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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to avoid Dating a Narcissist |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2022, 9:00 pm
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Replies: 159
Views: 21,752
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| Red flags I looked for on dates (before I became celibate lol) * love bombing very early in the relationship; flattery, compliments, gifts, attention, texts, comments on photos on social media * They decide where you will go on dates * They overstep boundaries you have told them eg. No kissing on fi... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Which wooden Lilith statue should I consider getting? |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2022, 11:05 am
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Replies: 94
Views: 2,304
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DeathFlowerKing wrote: DeathFlowerKing wrote: Of all the extra ones I looked at I think I like this one the most because it reminds me of the Burney Relief. 
I’d say this is the most powerful one. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to avoid Dating a Narcissist |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2022, 7:17 am
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Replies: 159
Views: 21,752
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| Ask if they like cats, most don’t as cats are not easily controlled… :cat: I've known a bit of non-narcissist who dislike cats. Fair point! I do know, of course, that there are genuine reasons like asthma or allergies for not wanting to be near cats… and I’m getting better at noticing other red fla... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What would your ideal partner be like? |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2022, 11:20 am
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Replies: 48
Views: 17,214
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Not cishet
Anti racist
Vegan
Capable of and willing to receive unconditional love
Actively working on their trauma
In control of or at least able to use strategies to control emotions
Acceptant and actively supportive of mutual growth and development
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Which type of guy is your favourite? |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2022, 11:06 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,506
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| The gay or trans type |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Where do you struggle with dating? |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2022, 11:05 am
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Replies: 60
Views: 5,790
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Well cishets only seem to value body parts, not people, and it’s hard to meet non binary queer people like me…   |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why many women dislike socially awkward men |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2022, 11:02 am
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Replies: 231
Views: 10,977
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| Most Neurotypicals dislike socially awkward people full stop. The solution is to find friends & a partner who is neurodiverse & understands |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to avoid Dating a Narcissist |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2022, 10:59 am
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Replies: 159
Views: 21,752
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Ask if they like cats, most don’t as cats are not easily controlled…  |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Questions about you |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2022, 10:42 am
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Replies: 5,722
Views: 1,120,783
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| What is your first name? Els Age: old enough to have adult kids but look half my age thanks to vegan diet & good genes :lol: :P Location: East UK Hobbies and interests: see below ‘fave subjects’… Why are you here? To meet, connect & converse with other Autistic people & make friends near... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Asperger's Research Study |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2022, 9:53 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,681
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| Personally, I find the terms aspie or Aspergers highly offensive since Hans Asperger was a Nazi who murdered Autistic people if they weren’t ‘high functioning’ enough. Same goes for functioning labels. In my 30 years teaching experience working with thousands of Autistic young people in the uk, we p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are Autistics Less Attractive Compared To Neurotypicals? |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2022, 5:18 am
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Replies: 86
Views: 6,681
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is being clean shaved really not a good look? |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2022, 4:51 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,021
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| A person who genuinely likes you won’t care |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you hold your hands up like a praying mantis? |
| RiverLad |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2022, 3:55 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 892
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| I know LOTS of Autistic people who do this (raptor hands) and have taught many students who do. I personally don’t, tho one of my main stims is to clap my palms together excitedly without touching fingers when I’m happy (I do this a lot when teaching) and I do the ‘praying hands’ gesture q a lot dur... |
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