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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online Meet-up: Person Seems Different, Little By Little |
| boofle |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 6:28 pm
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Replies: 11
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Don't feel guilty for doing the sensible thing, Owen.
The internet draws the whackos but, this doesn't mean one need entertain em.
Block. It's safer and forestalls any dodgy, "can we still be friends" tactics. Something I wouldn't put past this individual. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online Meet-up: Person Seems Different, Little By Little |
| boofle |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 7:07 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,186
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| The fact that he put up an old picture of himself shows me someone that is less than honest. There's no excuse for it. If nothing else it shows that guile isn't something he would be averse to using. He sounds the type that starts off really well but once he's got his claws into you, he will use eve... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make it happen? |
| boofle |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 6:15 am
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Replies: 66
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| ^^^ everyone is different, of course, and I thank God for that, but in terms of dating the evidence appears to be clear. Anecdotal experience notwithstanding, in the dating game ladies like their man to be taller. Why though? Personally I would prefer a partner at or below my height, though I could... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make it happen? |
| boofle |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 5:49 am
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Replies: 66
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| ^^^ everyone is different, of course, and I thank God for that, but in terms of dating the evidence appears to be clear. Anecdotal experience notwithstanding, in the dating game ladies like their man to be taller. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online Meet-up: Person Seems Different, Little By Little |
| boofle |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 5:44 am
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Replies: 11
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You sound like a decent person. Don't feel guilty.
Block. Seriously, the guy sounds like a nut-job-in-waiting.
Hopefully you followed all the usual safety precautions and didn't give out personal details and address etc.
Block. Forget. Move onto the next one. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make it happen? |
| boofle |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2017, 5:34 am
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Replies: 66
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| Most women are under 5 foot 6. I had a decent "pool." It's much more than the statistics. https://yougov.co.uk/news/2014/07/11/ideal-height-56-woman-511-man/ http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/height-matters-but-only-to-women-say-scientists-9123277.html |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are aspies bad boyfriends? |
| boofle |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2017, 5:45 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,766
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| Are we incompatibility with relationships? I worry I will be :( relationships take work, they just take extra effort when it's with someone on the spectrum, from my pov. he and i have our challenges but i believe him to be a hugely positive influence on my life. so no, i personally feel it depends ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating: what does "curious" mean? |
| boofle |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2017, 5:39 pm
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Replies: 15
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| I am on online dating sites, and i see a number of profiles say "i am curious" or "i am looking for a partner who is curious". I see it so frequently that i wonder if it is some dating lingo or innuendo that i am unfamiliar with? Does it mean someone with a fetish? it means they... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Drifting away |
| boofle |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2017, 7:26 pm
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Replies: 105
Views: 5,517
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| ^^^ this is the thing...I don't get into it because it feels pointless on here but it's wearing to read how ASD people need this, or that etc. And it's up to the NT to accommodate. If they don't/can't... it's cos "they don't want to"...an NT is supposed to do whatever the ASD needs. There'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Drifting away |
| boofle |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2017, 5:09 pm
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Replies: 105
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rdos wrote: It's your loss, not ours.
This goes both ways. If you dropped the superiority complex, you might see it. Then again it's your loss, not mine.
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Drifting away |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2017, 5:05 pm
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Replies: 105
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| Imhere entirely up to you if you engage with rdos but suffice to say he has unique perspectives and from what I have been able to gauge, is usually overfond of *leading* discussions down the ND v NT merry-go-round. I'll sum it up for you tho, to save him the bother. NDs only suffer because they try... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Im so sick of life |
| boofle |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2017, 4:17 pm
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Replies: 54
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Was today a better day?  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Homophobic and or racist Aspies here? Aspie supremacists? |
| boofle |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2017, 4:11 pm
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Replies: 84
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Chichikov wrote: boofle wrote: I'm automatically assumed to be a Muslim Probably because of your beard.
*gigglesnort*
You tired of life? I can help with that if I must  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Drifting away |
| boofle |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2017, 3:25 pm
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Replies: 105
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| And this rdos is where the problem lies and why so many aspies find to difficult to maintain friendships . .. . And Boofle . . . I slept hope you did too. I was doing art, the middle of the night always seems to be when I get the urge :D Like the proverbial log, and woke grumpy n grumbling wonderin... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Homophobic and or racist Aspies here? Aspie supremacists? |
| boofle |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2017, 3:19 pm
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Replies: 84
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| And this is the problem...the whole religion *does* deserve to be tarred as it is hateful and intolerant. The liberal left media loves to paint this picture of "moderate Islam" and that only "extremists" who blow things up are a problem, and they're all "over there". W... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Drifting away |
| boofle |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2017, 10:01 pm
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Replies: 105
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^^^not sad at all. Self preservation is important.
Know what IS sad, tho? We're both still awake at 4.00am 
Bedtime! lol |
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