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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 1:29 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 4,859
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| Do you work on weekends? Is there any gym close to your job you could sign up to that isnt crazy expensive? Do you have any friends that practise sport together and you could join them? Yes, no, and no. Something else that could be worth looking into is free group activities(reading club, conversat... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 9:28 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 4,859
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| I was for a while but the job means I don't have time to walk anymore... that said, my office is about half a mile from the parking lot, so I get a mile's worth of walking every day... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 8:33 am
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Replies: 17
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| I don't know if anyone here remembers me, but I guess that part doesn't really matter. I thought I had something going off someone I met on OKC, but it turns out that she's "not sure" what she wants (code for "Not you"),.. guess I should have known that it wouldn't have ever worked. Now i'm going to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For all AS men, a question(Or girls too!)! |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2012, 12:14 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 3,475
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| There are many aspies that would love to be in a committed relationship, but are scared to actually say the word "love" because it has a tendency to blow up in our faces... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is self confidence so bad? |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2012, 1:47 am
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Replies: 70
Views: 6,692
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| Why do you advocate lying to yourself until you start believing it? Isn't that the path to becoming a pathological liar to others? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The importance of being confident and how to be it |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2012, 5:39 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,788
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| There's a word for people that love themselves: narcissist |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Obsessed With Finding Someone? |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2012, 7:20 pm
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Replies: 73
Views: 7,967
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| Are you lonely? yes Do you constantly think about being with someone? yes Do you sometimes go out of your way to find people like you? not really, i'm too afraid to go out there a lot Do you think, that when you find someone you fancy, or if they are similar to you, you automatically think that the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Some of you guys were aliases I know it now. |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2012, 7:13 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,818
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| Some people just stop posting for one reason or another... I did the same... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you feel lonely? |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2012, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 53
Views: 6,931
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| All the time. It's especially prevalent whenever I see a couple being happy together... I just want to feel what all these couples feel, and yet I won't ever get that opportunity. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to detect Narcissists (common partner for AS/Asperger's) |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2012, 11:52 am
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Replies: 120
Views: 42,103
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nick007 wrote: ToadOfSteel wrote: I have an easier way to detect narcissists:
Anyone who gives themselves any praise or draws attention to themselves without any real cause. He/she could be a playa instead of a narcissist
And those two are different... how? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to detect Narcissists (common partner for AS/Asperger's) |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2012, 11:29 am
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Replies: 120
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I have an easier way to detect narcissists:
Anyone who gives themselves any praise or draws attention to themselves without any real cause. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eharmony: Am I The Only One They Say is Unmatchable? |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2012, 1:21 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 6,536
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| Unfortunately, a man can receive unmatched status by Not being a major misogynist. For instance, the guy that started the whole thing doesn't really approve of the fact women like to look forward to the future, and wants them to accept whatever the man in the relationship expects. So, if your answe... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eharmony: Am I The Only One They Say is Unmatchable? |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2012, 8:41 am
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Replies: 23
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| My ex and I tried it out a couple of years ago for fun, and I only got one match (who wasn't him). Then I tried the sister site for same-sex relationships and was unmatchable. I tried that one again more recently and got a few matches, mostly interstate. Haven't tried the regular site again. So yea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What females really want |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2012, 12:03 am
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Replies: 324
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| As far as what women want, I can only speak for myself. Fidelity, feeling that they I am prefered and just someone you settled for, appreciation. Faithfulness comfort acceptace affection snuggles and hugs and respect. :D :cheers: Hell yeah! :wink: I could give all of that and more... and enjoy ever... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What's wrong with me? |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2012, 8:11 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 3,859
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| My ex said he didn't want children, and that I could barely take care of myself much less a child. Then, he has a child with the his next girlfriend. So now I'm feeling like what is wrong with me. All these feelings of being not good enough come up. We broke up because he treated me like crap. He w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: An interesting read(why okcupid match system is flawed) |
| ToadOfSteel |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2012, 8:43 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,800
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| This is embarrassing... could someone greatly-stupefy this article for me? :oops: I like OKC's questions because you can mark their importance. What part of the algorithm is being analyzed here, without getting too far into the author's methodology? He's analyzing how "Mandatory" questions are wort... |
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