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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fed up with an aspie husband |
| Chejana |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2021, 10:13 am
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| Chejana...I bought my beloved husband a wooden DO NOT DISTURB sign recently...With the permission to use it with me...He has not yet used it...But at least he well knows how much i have learned to respect his personal space...This was hard for me in our first year of marriage :cry: ...But understan... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fed up with an aspie husband |
| Chejana |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2021, 9:21 am
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| Not making eye contact, particularly when stressed, is a well-known Aspie trait. Don't take it personally, it isn't a statement about you in any way. Likewise, you don't need to treat an Aspie badly for them to start feeling inadequate or guilty. Most Aspies are well aware of their limitations, and... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fed up with an aspie husband |
| Chejana |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2021, 10:54 am
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| Also, remember he probably communicates differently than you do. He likely says what he means and means what he says, and if he says something he probably means that and nothing more. My bride and I have miscommunicated a number of times because of this difference! From my standpoint it usually end... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fed up with an aspie husband |
| Chejana |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2021, 10:47 am
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| Chejana , Hi! I'm an Aspie husband. My bride and I are rapidly approaching our 21 st anniversary. We are devoted to each other :heart: and we drive each other nuts. (That's a two-way street, by the way, and I thought all husbands and wives did that--my Aspieness just changes how I drive her nuts.) ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fed up with an aspie husband |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2021, 9:20 am
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Replies: 80
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| Try getting your husband an official diagnosis from an appropriately-trained and licensed mental-health practitioner instead of only assuming his "aspie-like behavior" is the result of him being an aspie. Better yet, instead of assuming anything , try getting the both of you to a marriage... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fed up with an aspie husband |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2021, 9:18 am
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| He may very well be part of the Cluster B types of personalities. He could be a narcissist (they will never admit to anything and always use others to do their dirty work for them), a sociopath, histrionic (the dramatic ones that makes everything personal), Antisocial Personality Disorder.... well ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fed up with an aspie husband |
| Chejana |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2021, 8:20 am
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Replies: 80
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| Thank you all for your encouraging and mind-opening information and advises. I feel really grateful towards you since I wrote this post in a moment I feel like nowhere to seek help. I am still processing the information given by you and trying to understand the difference between narcissistic person... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fed up with an aspie husband |
| Chejana |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2020, 10:52 am
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Replies: 80
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| Thank you very much for your support. Actually, I started to feel he is indifferent towards me, within the first few months of marriage. He always engaged in his work and did not come to our home for two months in the beginning. Then I talked with him and was able to meet a psychiatrist with him. It... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fed up with an aspie husband |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2020, 5:39 am
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| I have been married to an undiagnosed (suspect to be aspie by psychiatrists, but not willing to participate in a proper diagnosis.) for 7 years. I still love him. But, sometimes I feel I am done and I can not bear the loneliness, I am wondering whether there is a way to get support to improve my men... |
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