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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does it ever get easier coping with rejection? |
| lovebat |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2017, 6:30 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 634
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| It always stings for me right at the moment I get rejected like that, no matter how many girls have accepted in the past; however, I've found that since having a handful of relationships with excellent people I still admire, I no longer dwell on an individual rejection for nearly so long as I used t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Looking when people talk to you |
| lovebat |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2017, 11:04 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,229
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| I never know what to do with my eyes when I'm chatting with someone, and now that I think about it, that might explain why my best conversations seem to take place while I'm driving with someone in my car. It's one of those rare times when the other person would rather I not make much eye contact wi... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Do you think it is selfish to have kids? |
| lovebat |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2017, 2:02 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 842
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| I don't believe the world is overpopulated; the problem is the quality of those seven billion human beings we already have. Too many of us are insecure, selfish, and cold. I want to have children so I can raise them to be intelligent, confident, affectionate individuals. In my opinion, the Earth is ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If i had an ex-girlfriend, it would be much more easy |
| lovebat |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2017, 11:00 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,697
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| I guess I don't understand how a guy would feel more self-confident if a girl is initially interested in him, dates him for an extended period of time, and then dumps him once she really gets to know him; that hasn't been my experience at all. I've found breakups to be far more painful than when I'm... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Where and How to Meet Girls |
| lovebat |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2017, 10:06 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 793
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| Because girls usually talk about there partners ...and they tend to mention their partner especially quick when a fellow they don't know approaches them with romantic intentions. Unless, of course, she's interested enough in you that she'd rather you NOT know about her boyfriend; however, that sort... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Discovering and channeling unusual skills for college |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2017, 5:33 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 578
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| I'm not sure what grade your son is in currently, but I would highly recommend he try enrolling in a college course or two while he's still in high school. That's what I did a few years back while attending high school in the LA area. The public high schools weren't all that great, but the Californi... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: What music do you like? |
| lovebat |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2017, 1:21 am
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Replies: 40
Views: 1,959
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| I try my best to find something to appreciate about music from every genre, but many of my favorites would be considered classic rock: Beatles, Hendrix, Zeppelin, Doobie Bros, (early) Chicago, Allman Bros, Three Dog Night, CCR I've been listening to a bunch of jingly shoegaze lately, Galaxie 500 and... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Talking to guys and Building self confidence |
| lovebat |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2017, 8:51 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 505
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I don't think you have much to lose approaching him and starting a conversation. I'm a guy and I've never been offended when a girl decides I'm worthy of her time and attention 
...and awkward is often endearing. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Telling Someone |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2009, 6:36 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,310
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| I would definitely let him know you kinda like him, and if he doesn't express any interest back it'll hurt a little and be embarrassing, but as long as you don't make a big deal or keep bugging him about it you should still be able to save the friendship. :) I have done it...plenty. Always ended up ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Making a friend and telling him I'm an Aspie |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2009, 7:11 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,055
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| If you want to become friends with this guy, I would definitely not make the first thing you guys do together a serious discussion about Aspergers; that would probably just scare him away. I would just tell him you think he's a cool dude and that you guys should chill sometime, maybe ask if he wants... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Ever did anything really bad, just to fit in at school? |
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Posted: 12 Apr 2008, 6:33 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,564
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| Bad= was so stressed out and anxious that I made myself sick and didn't go to school and ended up on Independent Study. Other than that, no behavioral issues, no crime waves were wrought upon my small town by aspies desperate to fit in. I was desperate to fit in, but I knew I could not. So I really... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Aspergers and Acting/Theatre |
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Posted: 03 Apr 2008, 6:15 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,531
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| I'm an actor. I really enjoy it. I agree with what you were saying, and I'd like to add that one thing I love about acting is that the writer did all the hard work of thinking up what I should be saying and all I need to worry about is listening and reacting to what the other actors are doing (if th... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Ethnicity |
| lovebat |
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Posted: 03 Apr 2008, 6:01 pm
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Replies: 135
Views: 16,125
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| Mostly German and a little bit English. |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Favourite Hitchcock Film |
| lovebat |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2008, 4:04 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,241
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| "Rear Window" or the 1956 remake of "The Man Who Knew Too Much" |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Is WP safe for kids? |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2008, 3:25 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,422
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| Well, the adult forum can get sorta racy at times (not that its anything that would scar your child if they stumbled upon it), but other than that it seems safe to me. Of course, my parents never really worried too much about the movies I watched or games that I played when I was growing up, so I am... |
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