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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When you ask out girls they commonly claim they are busy. |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 10
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| In all honesty, what would you (men) prefer for women to say? I've never said I was busy because I'm brutally honest. If I'm not interested I say so. I worry about hurting men's feelings but I can't lie. It's not like I've ever been very busy anyway, apart from working business hours. Seriously, wha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Toxic Stuff in Movies about L&D |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 12
Views: 226
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| Something about LM just seemed so obvious to me. I guess it was the distinction of water vs land. Also it was a huge movie and merchandise thing when my daughter was that age, so she was seeing it everywhere. We actually loved A Cinderella Story (movie) (Hillary Duff), and Ever After. We don't have ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make myself attractive to NT women? |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 88
Views: 1,824
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| I agree with you Minervx_2, to the extent that people with dating experience shouldn't have their opinions dismissed. Also, since it's a question about what women find attractive I'd assume they're in a better place to answer than men. Men can guess why women have been attracted to them or to other ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: The man vs bear meme |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 161
Views: 2,311
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The truth of the matter is that bears don't rape people.
Women are frightened of SA, possibly even more than being mauled.
That speaks volumes about how traumatic it is to survive SA. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Toxic Stuff in Movies about L&D |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 12
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| When my daughter was young I didn't like her to watch The Little Mermaid. If I read her the book I always changed the story, too. I didn't like the fact Ariel gave up her voice, her family, her life underwater, and her mermaid tail, just to make a man happy and be in love. What did he give up for he... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Sleeping |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 2
Views: 55
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| How often do you have difficulty falling or staying asleep? Always, my whole life. I've needed prescription sleep meds every night for decades. I had a sleep study that showed my brain doesn't do the normal sleep / wake patterns on its own, so I need meds just like a diabetic might need insulin. I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make myself attractive to NT women? |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 88
Views: 1,824
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| I think a woman who is popular with men is the best person to ask if you are a woman who wants to know how to get popular with men. I'm not trying to be nit-picky but despite the fact I've been popular with men I have no idea why they've liked me or why I was popular. How would I know? Unless I've ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make myself attractive to NT women? |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 88
Views: 1,824
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| Given the mods' better access to information, they are "smarter" about what's going on than the average member. They're also harder to "fool", because they have records going back to the time each person joined. In my opinion that does give them better judgment skills than the re... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make myself attractive to NT women? |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 88
Views: 1,824
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| I think a man who is popular with women is the best person to ask if you are a man who wants to know how to get popular with women. I think a woman who is popular with men is the best person to ask if you are a woman who wants to know how to get popular with men. I think it's impossible to know the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make myself attractive to NT women? |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 88
Views: 1,824
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| The answer is quite simple. Mods and admin can see posts which people have written and deleted on their own accord. They can also see records of posts which were deleted or edited by any mod, like a history of each member with moderation notes attached. They know about previous warnings and bans giv... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: When to have the chat? |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 15
Views: 10,158
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DuckHairback wrote: Well we have a date for the first part of her assessment. Finally. Over two years since we first requested one. End of May.
Wow! Congratulations. How does your daughter feel about it? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make myself attractive to NT women? |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 88
Views: 1,824
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| I had a boyfriend before I met my husband ... I knew this, but it's unlikely anyone else would remember or victim-blame you for it. It seems the relationship wasn't abusive enough to be good mocking material for WP. I was assaulted by a guy “friend” the day of the breakup. I know and I'm sorry. Tha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make myself attractive to NT women? |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 88
Views: 1,824
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| My response was toward this comment: "Hey, take my advice, and look at my dating history whilst you are at it." It gives an impression that people who have experienced abuse, trauma, or victimization are hypocritical or undesirable sources of dating advice. It suggests we're also at fault ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you happy today. |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 33,057
Views: 1,343,068
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A beautiful sunset, Strip Scrabble, and the John Lennon / May Pang love story documentary.  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 35,381
Views: 1,878,284
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^ 
I'm 8.5
I'd say 10 but we're watching a noisy movie and my tooth hurts. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I make myself attractive to NT women? |
| IsabellaLinton |
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Replies: 88
Views: 1,824
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| My ex-h was my first boyfriend. He was a great boyfriend, or so I thought. It wasn't until we got married that things got weird. He later admitted he married me for my money. Things went bad fast and he was later diagnosed NPD but I certainly didn't have any unhealthy tendencies at the time except f... |
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