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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2021, 1:59 am
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| This is certainly understandable. However, not all women have children in their early twenties. Could you conceivably be attracted to a woman who is in her thirties but who has a personality similar to Sara's and who either does not have kids at all or has a kid the same age as Sara's kid? In theor... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Had DNA tested |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2021, 1:56 am
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| Both me and my wife had our DNA tested a couple of months ago to see what's up. It was initiated by us because we need at least one NT kid to care for our boys when we are gone. I believe blood is thicker than water. One alternative my wife has now pursued with is using a male donor, cutting me out... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Help creating a Functional Resume |
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Posted: 31 May 2021, 2:42 am
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| My post chronological resume is what is causing me problems. Swiss Cheese: Work some place for 3 months, get fired, take 9 months to find my next gig. Repeat. For the last 30 years. One job was 2 weeks. I feel that a chronological resume will make getting work impossible for me. Thanks. My apologie... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 31 May 2021, 2:40 am
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| I've been working as a TA in a special needs classroom for the past year. I've been in a special education master's program for the past two years. The year before that I was as a substitute teacher, working primarily in special needs classrooms. I frequented the same schools enough for the staff t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 31 May 2021, 2:35 am
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| And yet, I still could never get a girlfriend. Me neither. I was offered sex by girls and had girls want to talk to me and try to date me, but I pushed them away with my discomfort and awkwardness and would say no, when I wish I could say yes, but I am too shy and nervous. The reason you could neve... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 31 May 2021, 2:13 am
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| So then you've over-generalized about men as well as women. You're ignoring demisexuals , for example. Funny fact, my best friend is demisexual. We've been close friends for over 16 years. And she has never seen me as anything more than a friend. But you're still surrounded by religious people to a... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Help creating a Functional Resume |
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Posted: 30 May 2021, 1:28 am
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| My post chronological resume is what is causing me problems. Swiss Cheese: Work some place for 3 months, get fired, take 9 months to find my next gig. Repeat. For the last 30 years. One job was 2 weeks. I feel that a chronological resume will make getting work impossible for me. Thanks. My apologie... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 29 May 2021, 10:54 pm
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| I have been treating my symptoms. I have been taking medications for my depression and anxiety. I have been going to therapy. I have tried changing things: I switched job fields multiple times, I moved to Ohio and back, I got my TESOL, I worked from home teaching English, I am currently attending g... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 29 May 2021, 10:47 pm
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| It is my hope that a bigger and better-organized autistic community can eventually create some good, robust alternatives. Even if that does happen, its already too late for it to help me. Why should women lower their expectations and date an autist? Women want to be like everybody else and date an ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 29 May 2021, 3:14 am
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| Surely you're not the only immigrant who has gone through this kind of culture shock? Have you ever had any contact with Ex-Muslims of North America or any similar organization? (I think I asked you this once before, but I don't recall your answer if any.) also being a minority (not white) can eith... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 29 May 2021, 3:11 am
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dorkseid wrote: Is it because I'm lesser and unworthy of love?!
Why should women lower their expectations and date an autist? Women want to be like everybody else and date an interesting and exciting NT guy, not a boring/cold/lonely autist man. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 28 May 2021, 11:00 pm
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| also being a minority (not white) can either limit or change your dating prospects if you live in a Western country, and so can being from a Muslim background. people have all sorts of biases, where they won't say it, but they won't consider dating someone of a different race or people from certain ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A missed chance to ask her out? |
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Posted: 28 May 2021, 10:50 pm
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| On a night out when I was younger this girl who I kinda knew kissed me a few times on the lips while talking to me. Do you think that was a missed opportunity for me to ask her out on the spot perhaps? No. Girls will go out and kiss random guys at night clubs and bars. It's like a sexual fantasy or... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 28 May 2021, 10:46 pm
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| it is not digital, not "either/or." you WILL feel better once you no longer are obese, you will move better and have less aches and pains. you will have more pride in your appearance even if you are still lonely. that is worth something. some of us just weren't made for social functioning... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 28 May 2021, 10:45 pm
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| I think its autism symptoms combined with some other factors. I grew up in a Muslim society that was heavily gender segregated; social interactions between unrelated men and women were extremely limited, nobody had opposite se friendships, boys and girls went to separate schools, homes had separate... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something is wrong with me. Its the only explanation. |
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Posted: 28 May 2021, 4:42 am
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| Have you tried building muscles and going to the gym? Getting a trainer to teach me how to do that would cost over $250 every two weeks. There is no way I could afford that. I am 34, have almost completely lost my sex drive, and moving toward your spot of being 40 and not having had sex almost.. ev... |
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