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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Teacher threatened to cut student's fingers |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2010, 5:02 pm
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| In my first year of school my teacher lined us all up at the paper gilatine and said she would chop our fingers off. - of course she was not going to do it She was a great teacher though, just had a bad day. I thought she was realy going to do it at the time. That was in the days when they were allo... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: "Victim Syndrome" or "Villain Syndrome" |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2010, 9:35 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 4,493
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| Ah_Q, I misinterpreted your post. sorry for that, I have been making mistakes like this recently. I was busy trying to decide in which way to interpret what you meant because I have seen that type of comment used as sarcasim in other places. apologies. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: "Victim Syndrome" or "Villain Syndrome" |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2010, 2:35 pm
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Replies: 30
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| My post was not meant in a snide way, I hope it was not perceived like that. The comment below it makes it seem snide which is not what I meant. I was trying to say that often people can have undiagnosed Asperger's Syndrome and it can cause depression if you are unable to access apropriate help to m... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do Not Commit Suicide |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2010, 3:02 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,947
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| I have been suicidal many times, The only thing I worry about is other people finding me or IF its some kind of mortal crime that is punishable after death. I am not religious but this is something that I am worried about now. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: "Victim Syndrome" or "Villain Syndrome" |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2010, 2:40 am
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Replies: 30
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| Axel, you do sound very depressed about your situation, if thats a diagnosis you have been given then I doubt its wrong, it would not exclude the possibility of Aspergers Syndrome. You are very frustrated, that much is clear. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Jerks masquerading as Nice Guys. (Females only, please!) |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2010, 2:14 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 3,136
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| One thing I can say is I have never blamed a girl for not liking me and liking someone else or said they should like me. I think people who understand their limitations well or understand aspects of asperger's syndrome well would work on improving areas that are stopping relationships from happening... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Gay and an Aspie In Belfast |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2010, 1:43 am
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Replies: 2
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| I am heterosexual but people have sometimes said I was gay because I did not show interest in girls when I was younger. - that was because I was unsure of the social rules. I agree with dyingofpoetry, about how its harder with out being able to have friends. I would not be thinking so much about rel... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Professionals and people in authority that lie. |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2010, 3:03 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,402
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| The update I promised about the meeting that was to take place on monday is not possible because it was cancelled by my psyciatrist at the last moment and another of my appointments has been cancelled too. They have said that another appointment would be made at a later date. I thought I should post... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Professionals and people in authority that lie. |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2010, 2:04 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,402
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conundrum wrote: The person who helped me the most was/is my mom. I think this will work better than any so-called "help" from any so-called "professionals."
I agree, of course its good to look around for any help that might be available but i guess family is the best way  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Professionals and people in authority that lie. |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2010, 2:01 pm
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Replies: 18
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| Instead the psycologist just made the plan and i stayed loyal to it and there realy seemed to be some type of conflict with the different professionals involved. A conflict in which their egos got in the way. :roll: Or, they failed to communicate. Or both. It sucks that you had to get caught in the... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Professionals and people in authority that lie. |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2010, 1:39 pm
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Replies: 18
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| yes thats why i stopped seeing the cpn, Had they helped me adapt i would have been happy to try. I think my dad is prepared to give me some help about how to go forward apropriately into society with out being forced into crowds of people. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Professionals and people in authority that lie. |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2010, 1:14 pm
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Replies: 18
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| leejosepho, Its starting to make sense now, but that contract must have happened after may 2009 when my psycologist went away and when she came back the plan that was made was not supported by the new contract. I guess now I will have to start all over again and rethink my life. Things could have be... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Professionals and people in authority that lie. |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2010, 12:11 pm
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| That is what I need to find out, They made no mention of a different outcome for years and the psycologist drew up a plan with me which was agreed apon, if there was a difficulty they could have told me before the plan was made and ajustments could have been worked on. Instead the psycologist just m... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Professionals and people in authority that lie. |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2010, 9:02 am
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Replies: 18
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| One small update, it looks like the social worker is just for the meeting on monday to add suggestions and options, I am not actually being assigned one. thats a huge relief, my psyciatrist clarified this yesterday, even though he was on holiday which was nice of him I guess there is hope. I had pre... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Professionals and people in authority that lie. |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2010, 2:45 am
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Replies: 18
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| Thanks, Conundrum Thay did say something about budget cuts, but that it was only that they used to get extra money until the recession and now that have to make do with the normal amount. My psyciatrist said that that would not affect the service and I was being removed and he would not say why. I f... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Professionals and people in authority that lie. |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2010, 1:53 am
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Replies: 18
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| Hi Conundrum, Thanks for your reply, all they said on the phone was that it seemed that it would be two months more until the person came back and then when I phoned in two months time the same thing happened again. I knew that the person was back because other people were working with them. So I wa... |
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