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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Animal Company |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 23 Apr 2024, 4:56 pm
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I always supposed we are just not ''wired'' for a large amount of social interaction, yet the funny thing is I do want to date, but no commitments or marriage at all, I never understood how my aunt has to have almost 24/7 contact via cell phone, with her kids and grandkids, they are all almost a ful... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Animal Company |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 23 Apr 2024, 4:05 pm
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I get overwhelmed by the ''outside'' or often end up getting upset, while I can at times hear my neighbors and see people walking in groups, a lot of NT's seem to for some reason enjoy all of that, while I also prefer to live out west open space or even just green hills open |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Animal Company |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 23 Apr 2024, 3:38 pm
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I was always wondering is it a Aspie thing, that I don't want to really leave the house, and just want to be with my dog often? feel to overwhelmed by people and the outside, if I had my way I wouldn't even be in the suburbs, would be in a city like Santa Fe, that is open space |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Work Overload ( Processor) |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 21 Apr 2024, 2:37 pm
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I was wondering can we feel ''fatigued'' tired, and ''confused'' the day after we push ourselves? I only work for two days at Dunkin Donuts Friday and Saturday, due to I have other home responsibilities. I pushed myself hard trying to process a lot at one time, such as cooking a lot of muffins, 10 o... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Big Meltdown ( someone to talk with please) |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 17 Apr 2024, 2:37 pm
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I was concerned I scared myself today, getting ready to go out. I know it sounds trivial and very immature at my age, the town I live in is replacing pipes and they are digging right in front of my house, my father and I couldn't get out, then I tried to go with my aunt in her car but the batter die... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspie Or Just Private |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 15 Apr 2024, 3:24 pm
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I get confused because I also feel we are all on different pages in life, I don't think I am better than anyone, but I just don't feel compatible or as if we think the same, or goals and so on. I suppose like you said it's a Aspie Issue because they can have contact 24/7, but I get overloaded or irr... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspie Or Just Private |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 15 Apr 2024, 3:07 pm
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I have mentioned this in a previous post with my Aunt staying with me for certain periods. I am concerned lately if it's normal for us Aspies, to start getting irritated and feeling as if I have no privacy? I honestly don't know how my family does this, they would all love to move into a three famil... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspergers and Serious |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 13 Apr 2024, 10:49 pm
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That is how I am my face is pretty neutral, unless I am very happy or angry. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspergers and Serious |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 13 Apr 2024, 9:58 pm
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I was very concerned or curious is it normal for us to take ourselves seriously or have issues joining groups? such as in work? I take myself seriously at times or am very detailed, systematic and meticulous, yet I do or can have a very good sense of humor although ''odd'' or ''off beat'' and even o... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Getting Frustrated Had Enough (Aspie or Deeper) |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 21 Mar 2024, 9:55 pm
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I always wonder in my mind, how in the world can my family have constant contact, without feeling a lot of stress, anxiety, and depression? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Getting Frustrated Had Enough (Aspie or Deeper) |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 21 Mar 2024, 3:32 pm
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she doesn't live with us, she is mostly back and forth maybe here for 6 months or it depends, then she goes to see her kids and grandkids. I just worry mentally if something is wrong with me, because they all enjoy the constant contact whether by facetime, messenger or in person, even wanting to in ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Getting Frustrated Had Enough (Aspie or Deeper) |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 21 Mar 2024, 3:19 pm
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I was wondering should I see a shrink like my father says? or is normal that for a Aspie, I feel a lot of stress and anxiety with my aunt being here? It's nothing personal just that I feel I have no privacy, can't have time to myself with my dog, and do what I want to do, not to get personal can't e... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Therapy Dog Different Breeds |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 19 Mar 2024, 2:13 pm
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I don't think he could though, it's not funny but sometimes he is like me in the animal world, I often wonder if Dogs and other Animals can be on the spectrum |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Therapy Dog Different Breeds |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 19 Mar 2024, 2:00 pm
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I was wondering are certain breeds Therapy Dogs just by nature? I ask because my ''Jug'' Milford Albert a mix of Jack Russel and Pug, seems to know me well enough, and tries to comfort me, such as jumping on a chair next to me, wants me to hug him, in our backroom, he enjoys watching tv, and he acts... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Getting It Right |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 17 Mar 2024, 2:53 pm
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I am really getting concerned is it a Aspergers issue having issues with relationships? I ask because for example I tried to add a few women I work with on TikTok, and never accepted request, it's not the end of the world but how come other men mostly everything social ''flows like a river'' or most... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Feeling Different/ Emotional Paralysis |
Aet1985 |
Posted: 09 Mar 2024, 3:54 pm
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I was wondering is it normal for Aspies to still have traces of Low Function? in regards to being in our own world? I get confused because I know what's going on and am hyper aware, I can communicate although at times issues, yet feel I can't connect emotionally. I can focus for hours on what I am d... |
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