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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2007, 4:14 pm
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| is this the perception of russian women that you have? All of them are mail order brides? Nothing better? You dont think that there are enough Russian women who are educated and rely on themselves? I came here 10 years ago as an exchange student--I won a scholarship for extraordinary abilities. My h... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2007, 4:00 pm
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| Dear Rynessa, I am a US citizen, have been one long before I met my husband. In fact, my husband got his green card though marriage to me. So please stop insulting me. I can decide on my own where to live--this is my country as much as yours. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2007, 2:53 pm
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| Rynessa, why would I want to insult someone i dont even know? how can it be personal for me? i dont know you as a person, i dont know what relationship you are in! When i said YOU, ment people in general--not YOU personally. English is not my first language, so if there was a misunderstanding--i am ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2007, 2:01 pm
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| Yes, Rynessa--this is the exact problem i have with my husband--he does not undestand me. sometime people speak hypotetically. i could not address YOU personally, i dont know you. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are your favorite sensations? |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2007, 4:10 pm
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Strapples, i am really sorry, i hope they will figure out how to help you
and, yeah, a scuba tank is actually a good idea! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are your favorite sensations? |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2007, 3:48 pm
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| you have to talk to people who do deep sea diving, i would imagine it would be similar, maybe you should try to dive? it would problably feel very similar, you would be under a lot of pressure |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are your favorite sensations? |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2007, 3:32 pm
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| Strapples, you would not be able to breathe--i like it when i am held very tight, but then i usually cant breathe, so if you do get into that cuff it would be like to one minute and then you would have to get out |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are your favorite sensations? |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2007, 3:16 pm
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| if you really get into that huge cuff you will probalby die within a minute because there will be no blood flow |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2007, 3:08 pm
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| Mmaestro, I am talking only about my husband here, noone else, when I said--you should think before you marry, I was referring ONLY To him, every situation is different, everyone is different, I cant talk about anyone else except for us As for schizoid disorder--I've read the description, it says th... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2007, 5:27 pm
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| Who-Am_I, i am not suffering, i am happy because it makes him happy, i love change, i think it is good to change. Yes, compromise is good, thats what i am trying to say--both people have to compromise in the relationship, not just one |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2007, 4:51 pm
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| mmaestro, I am not judging anyone, I am talking out loud about my case--I just don’t understand why my husband marrier me. I read about shizoid disorder--not him at all, absolutely not, this is not what he has He took the test that I found here for Aspergers, I looked at his answers--in total denial... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2007, 4:12 pm
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| Plotonious, it is not about holding to a relationship--it is about making your partner happy, otherwise it is just pure selfishness, that’s what I think, this is what is convenient to you and you will not do anything. I understand that there are things he would not do, but what I see now if he does ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: First date tips for this Aspie (this Fri.) |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2007, 3:31 pm
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| Central, i was reading through this thread and wanted to post that this girl is probably full of b/s, and then i saw your last post. I am so sorry, it sucks, but you have to be careful on the internet, if she did not want to see you, she is probalby marrier/in a relationship and wanted to get some a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2007, 2:01 pm
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| Chelsea, i am not miserable because i changed for him--i am fine with my changes, i am happy that he is happy. I am miserable because he does not communicate. I think marriage is always work--and you have to always try to make your spouse happy, you have to change, everyone has to work on themselves... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2007, 12:24 pm
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| Rynessa, we are not saying that you guys are empty--we know you are not. What I was saying is that I feel empty with him, because of lack of his emotions, facial expressions, because we never share an intimate conversation I know that my husband loves me, but it does not make it any easier for me, I... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Think my husband has Aspreger |
| Isaura |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2007, 10:11 pm
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| Brian, if you cant relax it is a little different--it can be also depression, OCD, stress....i think if you take a break or change your environment it will help. I used to be like you (but without communicational problem) when i was in college--i missed home, i was too tired from work/school, so i g... |
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