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 2,524
1. take a time out, 2. analyse what happened and learn lessons, 3. make sure you apply those lessons next time (I use nudges, either tech or paper) For instance I have found socialising much easier, more successful and less tiring since I started reminding myself every day not to analyse social inte...
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