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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Newly Diagnosed, friends don't believe me |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2021, 3:16 am
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Replies: 31
Views: 1,992
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| I would say, people who dont believe you are people who arent worth your time, because if they dont believe then that might mean they dont trust you enough and they dont deserve to know about it. It doesnt always apply in every situation it happens in, but thats usually the case. But you dont need t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: When to share, and when to hide? |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2021, 3:10 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 568
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| Hi everyone, sorry for coming in here out of nowhere. I havent been around for a long time, but recently had the urge to write on the forums. Well, you see... honestly my main problem isnt just the symptoms I have to deal with about the Asperger's Syndrome I have. Even though the symptoms are gettin... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Repetitive Behaviors |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2021, 3:04 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 677
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| I would say probably, the repetitive behaviors I have myself and other people who have Asperger's are different than normal, repetitive behaviors by normal people. When you enjoy taking the same route, eat the same thing every day, and other things like that, its not necessarily caused by the fact y... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Always wanting something valuable |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2021, 9:33 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 325
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| As a woman I found the question bias as I don't generally date girls. Also my friends don't seem to care about money. They prefer looks/personality but this changes person to person so there is no perfect look. I prefer the brain in general although there are a few cosmetic bonuses if he wears glas... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do crushes feel like to you? |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2021, 9:09 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,246
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| For me, a crush is first of all nothing special. I can have a crush on a random girl on the street, and I wont be able to talk to her if I'm not in the right situation. Asking a girl out randomly from the street is nearly impossible, unless you're extremely skilled at this. So, a crush should better... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Handling conversations properly |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2021, 9:03 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 282
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| Well, for me, it has been much easier these days to handle a conversation with other woman than it has been in the past. Ive been able to learn many social skills and techniques, and its basically easier now for sure. But, there are still some difficult moments and situations. First of all, I never ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Always wanting something valuable |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2021, 8:54 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 325
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| Well, I noticed something quite annoying about most women I've met, atleast here in Israel. I'm sure the situation is similar in the US and Canada, but could be a little different. I dont live there so I dont know, people from these countries could give more details about how its like in their place... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Avoiding autistic / disabled people |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2020, 11:22 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,111
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| I was wondering if its true that, the more time you spend with people who have autism or a disability, puts you at a higher risk of being influenced by these things and creates an unhealthy environment mentally. As you know, there are many places and services related to help people like this, but wh... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Making friends at work |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2020, 11:19 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 3,105
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| Honestly, I was curious to find out if its a good idea to get a job that puts you frequently seeing people face to face and giving them service, like working in a store, or a place where people drop by all the time and you must talk to them every time. For me, it might be a good idea. But I was wond... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How is pandemic influencing social-skill concerns? |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2020, 11:16 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 8,434
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| The pandemic is definitely hurting social skills, or practicing social skills and being in situations where you can work on your social skills or practice them. Less opportunities to meet new people, means having less friends and less social situations to be in. But let me tell you this. Instead, yo... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Aspies writing long messages |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2020, 11:12 am
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Replies: 42
Views: 13,048
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| My length of messages depends on who I'm talking to. I try not to write too long messages to people I dont know, because it might be a waste of time if they dont bother to read or reply. If its someone I know pays full attention to what i say or ask, I'll make it longer. But even then, I might keep ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Phone calls |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2020, 9:39 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,020
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| Hi everyone. To be honest, there's something I'm kinda confused about when it comes to phone calls. I'd like to explain in detail what I'm confused about, and what I need to know more about. Hope you can answer. Basically, my first question would be, how'd you recommend to find out when is the right... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Acceptable and unacceptable lies |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2020, 9:24 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,027
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| Hi everyone, I used to be terrible at lies, or trying to hide / not mention something, but now I'm much better at it. I just wanted to ask you about lies which are acceptable, or not so acceptable in your opinion. I'll give a few examples, and I hope you can please reply to it based on your experien... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Job search frustration |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2020, 9:08 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 2,809
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| Hi everyone, I'd like to talk to you about my recent frustration about job searching. I'll start by explaining what frustrates me the most. First of all, thanks to my Aspergers I had years of difficulty finding a job and staying with that job. I give up too quicky / easily, or get exhausted fast bec... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Assuming you have $1 million in hand |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2020, 8:58 am
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,922
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| Despite what others have stated here, I wouldnt necessarily buy a house with all this money. Instead, I would spend it on things that keep me safe, secure, happy, etc. To me it never really mattered so much if the house/apartment I live in is mine or rented. First thing I would do with the money, is... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Question to tall guys with Aspergers? |
| Noam1515 |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2020, 8:52 am
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Replies: 157
Views: 11,920
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| I have aspergers but never officially diagnosed. I'm quite tall, but not as tall as you asked in the first post of this thread. I must admit in every single relationship or experiences Ive had with women, my height didnt matter to the woman at all. And its understandable because its not usually a ve... |
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