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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Most Aspie Song Ever? |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2024, 9:55 pm
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Replies: 12
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He called it an anthem for introverts, but its always struck me as more autsim-y than just introversion.
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help with finding friends, Love & Hope |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2024, 2:31 am
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Replies: 6
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| That is a very extreme decision to make especially over politics. That SOB definitely isn't worth you giving up your life and we don't know yet if he will get back in yet. I'm sorry if you particularly suffered, you're not the only one though. Living with a supporter must be a extraordinary kind of ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should we inform our romantic interests of our condition? |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2024, 9:37 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 3,828
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| It could be a way to eliminate a dud and minimize wasted time. I wouldn’t want to be with someone who would ditch me or discriminate against me for having autism, so I’d always be upfront about it. Sure, not everyone is knowledgeable about autism, but if they aren’t willing to learn, then I’m not w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How Much Information Do You Have to Tell Your Partner |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2024, 9:21 pm
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Replies: 3
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| You use common sense like with what Boo has said. You don't tell them things like that. Otherwise it's about what you feel comfortable telling them. You don't have to say everything about yourself, and you don't have to do it right away either. You need to share, yes but trust can take time so it is... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should we inform our romantic interests of our condition? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2024, 9:10 pm
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Replies: 58
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| It could be a way to eliminate a dud and minimize wasted time. I wouldn’t want to be with someone who would ditch me or discriminate against me for having autism, so I’d always be upfront about it. Sure, not everyone is knowledgeable about autism, but if they aren’t willing to learn, then I’m not w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2024, 9:00 pm
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Replies: 113
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| He's likely not a virgin like you, right? I would suggest having him show you his STD/STI test results before you do anything with him. If he refuses, that's really the only chance you need to give him Woah! easy, women sure know how to hurt a man :lol: Hurt how? lol it's not unusual these days to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2024, 11:31 pm
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| I would get your pap smear for the sake of it and you don't need to go before sex anyway. I noticed HPV seems to be a big cause of cancer and seeing you're a virgin I wouldn't be overly worried about it, especially at your age. I don't really know why people are getting a bit naggy about it. You do... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2024, 11:07 pm
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| There are MANY reasons why I have held off on sex for so long You don't owe any one here an explanation. "Norms" are irrelevant to what fits you best and what keeps you feeling safe. First of all I am scared of pregnancy and STDs These are entirely relevant fears. Especially because peopl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Bf with Asperger's and my own mental health |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2023, 12:31 am
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Replies: 11
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| There's no need to even read the things he does in your last paragraph to already know you deserve better. You say he is kind and caring but the these things he is doing is neither nor respectful. Having Aspergers, or having dealt with trauma(among other things), is not a get out of jail free card o... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Pink Hair |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2023, 2:05 am
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Replies: 29
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| Currently I have a faded(time to go back to the salon) teal peekaboo. I have not done pink, but I've seen plenty of pictures of those that have. It's simple enough to search for those kinds of pics if you're just looking to get an idea of what it'd look like. If you go for some pink and not all over... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Proving Anita and other naysayers wrong about Marriage! |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2023, 11:59 pm
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| I concur with Mona Though I don't know if what you are saying your friend was implying is necessarily accurate. I can't say for sure as I don't know her or know the entire context. It may be she is concerned that you may be placing your life's happiness on getting married. There are plenty of unhapp... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspie Quiz version 5 |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2023, 1:45 am
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Replies: 98
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Ehh. There were repeat questions, just worded differently.
Your score: 96 of 200
61% probability of being typical (neurotypical)
I think this is the first version that has told me I'm closer to being neurotypical than atypical lol |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Is Your Ideal Man In Terms Of Physical Appearance? |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2023, 2:02 am
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Replies: 83
Views: 1,994
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Misslizard wrote: I don’t want any of them.
Ditto that
Even if I were to just pick a single 'type' it wouldn't be consistent. You could show me 10 men of that type and I might only think one of them is particularly appealing |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Anyone here like anime? |
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Posted: 09 Jun 2023, 8:34 pm
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Replies: 26
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| I have no life so I watch quite a bit.lol Though I'm more picky about what I watch these days. I tend to read reviews, then decide if it sounds interesting, or if it is rated well. I occasionally will pick up some donghua. It took a bit to get use to it (language, culture differences etc) but some o... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Therapist terminated therapy |
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Posted: 12 May 2023, 11:37 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 557
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| Most therapists have a specialization and while they will do some crisis care for their patients, it's limited. For severe cases and especially in the case of someone they haven't had an established relationship with, they will refer you to a crisis care center(via the ER). Essentially they terminat... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Embarrassed to be with a tall man! |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2023, 1:03 am
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Replies: 37
Views: 2,891
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| You're reading a hell of a lot it that, to make your assumption. Maybe she's just the awkward type. Maybe she was feeling self conscious. Maybe she was feeling shy because she likes him so much. Maybe, who knows what else possibilities there are. If we're to say that she was embarrassed being with h... |
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