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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I tell my future girlfriend about my possible autism? |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2018, 6:31 am
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Replies: 42
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| But I answered your question, Sir. I have my opinion. Do what you want, buddy. Somehow.....I think no matter what I say, I’ll get a negative response from you. I have no idea why that is. Maybe just say you THINK you might be autistic. I don't know where your answer is, I must have missed it. Sayin... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Becoming friends with non-autistic people |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2018, 1:37 am
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Replies: 11
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| Whether you tell them or not, people figure there is something off......really no reason to bring it up and cause all kinds of awkward. I agree, it's pointless to bring it up unless they specifically asked. But, how would they find out without me telling them? They could suspect there is a small pr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I tell my future girlfriend about my possible autism? |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2018, 1:33 am
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Replies: 42
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| I do realize what you’re talking about. You shouldn’t assume that people don’t identify with you, even if they are not in total agreement. I let people decide their impression of me. If I want to tell, I do. If I don’t feel like it, I don’t. I’m not AGAINST you telling her. I just believe it’s obli... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: MapleStory |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 1:20 pm
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Replies: 5
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| I used to play it a lot. I enjoyed it very much. I don't play MapleStory that much anymore due to the fact that it is daunting, especially when you're not buying anything to progress faster. I do check up on it every once in awhile to see what's going on. If you played a long time ago, then now in ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Average age to leave parents |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 1:14 pm
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Well, I have a few friends who have already rented an apartment and left their parents, and I want to do that too. But I'm kinda scared to move out and live alone, it could be a stressful situation and many things to deal with.
Anyone else here had this kind of problem? |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Eating out of boredom |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 1:07 pm
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Replies: 13
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Well, sometimes I eat something even when I'm not hungry, or when I'm bored and it's something delicious and I can't resist. This causes an excessive calorie intake to me.
Anyone else here had this problem? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Should I ask someone if they want to be friends? |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 1:03 pm
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Replies: 4
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| If its someone you met on the street randomly, I wouldn't recommend having any conversation. If it's someone you met through some activity, and they aren't a random person from the streets, it's a more convenient opportunity for friendship. But you never explicitly "ask" to be friends with... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Becoming friends with non-autistic people |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 12:59 pm
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| Well, you see... when people realize you have some kind of "disability", they treat and speak to you differently than others. That's when you start to feel ashamed of who you are. It's a terrible feeling, I've been there. Maybe it's better off to simply not talk about having an autism or a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I tell my future girlfriend about my possible autism? |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 12:55 pm
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Replies: 42
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| You’re under no obligation. Well, it's true I don't have to tell her anything, but it's a matter of honesty and respect. I don't want to come across as a kind of guy who lies about himself, refuses to reveal basic facts about himself, etc. Whether having Aspergers is regarded as that or not is a ma... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I tell my future girlfriend about my possible autism? |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 12:32 pm
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Replies: 42
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| The DSM has “medical” diagnoses, too If your diagnosis is a DSM code, it’s a certified diagnosis. The diagnosis of ASD must be given by a psychiatrist or PhD psychologist. It doesn’t necessarily get you benefits or accommodations, though it usually does in schools and colleges. More rarely in emplo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I tell my future girlfriend about my possible autism? |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 10:47 am
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Replies: 42
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| I agree with the idea of not revealing to a girlfriend about my Aspergers right on the beginning, thanks very much for your input on this, mates. Let's become the girlfriend for a moment. What do you think she would think to herself if she realizes somebody is autistic or has aspergers, and that is ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Haircuts |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 10:34 am
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Replies: 18
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| I was always getting my hair cuts at home by parents, but when I went to the barber a few times in the past, it was okay with me. I don't like how you are kinda forced to stare at yourself because of the large mirror, in front of you. Some barber shops could remove that item, but in most of them it'... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you able to diagnose yourself? |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 10:29 am
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Replies: 40
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| Yeah I can understand the difficulties some people who posted here have faced, with self diagnosis and the like. Even though you might have not formally tried to make a self diagnosis, you tried to understand what your problem is. It's difficult to do that all by yourselves, I can agree with that, a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone here from British Columbia? |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2018, 10:25 am
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Replies: 21
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| What's really beautiful in BC is the forests, I remember going for a hiking a while back with my relatives when I visited them one time, and it was really exciting experience. Awesome birds, trees, vegetation, wildlife etc. Just... wow. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Do you ever plan out your threads? |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2018, 1:06 pm
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Replies: 12
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The last one you mentioned sounds to me the most interesting, can consider that.
When I create a new thread, I just think about what subject to bring up, and the words come to me automatically after that. Not difficult to me.
I'm quite a literate person, without being arrogant by saying so. |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: PM Contacts |
| GoodBlade |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2018, 5:19 am
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Replies: 5
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| ^ Did you check "yes" to be informed when your report is dealt with? You can do either, depending on the complicity of the situation. You can also post in the "Moderators Attention" thread. Can you link me to that thread? I checked "yes", but it depends how they would ... |
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