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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: It's Not the End of the World, but Rather a New Beginning |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2017, 9:47 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 600
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| For almost all of my "life", I have had no friends. When I did, almost all of them were superficial, judgmental, and condescending. Quite frankly, I get the feeling that people like people that are similar to themselves. Both in terms of positive and negative traits. They do not see their ... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: I can't learn |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2017, 9:47 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,131
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| when i was 21, i got diagnosed. @ that time, i was in college. the college only accepted diagnosis reports from psychologists that specialized in learning disabilities. the college told me i could not get a diagnosis from the college or from Kaiser. it had to be out of pocket. yes, it was harder to ... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Anyone else do activities at school? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2017, 10:28 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 569
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| 5th grade: 6 month swim lessons, 6 month clarinet lessons 8th grade: dance class in school, drama class in school, band in school. Capoeira and karate after school for 8 weeks, each. then they got cancelled. swimming one month or so. high school: 2 seasons tennis, 1 season cross country, 4 season sw... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: I never wanted to go to college |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2017, 10:13 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,616
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| Technical schools offer trades that do not require algebra. Job Corps provides job training. The military provides job training. Year Up Peace Corps Americorps live with a friend or live with someone homeless shelter youth hostel "violent rages" - please go to a psychologist or psychiatris... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Things you used to believe |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2017, 9:28 pm
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Replies: 196
Views: 7,833
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| used to believe it was illegal to go in the wrong bathroom. used to believe that if someone was academically smart, it guaranteed that they were morally good. wrong. it took a lot of doing, to learn that lesson. and that was over 10 years ago and 500 miles away. and still i get preoccupied with it e... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I feel like I'm failing at life |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2017, 11:02 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 661
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| Likewise, right now, I am 34 years old. Nobody has ever dated me. Thus far, I have only worked minimum wage jobs. As a result, I feel like a failure and a loser. When I look up former classmates, they appear more educated than me. They look happy and they have friends. But that is not necessarily an... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I feel like I'm failing at life |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2017, 10:59 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 661
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| Likewise, right now, I am 34 years old. Nobody has ever dated me. Thus far, I have only worked minimum wage jobs. As a result, I feel like a failure and a loser. When I look up former classmates, they appear more educated than me. They look happy and they have friends. But that is not necessarily an... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: A random fact about me. |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2017, 10:46 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,541
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starting before high school, i practiced writing left and right handed. now that i am 34, i still do so daily.
i do not get the point of anything.
sometimes i get annoyed when precious little "most people" talk too much.
obsessed with eating.
obsessed with the past |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What hobbies do people have? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2017, 10:42 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 1,625
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before college: swimming, jogging, taekwondo, tennis, clarinet, theater
during college: biking
after college: surfing the net is not a hobby, but waste a lot of time on it
gorging
reading |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Food you eat every day? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2017, 10:35 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 435
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yams, 4 servings
clif bars, luna bars, cereal
oranges, apples, bananas,
once a week: sushi, epicurean tofu |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: The most fun you've ever had recently |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 9:53 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 2,136
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psychotherapy
driving to lucky's
surfing internet |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Not helping others in general |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 9:48 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 457
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sometimes i do not know what to do to help. sometimes i am too lazy to help.
sometimes someone asks for cash, but giving them cash might enable them to get drugs. and that is not helping.
sometimes i can't help b/c no skill/time/money. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What song are you listening to now? |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 9:27 pm
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Replies: 31,604
Views: 1,669,823
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What are you grateful for? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 9:15 pm
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Replies: 1,283
Views: 29,518
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| grateful for room and board associates degree, bachelors degree grateful the current city is much less homophobic than the former one grateful k-12 and undergrad are over grateful weigh under 110# grateful for gender identity disorder, clinical depression, and autism diagnoses grateful in the curren... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today. |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 9:06 pm
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Replies: 32,146
Views: 1,136,416
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| yesterday my precious lil "dad" got galbladder surgery. 2 years ago he got diagnosed for stage four colon cancer. today, for the first time, he needed help getting out of bed. right now, it is just him and me living here. paranoid sooner or later, i have to do nothing but help him with bod... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What are you eating?/Last thing you ate? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2017, 9:00 pm
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Replies: 19,356
Views: 805,849
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| apples chocolate chips peanut butter white chocolate clif bar hersheys cookies and cream bar yams oranges strawberries epicurean tofu. delicious. last night ate too many yams and dried yams. felt bloated/full, but not out of control. ate slowly and enjoyed it. just ate too much. as a result, today, ... |
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