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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rushing to get a relationship |
| muffinhead |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2018, 8:12 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 479
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| Meditate, analyze and be patient. Then indulge yourself by surfing the web and making plans for "little things". "Oh, there's a thing I think she'd like *bookmarked*". "When the time is right, I'm going to suggest this activity *favorited*". "I am so getting her o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Morally much worse men than you. |
| muffinhead |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2018, 8:10 am
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Replies: 120
Views: 4,566
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| None of us are saying we're entitled to a relationship. This thread was started as a rebuttal to "no wonder you don't have a gf" , which is probably something that was said to the OP. ''no wonder you don't have a boyfriend.'' ''no wonder you're not married.'' ''no wonder you don't have ma... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rushing to get a relationship |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2018, 12:32 am
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Mudboy wrote: Take a cold shower? 
I already do...have been for 4 years... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rushing to get a relationship |
| muffinhead |
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Posted: 08 Mar 2018, 11:14 pm
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Replies: 6
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| So, I just had a date with a girl...it went fine, we connected, and I think the interest is there. However, at this point, I feel the special interest urge coming on, the kind that makes you want to accelerate a relationship way too fast, and the kind that will scare someone away. Is there anything ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Morally much worse men than you. |
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Posted: 08 Mar 2018, 11:07 pm
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Replies: 120
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| I disagree with the premise of this thread. Why? Because having someone who's morally worse than us and still is in a relationship changes nothing and entitles us to nothing. I strive to be the best man I can be, f$#^ the rest. None of us are saying we're entitled to a relationship. This thread was... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Morally much worse men than you. |
| muffinhead |
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Posted: 08 Mar 2018, 10:38 pm
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Replies: 120
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| I disagree with the premise of this thread. Why? Because having someone who's morally worse than us and still is in a relationship changes nothing and entitles us to nothing. I strive to be the best man I can be, f$#^ the rest. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Porn/masturbation addiction |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2017, 3:57 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 186
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| What do you class as an addiction? Is it like 3 times a day? I masturbate nearly every day and I am an aspi woman. I am in a relationship but I have to say. I prefer solo activity. If its taking over your life and more than twice a day, I would class it as a problem even for a male. There has been ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Porn/masturbation addiction |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2017, 3:44 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 186
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| Hello all, I've realized my use of porn and frequency of masturbation has become a problem. I'd rather prefer to jerk off than talk to a girl and invest my time into hooking up/a relationship. So I deleted all the porn off my computer and have sworn off masturbation. It's been 7 days, and it's getti... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Issues With Alcohol |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2017, 9:10 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Yah, drink less. I don't become angry or violent, but alcohol depresses me so I tend to keep my usage under control. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are relationships for me? |
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Posted: 05 Mar 2017, 10:57 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 548
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| I just broke up with my girlfriend because I realized I didn't feel much emotion toward her. This was my first relationship, and it lasted about 5 months. My question is: are relationships for me? There were few moments when I felt genuine emotion in this relationship, and I felt that it largely was... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Issues in relationship with likely aspie girl |
| muffinhead |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2017, 10:26 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 109
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| are her issues with sex religiously based? that's the first thing i thought of. under rules like that, intimate activities like oral and heavy petting might be ok, but the line is drawn at penetrative sex from what i gather. i've known people who would be very reticent with their feelings when talk... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Issues in relationship with likely aspie girl |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2017, 1:44 pm
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Replies: 3
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| I've been dating a girl for the past few months who is very likely an Aspie. Several problems have arisen as we have gotten further along: she has issues about disclosing her emotions with me; she'll often clam up about her feelings rather than discuss them. She will have periods of time when she cu... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Asperger's and weird taste in music. |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 11:30 pm
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Replies: 164
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| I think if you're already alienated from society it's more likely that you'll explore different music types than the mainstream. That is so true. Is it a cause and effect, like aspergers causing the alienation which causes the music taste, or is the music taste inherent in aspergers? I think it's t... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Interview the person below you, adult version |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 9:55 pm
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Replies: 1,224
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Alliekit wrote: For me to know  What is one thing that would really turn you off?
Having a girl with bad breath in bed with me. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Asperger's and weird taste in music. |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 7:08 pm
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Replies: 164
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| Being 20 and liking shoegaze kind of sucks lol. I haven't met anyone my age who likes it, let alone knows what it is. There is a pretty huge resurgence of shoegaze at the moment, lots of newer bands are co-opting the original sound and incorporating other musical textures in to it. Yeah, I've kind ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Asperger's and weird taste in music. |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2017, 4:52 pm
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Replies: 164
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| If I do listen to music with vocals it's more about the sound of the voice (almost as an instrument) than the lyrics. I love trad folk, opera, hardcore punk because of how the voice is used as well as the music behind it. You would love shoegaze, then (if you don't already already) It's a little ji... |
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