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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2020, 3:57 am
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Replies: 3,834
Views: 1,536,857
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| https://pbs.twimg.com/media/EJs-u6cUEAA1NTo?format=jpg&name=4096x4096 Name: Danielle Gender: Female Age: 30 Types: INFP/INTP, Enneagram 1w2 (Reformer/Helper), Gryffindor, House of Brilliance. Looking for: Friends, meaningful connections, open to serious relationship. Sexuality: Asexual/greysexu... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I think I'm an empath |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2018, 12:54 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 582
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| It's entirely possible in my opinion. While there are some people on the spectrum that lack empathy, others on it don't. That being said, I believe I am an empath myself. I think a lot of people that feel they are, tend to be, but that's more or less just my opinion. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Need the advice of Autistic Adults regarding son (age 12) |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2018, 11:43 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 883
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| It should really be up to your son what he wears, if his teacher has a problem with what he wears, that is the teacher's problem. It basically bugs the teacher, and not your son, and you shouldn't entertain the teacher's wishes, it could make your son feel bad about himself. All that matters is that... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How important is it that a couple's interests match up? |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2018, 2:44 am
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Replies: 40
Views: 1,217
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| I think what is more important than interests, is that you have the same values or goals in life. With interests, it's a lot easier to compromise, and each live in each others worlds from time to time. Basically getting involved in each other's interests;unless for some reason that's not desired, an... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Difference between Asperger and Covert Narcissism? |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 24 Apr 2018, 7:58 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,488
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| So some things overlap in terms of both types of narcissism and aspergers; that being said people with covert narcissism aren't 'just like' people with aspergers. Regardless of if he has aspergers though, it's not an excuse if you have treated someone badly, especially after the issue(s) have been a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I think my boyfriend has aspergers, should I talk to him? |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 24 Apr 2018, 3:55 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 831
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| So my question is this: --Do I tell him what I suspect? Yes, you should tell him. --How do I do it with offending him? Just be up front about it, tell him how you read something and it reminded you a lot of him. --If you didn't know, would you have wanted to? Very much so. --To those especially who ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women asking guys out? |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2018, 2:23 am
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Replies: 542
Views: 15,206
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| Men who fail to prove their manliness by going through whatever initiation rites the group deems appropriate to earn its respect have their opinions systematically dismissed, too. In fact, not forcing the same rites on women, who would often be ill-suited to endure their rough physical nature, is a... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Alcohol and dating success |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2018, 2:11 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 104
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| I've never had alcohol personally, and i wouldn't drink for the sole reason of attracting people. I don't think it would attract anyone good, and they wouldn't be into the person that you are normally. I actually hate when people drink, and generally don't like to date people that do; unless it's ra... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Girl I don't like keeps harassing me. |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2018, 2:05 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 1,075
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| I think his family would take him seriously, especially being on the spectrum and not being able to speak up. And he did try and get her to stop in his own way, trying to talk to her or confront her is a BAD idea. She is the kind of person that takes advantage of others, just because she can. It won... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I get easily angered when someone calls me autistic. Normal? |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2018, 3:09 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 618
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| Aspergers is really on the autism spectrum so...if someone just called me autistic I wouldn't care. I think a lot of people don't know what to do with 'aspergers', and are more familiar with the term autism, even if they don't know much about it. That being said, it sounds like they are just making ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is Trump autistic? |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2018, 3:04 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 1,909
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| Trump is not autistic, he is a narcissist, however. |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: My mom doesn't understand my Aspergers |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2018, 11:55 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,384
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| I'm sorry your mother doesn't empathize with or try to understand you. I think there are really only two options at this point. One is getting her to educate herself about aspergers, find some books written by people with aspergers about their experiences, and some about the point of view of those t... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Teens who still like kids shows? |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2018, 11:47 pm
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Replies: 91
Views: 20,277
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| I even know adults that don't have asd and still like cartoons. There's nothing wrong with it, watch whatever you like, and makes you happy. I still like cartoons, although I like other stuff as well, but each person is different. Try not to think too much into it, people are into different things; ... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: What happens during an autism diagnosis? |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2018, 11:45 pm
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Replies: 1
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| I forget who I went through, but talk to a parent about getting a hold of a healthcare professional to see if they can diagnose you. It's generally the people you contact for a psychologist or therapy. You can do it through your healthcare provider, I don't know of other ways. What happened with me ... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Do you hate the terms "nerd", "geek", etc.? |
| Seraphiel |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2018, 11:39 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,184
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| I love the term nerd, and etc personally. I refer to myself as a nerd, and i love having 'nerdy' friends that are into the same things I am. If i were to call people a nerd, or a geek, etc, it would be affectionately. People referred to as geeks, are usually intellectuals, or love learning etc; but ... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: MELTDOWN ADVICE / SLEEPLESSNESS ADVICE DESPERATELY NEEDED |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2018, 11:22 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 5,844
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| In terms of him waking up at four, he is getting about seven hours of sleep, which may actually be enough for him. Anything more could just make him more tired. I would be worried if he were sleeping less than that, as opposed to just waking up at an inconvenient time. Some people need more sleep an... |
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