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Forum: The Haven Topic: Graduating without friends |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2024, 8:13 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 697
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Congrats! I never went to proms and such since i did not have any friends either.
I know it feels lonely when it is in your age, but most people don't care about their classmates either way when they start working and have a family. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I Have More Time in my Apartment |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2024, 10:52 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,392
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I wish i could help you, moving is very stressful. I have attachments to certain objects and not being able to see them is hard for me also.
Did you pack everything already? I hope you can relax a bit for the remainder of your days in your old apartment. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Every day is sadder |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2024, 12:10 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 709
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| I am so sorry. Losing the people who really see and understand us is very painful. I hope it gets easier with time. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today. |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2024, 5:50 am
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Replies: 31,992
Views: 1,118,443
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| Selfish and heartless people |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Is it weird to have an imaginary friend |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2024, 3:52 am
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Replies: 71
Views: 5,243
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| I used to have several when i was a child. I am not sure if it is abnormal when you are an adult |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you happy today. |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2024, 12:36 pm
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Replies: 32,983
Views: 1,331,796
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Have not smoked today either.
Also tea with cinnamon. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: single for "life" |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2024, 12:25 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 3,719
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| I will probably be single for life, because i dont live in a country where people would want an autistic girlfriend, wife or mother. And i am lacking in too many ways to be a wife and mother my society expects me to be. It does not particularly make me sad, as much as anxious since i am afraid to be... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2024, 12:01 pm
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Replies: 35,371
Views: 1,869,222
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IsabellaLinton wrote: AprilR wrote: 3. I cried a lot today too. Crying helps with managing the ever present rage inside me. Hugs, April. 
Thank you so much, i had a meltdown but feeling better now. I missed talking to you. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today. |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2024, 10:09 am
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Replies: 31,992
Views: 1,118,443
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2024, 7:39 am
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Replies: 35,371
Views: 1,869,222
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| 3. I cried a lot today too. Crying helps with managing the ever present rage inside me. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I’m Sooo Scared, I Really Need My Friends |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2024, 7:26 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 1,280
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| I wish you could get the help you need. I know i would be a mess dealing with all this with no help. Thank you April, you are a good friend :heart: I have my sister helping, my cousin & my aunt, but they don’t understand Autism. Thank you too for saying this. I wish i could help more. It is har... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I’m Sooo Scared, I Really Need My Friends |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 10 Feb 2024, 12:14 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 1,280
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| I wish you could get the help you need. I know i would be a mess dealing with all this with no help. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: scared of being in a relationship |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 10 Feb 2024, 8:25 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 3,821
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| Yep, that's also what i feel. I often worry about things getting serious, them learning i have autism and being put off. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Casual sex poll |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 10 Feb 2024, 8:22 am
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Replies: 61
Views: 3,883
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| I would not, partly bc of religious reasons, and partly bc i could not do that with someone i don't know well or trust. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Varying reactions from friends: need help deciphering |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 10 Feb 2024, 8:14 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 2,762
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| It is understandable she is angry, she must have felt that people on the internet might judge her, even though it was an anonymous post. It is a difficult situation. But i know you did not mean to hurt her, you might explain that you have a hard time understanding others and your own feelings and so... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do You Hide Your Special Interest? |
| AprilR |
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Posted: 10 Feb 2024, 8:06 am
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Replies: 52
Views: 4,871
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| Yes i do. I am already weird enough without them and i am scared of ppl's reactions when i dont hide them |
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