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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Is my husband toxic?

MJB46
 Post subject: Re: Is my husband toxic?
Posted: 04 Jul 2019, 6:24 pm 

Replies: 50
Views: 996
From this little tiny window into the relationship it sounds like it's the communication that is "toxic" at the very least. I can see why you were upset at his pants comment, it is inappropriate to tell another adult what to wear and it suggests that your body and clothing only has value a...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do you "feel felt" by your partner?

MJB46
Posted: 04 Jul 2019, 6:15 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 380
I'm trying to make sense of my own needs. I read so much about those on the spectrum being distant and detached. I feel that way about everyone except my partner and a small handful of current friends. Can I be on the spectrum if I long to connect and feel felt by a partner? Wouldn't I not care if t...

 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: High functioning girls/women. Help!

MJB46
Posted: 04 Jul 2019, 6:04 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 3,492
I hope you've already found some good coping mechanisms, but if not, check out Dan Siegel's Wheel of Awareness mindfulness practice. It has really helped me build skills to escape unpleasant and upsetting thought cycles. We are never going to be able to prevent other humans from being hurtful but we...

 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: Does anyone else not shave body hair?

MJB46
Posted: 04 Jul 2019, 5:58 pm 

Replies: 74
Views: 6,354
Almost never, I'm totes creeped out by the infantalization of adult women. Modifications to make women look more like prepubescent girls is so strange and gross to me.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to help spouse understand

MJB46
Posted: 04 Jul 2019, 5:52 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 766
Take a look at misophonia. Explaining it as something that is a co-morbid condition instead of a part of your diagnosis might make more sense to a NT. Also, CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) can often help raise frustration tolerance for those suffering from misophonia. It might be helpful to both ...
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