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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are some weird things you've been harassed for |
| strawbebby |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 1:36 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 368
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| No reason at all really. People would beat me up in school because they said I was 'different'. Yes, there were times where I knew what it was, but a lot of the time people were extremely hostile towards me right out the gate. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Being emotionally unavailable |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 1:15 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,252
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| Ah yes, I understand perfectly what you mean. I, too, am an emotionally compromised woman. My husband on the other hand is extremely emotional and I often have trouble gauging what he means a lot of the time. Thinking about what others want, being considerate. It's hard, especially because I don't n... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What is your sexual orientation or gender |
| strawbebby |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 12:41 pm
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Replies: 137
Views: 8,638
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| homoromantic pansexual though as a pansexual i am open to all things. but i fall in love with women 99% of the time. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My Husband has a Secret Relationship w/Someone |
| strawbebby |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 11:25 am
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Replies: 112
Views: 4,452
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| Let me start this off by saying I don't think emotional 'cheating' is really cheating. I think cheating is whatever you want it to be between two partners depending on what boundaries you originally had. That being said. The secrets, the backlash, the arrogance and petty behavior. He's probably not ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling Misogynistic and Would Like Some Advice |
| strawbebby |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 10:58 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,181
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| No, every girl in the world is born with a designated partner (sarcasm). Don't be foolish. Women aren't obligated to be nice to you. And I say this objectively and seriously. No one in the world HAS to be nice. You probably, definitely, amplify the 'bad' interactions you have with them in your head ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Food textures |
| strawbebby |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 10:31 am
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Replies: 85
Views: 11,858
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| So many things that my diet is severely restricted to things that are 'okay' and things that are 'not okay'. It isn't even about taste, it's the texture. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone Else Think People Are Being Sarcastic When Theyre Not |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 10:30 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 499
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| Yes. I always ask them 'are you being sarcastic or for real' (sometimes just 'seriously?') because if I ignore a serious thing they get all pissy. It's so annoying because I just expect everyone around me to be sarcastic. I can't understand it for the life of me and I hate it. I wish it would go away. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: what were you scared of as a kid |
| strawbebby |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 10:22 am
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Replies: 44
Views: 1,600
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| Hay bales, the vent because I was convinced it was a monster inside the house, the dark, and wood because I feared getting splinters. I also went through a brief germaphobe phase and refused to sleep in places I thought were dirty, such as hotels or using toilets that weren't my own from my house. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Dealing with self-hatred |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 10:19 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 470
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| You let it pass over you. It's just a feeling, nothing more nothing less. You should find something you enjoy like a video game or a movie or exercise that you like to do during those times. Distract yourself from your thoughts. I'm bipolar and suffer from chronic depression. I haven't felt genuinel... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How would you interpret this The Dark Knight Rises quote? |
| strawbebby |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 10:07 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 484
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to accept "un-forgiveness" |
| strawbebby |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 10:05 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 760
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| You made a mistake and acting like a royal as*hole. I been there, plenty. I can't blame everything on autism or my other disorders. I'm an adult and have to take responsibility. So here's what you do. First, you forgive yourself. You say to yourself 'I messed up'. This won't happen over night. It ma... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: NT girls are the worst..... |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 9:59 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 3,910
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| As other users have stated, it's a socialization thing that occurs with women. Often times, girls get roped into socializing in large circles during school and then it just branches out from there. I've had a lot of jobs in my past and honestly it sounds like they just don't like you at all and want... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Sexual orientation in spectrum women? |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2016, 4:36 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,126
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| I've never found myself attracted to people, humans really. I do watch porn and am not a virgin. I identify as pansexual but I really have little to no sex drive. I have fallen in love with women though, men? Never. (I'm currently married to a man but I can't say that what I feel for him is what I f... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Why are people so hard to understand at times? |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2016, 4:21 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,267
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| You need to be more specific on what happened between you and the friends who 'betrayed' you. I can't glean much information or post any serious thoughts without it. That being said, this has happened to me multiple times and I'm not a very peaceful type of person. I always get to the root of the pr... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: People more responsive when you're not trying to be friendl? |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2016, 4:05 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,017
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| Often times people are perceptive towards those of us that are quiet and withdrawn. I rarely, if ever see any reason to be social towards a person I don't know. This draws people towards me. They say the air of mystery is what makes them curious. I have never been bubbly or excitable myself, so I ca... |
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