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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: The UNHAPPY period thread |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2017, 3:25 pm
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| First - stains. Sometimes hydrogen peroxide will work wonders. Second - it won't help with the accidents, but cloth pads are great (I haven't tried period panties yet, but I hear they're also great). I have a latex allergy, so I started using them, like, 8 years ago. They've gotten a lot better. And... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Boobs? |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2017, 3:20 pm
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Replies: 33
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| I seriously wish that I could go braless - however, as a girl with 34D cup size it is hard. Sagging is a given with my cup size... if I were a few cup sizes smaller I'd have zero issues going braless in public. I hate when people say that "Not wearing a bra makes your boobs perkier and less sa... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Interesting article on "autism camouflaging" |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2017, 3:02 pm
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Replies: 12
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| I wonder why girls camouflage more. Is it some hormone difference or are the expectations from girls different, even in the very early childhood? I used to cry a lot when I was a kid. Maybe if I was a boy, peers would tell me boys don't cry, I mustn't cry. What next? Anger and agression instead of ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bra pet peeves? |
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Posted: 03 May 2016, 2:42 pm
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Replies: 43
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| Oh, no! Bras! 1. I hate the feeling of the chest band bunching, or not sitting flat, or fitting tight. 2. The shoulder straps must sit exactly at the spot where the clavicle swoops up and becomes more horizontal. That's the sweet spot. If it rests anywhere else, I'll be forever tugging on the straps... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Gay aspies?!?!?! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2012, 2:03 pm
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| Definitely pansexual - I believe that love exists between two souls, not two bodies/vessels. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do YOU define Romance? |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2008, 4:31 pm
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Replies: 27
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| A lot of what I see described as romantic behavior - glances, caresses, thoughtful gifts, clowning, silly jokes - could fall under the legal definition of Sexual Harrassment... So the most I've been able to glean from this thread and the above Civil Rights Act, is that Romanticism somehow involves ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do YOU define Romance? |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2008, 2:07 pm
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Replies: 27
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| I guess I'm not romantic...I don't care about flowers, a dinner out, jewelry, cards, poetry, or notes. I guess I received too many gifts based on guilt instead of love over the years to last me a lifetime. Romance to me is a thought...a simple gift while you where away that says you missed having m... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Fun |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2008, 2:01 pm
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Cramps (men enter at own risk! ;) ) |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2008, 1:09 pm
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| I've said it before, and I'll say it again - our modern, over-processed diet has a tendency to throw our hormones out of whack. The chamomile helps immensely, and the evening primrose is great, but I have to recommend Vitex (chasteberry) to every woman I know who has any hormonal problems - it will ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Are there any lesbians on this site |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2008, 7:47 pm
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Replies: 36
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maddie wrote: hiya again how is everyone doing, well although i live with my wife i am a little bi but i usually think of myself as the ultimate drag queen, lmao, more of a bloke in a womans body than a real woman if you understand what i mean lmao
What an interesting way of putting it! Well said. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: did you chew or twirl your hair when you were a child? |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2007, 12:45 pm
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| But most of all is scratching my scalp through my hair I guess... somehow I have all these cuts/scabs and stuff on my head from doing that so much (like you find a bump, thne play with it until it bleeds and stuff-- I'll have a single cut last weeks because I over mess it, think ones there for like... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Are there any lesbians on this site |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2007, 9:57 pm
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| Womyn...I saw it spelled like that in a Alanis Morisette song before. Is that a lesbian term? I'm bi-sexual, but not very experinced in this realm, lol. Womyn is a term used by feminists, because wo men is derived from the word men , but womyn is its own word, and stands on its own. I like the conc... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspie girls- hate going to the mall?? |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2007, 9:54 pm
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| If you have to go to the mall, it's not really free. But the trip to B/N sounds good! |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Finding a New Job and Moving Out of State |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 4:12 pm
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Thanks so much for all your advice! Time to start phone interviewing!    |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Asperger's Syndrome and Personal Identity |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 4:05 pm
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Replies: 8
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| I think it's quite reasonable to want to learn to learn and grow is not mutually exclusive to wanting a job easy to handle with AS. The process of learning is a lot of work, and work is a lot of work. It is, perhaps, a good idea to carefully consider taking on a job where you are also learning and g... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Aspies & Lingerie |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 3:57 pm
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Replies: 118
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| The idea of wearing lingerie used to be a huge turn-off for me - it seemed to fake. As I got older, and more mature, I realized that lingerie is just another form of costuming - a way of emphasizing parts of a personality, or pretending to be a different person/persona. Kinda fun, like Halloween, bu... |
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