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Forum: The Haven Topic: Traumatic event from nearly 8 years ago, missed opportunity |
| samtoo |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2023, 8:50 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 426
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| I think you need to try to forgive the person you were back then, which is not the same person as the person you are now. We all change at different times of our lives and become a bit like someone else over the years. The person you were then wanted to stay single, or thought that was the best cou... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Traumatic event from nearly 8 years ago, missed opportunity |
| samtoo |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2023, 8:04 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 426
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| My Therapist doesn't think my actions in the past scenario were cowardly. I need to convince myself somehow, in some way, that this is true. |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Tug Of War - Man vs Woman |
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Posted: 19 Sep 2023, 12:21 pm
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Replies: 76,744
Views: 1,485,025
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Tug of war. Players A to M against N to Z |
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Posted: 19 Sep 2023, 4:04 am
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Replies: 27,458
Views: 224,079
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Tug Of War - Man vs Woman |
| samtoo |
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Posted: 19 Sep 2023, 4:01 am
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Replies: 76,744
Views: 1,485,025
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a blatant lie |
| samtoo |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2023, 8:27 am
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Replies: 19,795
Views: 868,848
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Tug Of War - Man vs Woman |
| samtoo |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2023, 8:00 am
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Replies: 76,744
Views: 1,485,025
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Traumatic event from nearly 8 years ago, missed opportunity |
| samtoo |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2023, 5:41 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 426
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| Persistent feelings of shame and cowardice haunt me due to a past scenario from nearly 8 years ago where I missed out on a relationship, when someone I grew powerful feelings for was interested in pursuing a relationship with me, but at the time I was protecting myself through a Stoic perspective on... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a blatant lie |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2021, 6:24 pm
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Replies: 19,795
Views: 868,848
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2018, 7:35 pm
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Replies: 35,861
Views: 2,035,959
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| -2 I want to overcome a tough mental loop. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Missed opportunity, and receiving help |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2018, 7:11 pm
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Replies: 0
Views: 299
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| On October the 22nd 2015, I learnt that I had missed an opportunity to form a romantic connection with someone. Without going into detail, I cut ties with the friendship in 2017. Fast-forwarding to now, and I find that the memory of the event has been the main pre-occupation of my thought-space ever... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: ASD and S&M |
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Posted: 03 Apr 2018, 3:41 pm
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Replies: 56
Views: 826
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| I am an Aspie, and I do have fantasies involving submitting to a Dominant woman; it's a strong urge of mine at times and I hope I might have an opportunity to explore this in more depth in the future. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: An Animal You Love |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2018, 6:14 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,537
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Pokémon A-Z |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2018, 6:10 pm
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Replies: 3,557
Views: 48,769
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
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Posted: 05 May 2017, 5:57 pm
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Replies: 35,861
Views: 2,035,959
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| -5 In recent times, I've been feeling like a shadow of my former self. There was a time when I would have upheld my highest values of honour and integrity despite the struggle I would have faced, and still summoned the energy to work on my plans and goals. Yet, a year and a half later of suffering t... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I severed ties with a former close friend |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2017, 6:33 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 347
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| I severed ties with a former close friend online, by unfriending them on facebook. I'm feeling guilty about this I guess, but there was emotional attachment involved, regret and a missed opportunity. I've been enduring and suffering for a while over a painful history regarding this, and I felt it wa... |
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