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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Forever being alone as a Aspie |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2020, 9:28 am
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Replies: 69
Views: 4,514
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| It is dismissive to suggest that the experience that if you are 'off' NT women are more likely to pounce on you outright is ridiculous if that is OPs experience or indeed, mine...being a female NOT romantically inclined to other females and having lived in 4 countries in different cultures about 12... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Forever being alone as a Aspie |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2020, 5:25 pm
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Replies: 69
Views: 4,514
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| Ive seen enough of NT women to know their bullying and cruelty is disproportionate to men who are NT. Cannot discount someones experience based on political correctness and 'how things probably are' And I've seen enough of NT men to know they are capable of just the same amount of bullying and crue... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Forever being alone as a Aspie |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2020, 11:34 am
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Replies: 69
Views: 4,514
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| Part of the real problem here is I do have social Awkwardness and have some of the typical aspie social difficulties(tho I'm have been trying to work on that). Also many women in my area are stuck up and many people in general are hostile towards people who are different.I did have some male friend... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Forever being alone as a Aspie |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2020, 6:10 am
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Replies: 69
Views: 4,514
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| I used to have a job(not that it made any real difference far as if women like me or not),but I was laid off.I do live alone in my apartment,however I don't have a car at the moment. My hobbies includes bowling,Writing,gaming(tho been less interested with gaming lately),Writing,reading,photography,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Forever being alone as a Aspie |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2020, 5:29 pm
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Replies: 69
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| I haven't met a single woman who has been accepting towards my Aspie traits. So what are your "Aspie traits?" I do have social Awkwardness,which is something that has effected me the most in my daily life.I always been shy and awkward. There's times I struggle with body language and under... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Forever being alone as a Aspie |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2020, 3:19 pm
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Replies: 69
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rick42 wrote:
I haven't met a single woman who has been accepting towards my Aspie traits.
So what are your "Aspie traits?" |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why would this be a deal breaker? |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 05 Apr 2020, 5:02 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,607
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| Bill Belichick, the coach of the New England Patriots, is supposed to have Aspie traits. Ah I see. Well in that case, the answer is obvious. His net worth is supposed to be estimated at about $35 million. Some women will forgive a lot of faults if the guy has enough money. I mean look at both of Tr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why would this be a deal breaker? |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 05 Apr 2020, 4:28 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,607
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Tim_Tex wrote:
Sorry not following... I know who he is but I don't get it |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why would this be a deal breaker? |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 05 Apr 2020, 3:51 pm
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Replies: 24
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| Why would having a monotone voice and lack of facial expressions be a big deal breaker when it comes to a guy on the spectrum trying to attract women? Because it comes across as weird and unsettling. If you're not familiar with the term "uncanny valley" look it up. Basically, you look hum... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm worried about getting coronavirus |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2020, 3:44 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 1,110
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| [ But I know I'm going to die of this. It says that a million people have died from it worldwide but only a few thousand have survived it. Is that correct? Ahhh... no. https://coronavirus.jhu.edu/map.html Something like 80% of people who contract the novel coronavirus have mild symptoms which resol... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What’s wrong this generation? |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 03 Apr 2020, 1:07 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,177
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| It's incredibly strange that people base their "type" on how a person looks, instead of whether they are attracted to the person and interested in getting to know them better. There's something terribly wrong with this new generation. Do you agree with my opinion? Literally from your post... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help me figure this out....... |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2020, 8:17 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 1,130
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Angnix wrote: So ummmm.... Why would someone play with hearts???
Because they can.
They can't do it if you walk away from them. People will treat you the way that you allow them to. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Is this bullying? |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2020, 11:24 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 481
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| Yes, it's called Relational Bullying or Relational Aggression. It's used more by girls than boys. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Nice Personality" |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2020, 1:55 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,150
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| We talked... There are personal reasons why he can't be public with anything, kinda personal and hard to explain... That's what's called a "soft" no. It's when you blame something else (it's not the right time; I'm not ready; etc.) for the reason they aren't dating you rather than just sa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The word "homely" |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 08 Mar 2020, 5:27 pm
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Replies: 53
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| the male form of the word (directed at males) is " unconventionally attractive ." but i concede that is meant as more of a euphemism for homely. Actually, when I learned that "homely" is a bad word, I learned it in context of describing men. In particular, I was reading the foll... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Simple question about being Gay |
| Luhluhluh |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2020, 7:59 am
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Replies: 8
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Noam2353 wrote: I'm not gay myself
So why aren't you bisexual? If you were bisexual, you'd have double the chances of love/relationships. |
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