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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Nervous about making some NT girl friends |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2019, 1:27 am
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| I still stand by everything I've said. I wouldn't take back a word of it. Why is any of it even controversial?! |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Nervous about making some NT girl friends |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2019, 6:35 pm
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Replies: 32
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You've been thinking wrong.
Yes, I know what leprosy is. It is a condition that doesn't make you get rejected all the time. Or fired. Or shot by the cops. Or sexually exploited. Or a million other things that could be mentioned.
And we have one that does.
Which is why it is probably preferable. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Nervous about making some NT girl friends |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2019, 6:26 pm
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Replies: 32
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Nervous about making some NT girl friends |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2019, 6:07 pm
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| What is your definition of "a real chance"? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Nervous about making some NT girl friends |
| DorkyNerd |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2019, 1:19 pm
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Replies: 32
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Of course I am real. Of course I am not trying to start drama.
Why would you even think that?! |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pleasing a Female Partner |
| DorkyNerd |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2019, 11:53 am
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Replies: 39
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| What can I say, humans are programmed to ceaselessly make love. There are a lot of reasons for this, most of them rooted in evolutionary biology. If you bang a lot, you create more offspring and that ensures the survival/continuation of the species into the next generation. You can't escape from bil... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Nervous about making some NT girl friends |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2019, 10:54 am
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Replies: 32
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I am telling you, this is a thing.
Autistic women somehow don't have female friends their own age. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Curious |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2019, 1:24 am
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Replies: 20
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| That vaguely reminds me of something. This is obviously anecdotal... I once had to go to a funeral, for an NT woman. I brought paper flowers. The design was insanely simple. One of the mourners saw them and bellowed "You made those?! They are so beautiful!!" I told her that it was incredib... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Nervous about making some NT girl friends |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2019, 12:46 am
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Replies: 32
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| Nothing. I am one myself, after all. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pleasing a Female Partner |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2019, 12:34 am
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Replies: 39
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| Trust me, this is a thing. We are very bad at understanding bodily functions!! ! We are very bad at linking cause with effect, at linking A with B. Not only with autistic men, either. I met an autistic woman at a support group. She would be grumpy and not understand why, till someone who was NT woul... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Nervous about making some NT girl friends |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2019, 10:17 pm
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Replies: 32
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| I have talked to a lot of people like us. A lot of them say stuff like "In school, I hated the other girls who were my age cause we had nothing in common. I wanted to talk to the librarian during recess cause she was the best!" and "I worked as a teacher. My co-workers all hated me- b... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pleasing a Female Partner |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2019, 10:02 pm
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| If you can't handle makeup or stiff shoes being on you, how can you handle a man being in you? Someone putting a foreign object inside the most vulnerable part of your body- that's a tall order for someone who can barely tolerate socks. And if he is autistic, too? Forget it! He's not in tune with hi... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Nervous about making some NT girl friends |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2019, 9:24 pm
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| We tend to get along well with men and not women. We also tend to get along with children and senior citizens, not b*****s our own age. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pleasing a Female Partner |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2019, 9:01 pm
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| Disabled women have very tricky bodies. If you thought pleasuring a regular woman was hard, oh boy, you haven't seen nothing yet is all I can say! For a disabled woman, sex is pure torture! She gets paralyzed sometimes and can't move or talk. Even getting drunk or loaded on pills doesn't mitigate th... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sex, asperger and details. |
| DorkyNerd |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2019, 8:48 pm
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Replies: 23
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I sometimes have intrusive thoughts during sex, if that counts. I will think about all the math classes that I failed. I will bring it up right after sex, too, which must confuse him.
Not the pillow talk he was expecting at all, haha. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Any aspie women and girls hate their period and pms? |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2019, 8:33 pm
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Replies: 36
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I am often unsure as to whether or not I am PMSing.
This has lead to some humiliating situations, as you can imagine.
I once had a one-night stand with a man. I fell asleep in his bed.
Needless to say, I painted his whole apartment red during the night. |
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