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 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Abusive "Aspergers" Female and BPD friend

Hershey9999
Posted: 19 Feb 2017, 12:05 am 

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As some one with BPD I recognize that sometimes I unintentionally hurt people which can sometimes be seen as manipulative and toxic. For an example I tend to idolize people who I am with and think they are the greatest thing ever! But if they do something to upset me. I will hate them and shut off f...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Abusive "Aspergers" Female and BPD friend

Hershey9999
Posted: 18 Feb 2017, 8:36 pm 

Replies: 14
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I have noticed some (not all) as*hole Aspergers try to use it as an excuse to be mean and rude to people. I get not understanding social cues but blatantly insulting people is not okay whether Aspergers, BPD, ADHD etc or not. If you make a mistake and accidentally insult someone you apologize and t...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Abusive "Aspergers" Female and BPD friend

Hershey9999
Posted: 18 Feb 2017, 8:18 pm 

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Your ex-friend sounds more like a narcissist than an autistic. Gaslighting is a hallmark behavior of narcissism. And an autistic would likely feel ashamed of their lack of social skills, while a narcissist would be more likely to brag about treating people badly. I guess she be both narcissistic an...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Abusive "Aspergers" Female and BPD friend

Hershey9999
Posted: 17 Feb 2017, 5:56 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 1,135
I have noticed some (not all) a**hole Aspergers try to use it as an excuse to be mean and rude to people. I get not understanding social cues but blatantly insulting people is not okay whether Aspergers, BPD, ADHD etc or not. If you make a mistake and accidentally insult someone you apologize and tr...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Abusive "Aspergers" Female and BPD friend

Hershey9999
Posted: 17 Feb 2017, 9:05 am 

Replies: 14
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Well, there's no guarantee someone with Aspergers isn't also an a$$hole. OK, we're famously tactless. But your ex-"friend" wasn't just being tactless, she was actively malicious too. I'm glad you walked away from her. I used to spend some time at a mental health outreach centre, back when...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Abusive "Aspergers" Female and BPD friend

Hershey9999
Posted: 17 Feb 2017, 8:36 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 1,135
Hi, I'm a girl with BPD and anxiety and I was in a friendship with a girl who claimed she had Asperger's. I was fine with that I had met a few people Asperger's who seemed like nice enough, compassionate people even if they were a bit socially awkward. My friend and I became friends after we shared ...
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