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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Anybody NOT like music ? |
| tomamil |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2012, 11:41 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 3,736
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| i am one of those, who don't listen to music. i imagine that people listen to music to run away from reality, just like drinking alcohol or doing drugs. what would you think about, what would keep your brain busy if you didn't listen to music at all? |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Proud to Be LGBT and Autistic? |
| tomamil |
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Posted: 18 Jun 2012, 3:12 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 14,075
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| saying i am proud being gay or autistic is like saying i am proud i was born. my mom pushed me through her vagina, she should be the one being proud of that. but i am proud of who i am and what i've achieved and what i've achieved is thanks to who i am and therefore thanks to my being gay and autist... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Gay Aspergers ! |
| tomamil |
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Posted: 18 Jun 2012, 2:49 pm
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Replies: 470
Views: 154,233
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| being male and having AS i was unable to seduce a girl. several times i was quite close. once, i was out with this Canadian girl, we were hiking in the forest, just the two of us, total privacy, i said, 'i am hungry', she replied, 'i am tasty'. she wanted me to do something with her, but i was think... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "I can't hear you, speak up!" |
| tomamil |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2009, 4:50 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 9,607
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| often, before i speak, i decide to take special care to talk slowly, clearly and louder, because people complain that they don't hear what i am saying. so i am careful to speak loud and clear and even so they literally interrupt me in the middle of the sentence asking me to repeat myself. and that d... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: cheated or been cheated on? |
| tomamil |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2009, 7:42 pm
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Replies: 43
Views: 6,789
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well, you guys at least know what it is like to be in a relationship  |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: After graduating college |
| tomamil |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2009, 8:24 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,788
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i had my plans set, so i didn't feel out of it, but all my colleagues did
they were even sad while i was excited, looking forward to my future |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone else have a problem setting and keeping goals? |
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Posted: 12 Jun 2009, 5:27 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,091
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| i have my dreams, i simply follow them and they all keep coming true. sometimes it takes years, if they are big, but they do come true eventually. very systematically, step by step, i go after what i want. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Looking in people's eyes.. |
| tomamil |
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Posted: 10 Jun 2009, 6:39 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 3,871
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| I look people in the mouth, and no one has ever noticed the difference. It must not be an exact thing for others to see, just an approximation seems to be fine. yeah, i've been looking people in the mouth since 'i was born' and it never occurred to me that it was strange, no one ever told me anythi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Stimming and the mayor of Sapporo, Japan |
| tomamil |
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Posted: 08 Jun 2009, 7:40 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,601
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Bozewani wrote: Are you suspecting that the mayor Sapporo is autistic?
you've read only the title? |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Do kids appear more Autistic/AS as the get older? |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2009, 12:36 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 3,317
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| Even for NT kids, the age between 10-16 is awkward and confusing. Your body is changing, your hormones are changing, your thoughts become more introspective and sometimes darker. Do you remember these years? I do - what a head trip! i remember mine, i became more unattached, closed in my room all t... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Do kids appear more Autistic/AS as the get older? |
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Posted: 04 Jun 2009, 11:08 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 3,317
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| well, isn't it natural? the expectations on him grow with the age. also, realizing that i am different can make me want to be alone...? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Okay, so what's up with this no gluten or milk diet thing? |
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Posted: 28 May 2009, 7:16 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 6,564
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| i just eat what tastes good to me and i am happy i drink like one litter of milk every day. but i have a friend in late thirties who stopped drinking and eating anything containing milk and he claims picking up colds less than before. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How well do you deal with changes to your routine? |
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Posted: 27 May 2009, 11:10 pm
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Replies: 57
Views: 21,400
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| when i agree on going to movies with a friend and she/he cancels i feel uneasy. i was programmed on going to a cinema and then suddenly i had to come up with something else to do and that's confusing. i don't understand how people organize their lives, because once i agree on doing something it's no... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it true that you don't ask a girl to be your girlfriend? |
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Posted: 27 May 2009, 9:39 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 4,080
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| i never had one, but it looks to me like you just ask her out, you go out to movies together or whatever, then you call her again (3 days rule) and ask her on second date and on third date you can consider being gf/bf without saying it out loud. since you actually date her on regular basis and that'... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone else hate football ? (soccer if you are american) |
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Posted: 27 May 2009, 4:41 am
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Replies: 68
Views: 6,242
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sometimes people wondered if i was gay for the lack of interest in the sport 
although i love sports but not team sports and i prefer doing them to watching. |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Very very strange experience today!! |
| tomamil |
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Posted: 27 May 2009, 3:28 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,449
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| to learn how to cope doesn't mean being cured. |
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