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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: No Contact, How Long? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2018, 1:16 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 390
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| If she said no more contact ever, then you simply respect that. She wants no contact so there is no contacting her, since it was her decision she'll contact you first if she changes her mind and you can decide then wether you want to talk to her or not. Don't come off as a stalker. No means no. This... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: what look should I have on my face when just walking around? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2018, 1:12 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 2,140
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| I get that too. When sitting with a group of people I always try to smile a lot especially since I talk little to nothing in a group usually so if I don't even smile everyone thinks I hate them and that I hate being there which is totally understandable, I think that too if someone i'm with looks gr... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: False positives on Autism screenings? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2018, 9:09 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 482
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| Autists not having empathy is a misconception by NTs with prejudices, I think it derives from many autists having trouble expressing their empathy - myself included - due to our poorer social skills. I am highly empathetic myself and if I read about an accident in the newspaper or someone close to m... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: I'm sick of the men on WP. |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2018, 9:04 am
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Replies: 108
Views: 4,121
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| I suppose that's easier than to realize we're all responsible for how our life looks. What really boggles my mind is how often they recieve good advice on how to turn your life around but all they respond to that is by bringing up why their life is so bad AGAIN - of course it can never get better if... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: anyone struggle with bad stomach |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2018, 3:41 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 577
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| Yes. Before dates with someone I don't know well enough yet and sometimes even before going out with a friend I get so nervous I end up close to or actually vomiting with severe stomach cramps or nausea. It usually passes a while into hanging out though. I also get it when travelling or doing anythi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Paying for Dating Apps |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2018, 3:34 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 305
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| No I don't use any that requires payment because the age of the people on those apps are usually higher and I have no interest in dating anyone older than me, I want us to be in exactly the same place in life. I've had no problem dating on free apps although you can tell some men there are not very ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Comparing myself to other people. Good or Bad ? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2018, 8:48 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 575
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| It is always bad. The healthy thing to do is to pay attention to our own successes wether big or small as everyone's different therefore we shouldn't compare. Yes some people accomplish a lot at a young age but they may have an incredibly high drive and be very business minded or whatever - not ever... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Does Being "In Love" Feel Like For An Aspie? |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2018, 8:10 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 4,513
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| I'm very all or nothing. When i'm in love with someone everything about them gives me butterflies and I love their eyes, smile, voice, laughter, the way they move everything and I think about them a lot everyday and i've even experienced getting so overwhelmed with emotions i've nearly cried. I have... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Will my baby be like me |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2018, 8:00 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 753
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| Autism is genetic. However there's a 50% chance and a baby doesn't always get affected by things that are genetic. I don't think it's a big deal and i'm sure you'll love your baby regardless. You can go get your child evaluted at a young age (I would) and if he/she has autism they can start getting ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The "no contact" thing in today's American culture |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2018, 4:46 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 1,283
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| It's quite normal to wanna let go of your ex wether the relationship was bad or not. I would never invest any time in a man who was still friends with his ex - could be because I had a bad experience of a guy who cheated on me several times with his ex-girlfriend and that way broke up 2 relationship... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How did you start dating? |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2018, 12:48 pm
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Replies: 44
Views: 1,295
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| I went online on dating apps. Never had a problem getting a date it would just sort of happen naturally he ask me out or I ask him out after chatting for a while. |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Don't be naive about calling Trump supporters racist |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2018, 8:16 am
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Replies: 60
Views: 1,710
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I've never met anyone who likes Trump who also isn't a racist and has lots of prejudices against anyone who's non-white.
I'm not too involved in politics in general but I think that says something. |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Alcohol and anxiety |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2018, 8:15 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 343
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| what does in the long run mean? It means longterm. Like how it will affect your life in the longterm not just in the moment. It may help a little in the moment but if you keep turning to alcohol whenever you feel anxious obviously it's gonna have a negative outcome and affect your life and anxiety ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My friend has been acting different and snarky towards me. |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2018, 9:16 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 255
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| I had a friend like that too. :( We were best friends and all of a sudden he changed his behavior towards me to snarky and mean, would make fun of me and call me names like stupid, ret*d etc. I laughed it off but it hurt me and I didn't understand why, if ever I got upset he told me I was being sens... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Undiagnosed, unsure of what the heck I have |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2018, 8:16 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 585
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| Just because you don't have every symptom of a diagnose doesn't mean you don't have it. I got diagnosed this year with aspergers and social anxiety. I do not stim, I do not have meltdowns. I am sensitive to sound, bright light and touch but not scents. I can handle sudden changes if I have to. I am ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: She’s trying to get over me. |
| superaliengirl |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2018, 7:49 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 878
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| ... I was very good friends with my ex then all of a sudden he didn't want any further contact... :lol: Heh. My ex continued to entertain our mutual "friends" until I moved out of the country and stopped having contact with any of them. Then she dropped them, too. She only wanted to keep ... |
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