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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do people live with themselves if they fail? |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2021, 4:43 am
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Replies: 61
Views: 1,145
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| So now that covid is getting better, I am going to attempt to make my first feature film to hopefully try to break into the market as a movie director, which is the goal. But my anxiety is through the roof, and I feel that it's too much of a moment of truth, and don't know how I will live with myse... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: A bad "interview" experience. |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2021, 2:11 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,092
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| Hi. I have Asperger's and I heard about this forum a few years ago. A recent bad experience left me with a horrible feeling and has prompted me to come on here, share and perhaps get some help from people like me who understand. This is going to be a long post since I have bottled up everything ins... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm being set up - I think? |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2021, 1:16 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 531
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| So, I was minding my own business, relaxing at home, when I received a message from a friend who had gone out drinking. I wanted to spend the day at home so I didn't go. Anyway, apparently he'd met up with a new co-worker of his and they were out drinking together. I've never met this co-worker but... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Coming Across Even More Different Than I Realized |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2021, 1:06 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 2,372
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| Just a general statement for now: I always knew I was different, but I'm starting to think the gap between me and NTs is more like a chasm. I thought I was cognizant of my differences, but now I'm thinking that the way I thought they perceived me may not be accurate. Oh, I could see most of them pi... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Growing up with aspergers |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 15 Jul 2021, 1:46 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 567
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| Doctors, people, therapists always talk about autistic kids, having a child with autism,etc... But what happens when people with aspergers grow up? They dont disappear of course, but nobody talks about autism in adults. I got diagnosed 10 years ago with "aspergers" and things dont seem to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm running out of time |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2021, 4:11 am
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Replies: 281
Views: 10,505
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| I have a gym membership. But they want to charge me $500/month to teach me how use the equipment and lift weights, and I can't afford that. And if I try to do that without knowing the proper way I could seriously injure myself. This is not a valid excuse. You don't need to solve all problems by thr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should autists get married through 'trickery'? |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2021, 10:49 pm
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Replies: 52
Views: 3,241
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| Should we marry through trickery? Why would anyone think for one moment that this would lead to happiness? If you’re kind in nature, someone who can compromise on ALL things, and respect your partner and understand that your children are yours temporarily to raise with love, being firm but kind, bu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should autists get married through 'trickery'? |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2021, 4:30 am
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Replies: 52
Views: 3,241
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| Essentially, if autists make bad partners, and getting married requires misleading the other person, for them to eventually realize they feel lonely and unfulfilled with you.. is getting married worth it? |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Special Employment programs for Aspies |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2021, 1:22 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,133
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| my employer unofficially seems to support neurodiverse individuals, but ones who can do the job, fake it and fit in. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Needing suggestions for an anniversary gift for my wife. |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2021, 1:36 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 915
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| Hi I'm needing some help choosing an anniversary gift for my wife, nothing common or generic. I've searched google for ideas and everything same old, same old. Can anyone give me any suggestions on something a little bit different? you don't want to ask autists for gift ideas for your wife. ask som... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm running out of time |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2021, 10:20 pm
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Replies: 281
Views: 10,505
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm running out of time |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2021, 3:44 am
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Replies: 281
Views: 10,505
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| I'm already 39. I'm going to be 40 in less than 1 year from now. That means that I'm rapidly running out of time. Very soon I'm going to be too old to date anyone who isn't already a grandma. Dating a grandma? Ain't no law that says you can't date a woman who's a decade younger than you. you are no... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Chris Hedges "American Sadism" LIVE |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2021, 12:38 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 827
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I move on from this? |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2021, 12:35 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,229
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| 2 years ago I had a dance with this girl who I liked and I could tell she liked me. Saw her last night for the first time in at least a year since it was her birthday. She was friendly but she did not seem as into me as before and she did not really talk to me that much. How can I cannot let this p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I move on from this? |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2021, 3:23 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,229
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| 2 years ago I had a dance with this girl who I liked and I could tell she liked me. Saw her last night for the first time in at least a year since it was her birthday. She was friendly but she did not seem as into me as before and she did not really talk to me that much. How can I cannot let this p... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Why don't more women fight back (TRIGGER WARNING) |
| idntonkw |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2021, 11:36 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 4,508
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| This has been really bothering me as someone whose a proud fighter who would travel to the other ends of the earth to fight those who have hurt me, it pisses me off when I see all these videos and incidents of women getting groped, molested and even raped yet they never fight back, even a mild resi... |
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