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Forum: The Haven Topic: I need help but don’t know how or where to get it |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2025, 4:55 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 837
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| Is there anything you enjoy doing that generates enough energy to override the exhaustion temporarily? No, nothing. I play video games which can distract from the exhaustion sometimes I guess. I wish I could have deeper relationships with some people around my age, I’ve always struggled to connect ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I need help but don’t know how or where to get it |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2025, 12:12 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 837
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| I’ve given it a few days and I still feel sad. I’m going to feel like this forever. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I need help but don’t know how or where to get it |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2025, 4:16 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 837
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| I am in a 9-5 job, and while I like what I do it’s now the only thing I do since the rest of the time I am too exhausted. I used to play sport and now I can only play once a week on a weekend, which I am enjoying less and less because I am not putting in enough practice to improve. I have Crohn’s di... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 05 Mar 2025, 5:50 pm
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Replies: 35,925
Views: 2,080,225
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| -5. Trying to tell my family I need help with my mental health during a discussion about my work and they just dismiss it and continue to talk about my work. I am not happy and haven’t been happy in a very long time. I don’t know what to do, nobody can help. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I don’t know what to do |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2025, 4:58 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 717
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| I’m in my 30’s, have a 9 to 5 job with an hour commute each way. I notice I feel exhausted afterwards and increasingly during work. I don’t have anything to look forward to, I feel down a lot of the time and even though I live with my parents talking to them doesn’t help me. I don’t have any time to... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2024, 5:17 pm
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Replies: 9,578
Views: 751,018
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| I am pissed off I cant get better at my sport. People are overtaking me, I hate this f*****g situation and nobody else gives a crap. This is what I am going to be feeling like for the rest of my life, not successful at anything. I want to cry, I am trapped in this life, Which sport? I prefer not to... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2024, 4:50 pm
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Replies: 9,578
Views: 751,018
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| I am pissed off I cant get better at my sport. People are overtaking me, I hate this f*****g situation and nobody else gives a crap. This is what I am going to be feeling like for the rest of my life, not successful at anything. I want to cry, I am trapped in this life, |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2024, 4:04 pm
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Replies: 9,578
Views: 751,018
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| Nobody f****** listens to me. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: This is the lowest I’ve ever felt |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2024, 5:00 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,239
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| I am struggling. I have no friends to talk to or social events to look forward to. I am tired from having to get up at 6am to go to work. I have faint flicking in my eye because I have to look at a computer all day. What’s there to enjoy anymore? I don’t find my hobbies fun to do. Everything has ch... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: This is the lowest I’ve ever felt |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2024, 4:42 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,239
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| I can understand exactly how you feel and am sorry for what you're going through! I can relate to what you said especially with sitting in front of the computer. It's not easy making friends sometimes. Thank you. When I was at school it was easier because you see each other most days, but now all m... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: This is the lowest I’ve ever felt |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2024, 4:37 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,239
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| Thank you for responding. I wish I could talk to my family and feel better afterwards, it used to be like that when I was younger but nowadays I feel worse. I don’t want to talk to them about my feelings but I can’t hide them and they notice so they keep asking whats wrong to force me into the conv... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: This is the lowest I’ve ever felt |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2024, 12:24 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,239
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| I am not comfortable sharing my age. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: This is the lowest I’ve ever felt |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2024, 5:52 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,239
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| Thank you for responding. I wish I could talk to my family and feel better afterwards, it used to be like that when I was younger but nowadays I feel worse. I don’t want to talk to them about my feelings but I can’t hide them and they notice so they keep asking whats wrong to force me into the conve... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: This is the lowest I’ve ever felt |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2024, 5:29 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,239
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| I am struggling. I have no friends to talk to or social events to look forward to. I am tired from having to get up at 6am to go to work. I have faint flicking in my eye because I have to look at a computer all day. What’s there to enjoy anymore? I don’t find my hobbies fun to do. Everything has cha... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I’m tired and miserable |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 29 May 2024, 9:35 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,147
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| that is a heck of a long commute. The time it takes to get back and forth to that job robs you of time you could use in so many other ways. Can you build on the skills you have gained at your present job to look for a job that doesn't require such long travel times? That alone might cut down on som... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I’m tired and miserable |
| TheEmptyShell |
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Posted: 29 May 2024, 9:22 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,147
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| Have you considered that you might be clinically depressed? Have you had any history of anything like that? I have considered it before. Somewhere 5-10 years ago I went to see a doctor who said I am not depressed, that instead I am fed up. He would say depression would be not wanting to e.g. get ou... |
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