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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Shutting down around another aspie |
| Misanthrophy_guide203 |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2016, 6:38 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 494
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| I know, your right, I can be so confident but so full of insecurity too at the same time. Babbling and talking absolute rubbish is what I do best but I don't know the first thing about doing the whole talking thing normally, well I do but I didn't even properly acknowledge this person and hey us asp... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Shutting down around another aspie |
| Misanthrophy_guide203 |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2016, 6:01 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 494
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| Thanks, I just wish I HAD spoke and said a bit more and felt well a bit silly! |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Shutting down around another aspie |
| Misanthrophy_guide203 |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2016, 5:37 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 494
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| Has anyone else had an experience like this; I attended a martial arts class earlier tonight, it was the first time id been to this particular one. I explained I had aspergers and dyspraxia and rheinards and was introduced to another member who has AS and I just froze up and sort of acknowledged him... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Not even getting along with ppl w/ similar interests |
| Misanthrophy_guide203 |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2016, 9:59 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 922
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| Well sort of but also not quite, I do very much struggle relating to people with the same interests because for example: I like Naruto because of the sentiment and moments I relate to and outcast characters. NT fanboys/fangirls like Naruto because of how "cool" or "Hot" character... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling undatable |
| Misanthrophy_guide203 |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2016, 9:43 pm
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Replies: 330
Views: 18,719
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| Part of me has completely resigned that even at my age il never meet someone, being an aspie and gay seems an impossible match, the best I can get is chatting for a while and then the "Lets just be friends" line and then we are just fb friends that never talk again. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I never feel like I belong |
| Misanthrophy_guide203 |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2016, 9:05 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,155
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| I don't know if this stems from growing up in a country that I wasn't born in( I was bullied at school for being foreign) or whether this is to do with aspies traits that make me an outsider. I don't know if I just feel like I don't belong or if people genuinely don't like me. It's like I feel diss... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Just introducing myself (y) |
| Misanthrophy_guide203 |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2016, 12:22 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 299
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I have absolutely no friends |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 8:14 pm
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Replies: 212
Views: 8,675
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| I didn't have any friends then I found myself a best friend in someone I valued highly as a friend only for her to tell me I was bringing her down last year and now im back to being friendless. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What are some things you do that you know bother people? |
| Misanthrophy_guide203 |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 7:46 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 4,056
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Where do I begin..
1) Talk way too fast
2) Offend people ..and make them laugh with my bluntness
3) My Over the top sense of justice and order i.e.: I won't use the bus runways, only the walkways, will pick people's litter up and give it back to them.
4) I possibly interrupt people |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: I really want to enjoy Fallout 4 but.. |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 7:43 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 701
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| I really want to enjoy Fallout 4 as I particularly like the Post apocalyptic genre and mostly enjoyed Fallout 3 and New Vegas, however Fallout 4 seems very much a very long case of "Go here, Go there" without much of a feeling of actually getting anywhere. I mean the story is intriguing ho... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Christmas Gift Rejected |
| Misanthrophy_guide203 |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 7:36 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,746
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| Thats just plain rudeness, I had someone on facebook who Christmas 2014, ranted about how all they had for Christmas was deodorant, if someone buys you a gift, just be grateful your were in someone's thoughts and people cared enough to do something for you. I think you should feel good, you put your... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to avoid losing friends |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 7:29 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 553
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| I concur with above, if they can't accept you for who you are be it your religion or something else then they are not a friend. A good to way to keep friends would be..hmm actually Im not sure, I don't have any >_< but I do think its better to have no friends than be a doormat or not important to th... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Just introducing myself (y) |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 7:22 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 299
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| Hi guys and girls, just saying Hi, I did have an account on here before a long time ago and although I related to a lot of the things being discussed on here, I found people to be rude and unhelpful but hey use aspies can be blunt I guess and id like to give this another shot so I can get talking to... |
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