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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: preventing meltdowns in long-term aspie/aspie relationship? |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2013, 4:27 pm
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| Do you have tips? My spouse is high-functioning enough, or I just find it "normal", that I never notice problems until they're already problematic. We have communication issues, where from my SO's perspective I've been told multiple times what they want/think. But I haven't picked up on it at all. A... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: private health insurance form AS disclosure... HELP |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2012, 9:08 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Thanks for the answers so far. I think he'll say "no". His actual diagnosis was more than 5 years ago. The supportive services I mentioned were just somebody coming by and checking up on him weekly. He doesn't think that would have been a psychologist or anything. And I can't figure out any way to p... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism/Asperger's and Health Insurance |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2012, 9:04 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 3,333
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Huh? AS is actually about to be removed. It has it's own insurance code.
I don't know if you will get penalized on future coverage or not. The health insurance form I'm filling out right now does ask if you've been diagnosed with autism. (See my post on this forum.) |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: private health insurance form AS disclosure... HELP |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 9:20 pm
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| My friend just moved here from another country where he had some supportive living help because he was in school and it fell under "school services". They don't use the DSM there, so he isn't coded under that, but under whatever they use in Europe. I think HFA is the official diagnosis. Anyway, he n... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: help i forgot my girlfriend's birthday |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2010, 4:22 pm
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Replies: 8
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| She sees me in person soon. I sent a picture of cookies and said I'd give something later at the airport... Hmm... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: help i forgot my girlfriend's birthday |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2010, 4:35 am
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Replies: 8
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| lives in another country actually. So I'm not sure that sending flowers or something would work too well. If I'd thought about it earlier maybe a fluffy stuffed animal. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: help i forgot my girlfriend's birthday |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2010, 2:42 am
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Replies: 8
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| what do i do? i need something i can sent virtually (ie online) asap! |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: AS bf lost his job and now needs alone time?? |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 05 May 2010, 8:33 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 9,153
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| Looks like you both have major stressful events that just happened to you. Either could lead to short-term depression, etc. So don't downplay the seriousness of things here. That said, the important thing is how you handle it now. How have you best communicated in the past? Use that and some direct ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: How do you know you are ready for marriage? |
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Posted: 05 May 2010, 8:23 pm
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Replies: 9
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| Wow! Great answers so far! Thanks! (I can't wait to see what else people post!) |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Virgin's curiosity/confusion. |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 05 May 2010, 7:54 pm
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Replies: 51
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| There's always craigslist. If you want casual, the NSA section would work. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: What do you wish you had known before you got married? |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 05 May 2010, 7:22 pm
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Replies: 32
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What do you wish you had known? (Besides that you were an aspie!) What advice would you give to others?
(It seemed like a good idea to ask this in parallel with the other thread I started.) |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: How do you know you are ready for marriage? |
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Posted: 05 May 2010, 7:15 pm
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| There. That question should avoid reasons like "tax breaks". How do you know that you are *really* ready? Please stay on topic: Please don't answer "I don't think I'll ever get married" or "never because I'll never meet someone, I'm so lonely". There are plenty of other threads where you can discuss... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Love Stories |
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Posted: 05 May 2010, 7:06 pm
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Replies: 48
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| This guy asked for a love story, not tales of woe or stalking. Stalking would be something more akin to what I did in middle school. It took college for me to figure out how dating was supposed to work. Fast forward. I'm formally diagnosed with ADD. I decided that my exes all had aspie traits to the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Criteria for your perfect partner |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2008, 3:43 pm
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Replies: 144
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ducasse wrote: I don't how people can have so many criteria & guidelines - I've never had a clue what I'm looking for. I just go on chemistry, I guess?
I am seeing lots of very silly criteria here though. :) |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Criteria for your perfect partner |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2008, 3:40 pm
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Replies: 144
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| I don't how people can have so many criteria & guidelines - I've never had a clue what I'm looking for. I just go on chemistry, I guess? Mine were "predictors of long-term success". And oh right I forgot chemistry! To remedy that: must be a geek. (And it was stated that this is "perfect" partne... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autistics Have Better Vision Than Birds of Prey |
| Penelope_asparagus |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2008, 3:35 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Post what you get under the units the original study was done in! That goes for all of you... And post how far back you sit/stand. And yes, I physically moved 2m so i could reach my keyboard so i could take the test at 4m. I agree, there's no point comparing numbers taken under different setups, ev... |
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