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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you base relationships on sex? |
| Sahh |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2018, 2:29 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 1,096
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| I could never base a relationship on sex. It's a small component of something greater. That said, if I ever did get married, I would never wait, because you can learn a lot about someone through sex. Also, if there is a distinct difference in drive, or interest, it will be a point of contention late... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Different stims for emotions |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2018, 1:51 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 299
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| I don't know that I've really paid close attention to context, but I'll give it a shot. Concentration or idle time: - Face rubbing - Chewing or pulling on lower lip - Rubbing my tongue against teeth - Constant toe curls and movement - Knuckle cracking Stress/ anxiety - Rocking - Thumb sucking :oops:... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Naked Wedding |
| Sahh |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2018, 8:10 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,000
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Cool idea, but birthday suits tend to wrinkle.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do girls want cocky, arrogant guys? |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2018, 7:42 am
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Replies: 454
Views: 72,798
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| Women are the connoisseurs of life, they want different flavors. They want to try all kinds of men until they hit 'the wall' and want to settle down. Right now they don't want you but later on after they realize exciting boys are not good family men and father figures they come seeking you out beca... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you happy today. |
| Sahh |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2018, 7:13 am
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Replies: 32,990
Views: 1,334,064
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Going for an early morning run with my dog  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do girls want cocky, arrogant guys? |
| Sahh |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2018, 7:06 am
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Replies: 454
Views: 72,798
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| Wouldn't it be a lot easier for guys if they didn't try to befriend girls before dating them? I find it works better to just go directly to dating. I think you'd be limiting yourself further from potential connections, as that's not always an option. Do you think it would be so bad if you actually ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neurotypical Privilege |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2018, 10:54 pm
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Replies: 256
Views: 16,719
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| Privilege points drive me crazy. It's a game of relativity. People judged to be "privileged" are subject to responsibility and mindfulness for everyone beneath them, but as you go farther down, does the chain continue? Shall we talk of high functioning privilege? Verbal privilege? And wha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do girls want cocky, arrogant guys? |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2018, 10:29 pm
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Replies: 454
Views: 72,798
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| When I went through Airmen Leadership School, I made friends with a dude who was into video games and a gym rat, much like myself. I invited him to come hang out with me because I thought he was cool. Unknown to me, he was interested in more than friendship. Wouldn't it be a lot easier for guys if ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do girls want cocky, arrogant guys? |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2018, 8:28 am
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Replies: 454
Views: 72,798
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| I have been nice to many women and have been asked out by them from out of nowhere. Was not looking for love or anything. Back then I wasn't a confident man. Stop generalizing women and blaming them for your problems. Thank you. Exactly! Relationships are more dynamic than the initial question impl... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neurotypical Privilege |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2018, 9:54 pm
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Replies: 256
Views: 16,719
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| Privilege points drive me crazy. It's a game of relativity. People judged to be "privileged" are subject to responsibility and mindfulness for everyone beneath them, but as you go farther down, does the chain continue? Shall we talk of high functioning privilege? Verbal privilege? And wha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How common are female aspies who haven't dated yet? |
| Sahh |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2018, 11:50 am
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Replies: 106
Views: 4,775
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| I don't know. For me though, I have plenty of experience, but am still childlike in the sense that I don't want/need to "progress" things in a relationship. That is, I have no interest in cohabiting, sharing finances, marrying, or having babies. A relationship for me is mostly about shari... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a idiom/expression you imagined literally |
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Posted: 21 Jun 2018, 5:40 pm
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Replies: 101
Views: 1,947
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| two birds with one stone :lol: i just see two birds and a stone lol Ha, that's milder than the original at least! I'm used to the full "to kill two birds with one stone" version. Sometimes I modify the more agressive expressions in my head... "Save two birds with one net" to mea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Turtles? |
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Posted: 21 Jun 2018, 10:02 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 980
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TheSpectrum wrote:
Ha! Nice work   |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: do you think this would be a therapeutically useful product? |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2018, 10:15 pm
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Replies: 10
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| I'm all about the real deal... I mean, it can be overwhelming, but my dog forces me to go out at regular intervals and enjoy living in the moment on those days I'd rather get sucked into a project. He's also super sweet and doesn't try to small talk. That said, I'm sure it could help someone who can... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is Autism the next step in evolution? |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2018, 8:59 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 1,528
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| No, because evolution does not have "steps." This! If anything, if autism is involved in the evolutionary process, it's competing with NTs and other sorts. That being said, I don't see how being unable to access large portions of the brain would be an evolutionary advantage. My husband is... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: We're not good enough |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2018, 11:11 pm
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Replies: 113
Views: 5,008
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| Just because we all have the same neuro-quirk, doesn't mean that we're all the same. And that goes for the NT's out there. We have deficits, but we also have strengths, and I personally would prefer someone to be real, honest and passionate about their goals and interests, regardless of their compos... |
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