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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: The Married Aspie Cafe Thread (discussion of marriage, etc.) |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2020, 1:38 am
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Replies: 645
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| Ugh, just resisted ripping into my wife, just smiled, said "yes dear" and waited for her to leave. My little neices birthday is this coming weekend, my mom had just spoken to me about the event including the assumption that we would be there, speaking with my wife about it and she complain... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How would you feel in this situation? |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 06 Mar 2020, 5:45 pm
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Replies: 17
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renaeden wrote: I don't think I'd cope very well. I do have inspections every three months though, the landlord goes into my room and usually looks behind the door for some reason.
You need a little sign behind the door that says "there is still nothing here" |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The bright side of autism + coronavirus ;) |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 05 Mar 2020, 5:03 am
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Replies: 10
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Hahaha, this is good!
Somewhat related, how do you politely refuse a handshake? Im using coronavirus as my excuse to not have to touch other people |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: ADHD peers don’t see me as autistic |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2020, 8:01 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 650
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Maybe your ADHD peers dont see you as ASD because they get distracted too easily...
...SQUIRREL!! !! ! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why is being mean ok if its 'banter' |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2020, 4:09 am
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Replies: 11
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| Similar to the previously asked question why are people mean, but this is a little more nuanced and ive observed it in a lot of places. While driving home today listening to the radio the presenters were talking about some show they were at, one in particular seemed to be bragging about his jokes th... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you guys get on this IQ test? |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2020, 9:54 pm
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Replies: 55
Views: 4,241
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12/28
IQ 98
This is a pointless test, it is limited greatly in its test criteria with a heavy bias against people with vision issues or vision processing issues. It seems to be based mostly on pattern recognition and doesnt test skills on vary many areas.
I rate this test 1/10 |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why do some people choose to be horrible than kind ? |
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Posted: 25 Feb 2020, 8:42 pm
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Replies: 43
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| Id agree with what your all saying about horrible people, because they are a**holes whether they have a screen in front of them or not. The one that gets me everytime though, and i see it literally everywhere, is where someone says something as a reply (usually on FB), and its humorous to others but... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Asperger's Funeral |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 25 Feb 2020, 8:12 pm
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Replies: 14
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I have decided when i die i would like my remains to be sent into space.
What those remains are (ashes or a physical corpse) will depend on the cost of launch per kg.
You'll all know when i die, the launch will make the news |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Does autism make some of us look physically unattractive ? |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2020, 12:23 am
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Replies: 26
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| There's no point in using other people as yard sticks, or you'll forever measure yourself short. FTFY... As for the topic (My opinion only) There are 3 kinds of beauty. 1. The external kind. What do you (Or they) look like ect. This beauty is strongest as we are young and fades quickly as we age. I... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Tone of voice issues |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2020, 12:03 am
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Replies: 7
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| Does anyone else have problems with the tone of voice? Problems of the kind, that someone confuses your tone of voice as if you were being aggressive or angry? All the time. Its incredibly frustrating. Ive taken to just not interacting with people unless I absolutely have to, or they are well known... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Service Dogs |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2020, 9:57 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,953
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"Dear Elon,
This is what I want, but a robot.
A robot dog would be really cool.
Please and Thank you"
Oh, if it were this easy.... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Talking Over You. |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2020, 7:34 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Yep, happens all the time to me. I find that its because, 1. Im quiet in general because when I get a little loud the tone of my voice makes everyone think im being agressive towards them. 2. NT's are used to just rambling crap and having to be louder than everyone else so they can keep rambling the... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I See Patterns. |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2020, 7:39 pm
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Replies: 19
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| Yes. I see the patterns of peoples behaviours and after some time I learn to anticipate them before they happen, then the NT's get angry because im working several steps ahead of them You have grasped what I mean by patterns. :) Presumably even animals can see "patterns" (of behavior in o... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I See Patterns. |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2020, 3:22 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 946
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Yes.
I see the patterns of peoples behaviours and after some time I learn to anticipate them before they happen, then the NT's get angry because im working several steps ahead of them |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Making eye contact when you'd prefer not to- masking? |
| Spergl0rd |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2020, 10:55 pm
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Replies: 7
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| I make eye contact all the time, way too much maybe, but im just watching and assessing whats going on, trying to understand all the insane NT's and their bizarre world. I have to remember to look away and make comments or noises while people are talking to me because me staring at them intently wit... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do people on the spectrum always have an obsession? |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2020, 9:30 pm
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Replies: 6
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| Hello, new here. As the title says, I was wondering, do people on the spectrum always have an obsession with something? It seems to be a defining characteristic of ASD, but I can't think of anything I have ever been obsessed with, except maybe toy cars as a kid and I wonder more if that was just bec... |
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