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Forum: The Haven Topic: I really need help |
| lightening020 |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2013, 2:11 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,535
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| JBlitzen> Its impossible to really go through everything, but basically self-diagnosing myself I have had social anxiety, avoidant personality disorder, love-shyness my whole life. I'v never really known how to make friends, how to connect with people. Instead of seeking help I just withdrew myself ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I really need help |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2013, 7:52 pm
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Replies: 10
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| " If you can make yourself into something that you are proud of others will pick up on that in time." I'm not proud of myself though. I hate myself. I regret everything in my life. Everything. period I missed out on everything. I missed out on everything.....I can't tell you how much this fucken hur... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Avoidant Personality Disorder |
| lightening020 |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2013, 1:39 pm
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Replies: 10
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| I can relate to that bro. I don't think medication or supplements work :( I have been on Mirtazapine for awhile and I have recently tried Phenibut. I can notice a little difference from each of them but nothing near what they were advertised as and the reviews that people gave them. I honestly think... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I really need help |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 4:21 pm
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Replies: 10
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| This is the hardest time in my life. This is the crunching time. This is when I will either grow and overcome what is holding me back, or I'm descending into darkness. My whole life has been a waste. I've held everything inside all my pains and troubles because I never had a forum for them. My paren... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My Life really never started...... |
| lightening020 |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2012, 12:58 am
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Replies: 17
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| Well, what kind of person do you want to be? I mean that as a serious question. If you make a list of all the things you want to be, what would the list say? If you want to be social, try to think of ways to make that happen. Take a social skills or etiquette course if you feel it would help. Start... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why does the world have to revolve around sex?!? |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2012, 12:52 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 6,058
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| all those things you mentioned are part of the "media". Its not suprising because sex sells and nearly everything in this world revolves around money. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: This party last night.... |
| lightening020 |
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Posted: 10 Nov 2012, 3:28 pm
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Replies: 1
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| made me so depressed...........how can anyone feel comfortable at a party? Just don't understand it. I tried talking to people here and there but all that came out of my mouth sounded goofy. Its then in that moment like the constant shadow of gloom is over me that I am not myself I don't know where ... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: testosterone... |
| lightening020 |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2012, 6:09 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 5,973
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| seems like life is going well for you. Congrats. I suspect I've had a low testosterone for years, and if not low, then certainly lower than my peers. But I don't know because I have never had it checked. I lift weights occasionally but I'm not super into it. I have tried to get into it before gettin... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: being scared of intimacy? |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2012, 11:24 pm
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Replies: 6
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paddy26 wrote: I get genuinely scared of being intimate with people sometimes and was just wondering if this is a natural symptom of aspergers or if there is a maybe a deeper problem.
I'm still trying to figure this out....I feel this exactly too brah..... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I feel like nobody knows me.... |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2012, 12:17 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,098
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| Bro, your gonna get through this. Every bit of it. I know what it's like, I know how hard all of it is, but I'll tell ya now it's only temporary, and you might already know that. One thing that keeps me going is the fact that I learned how to dis-concern myself with social relationships. I know it ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I feel like nobody knows me.... |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2012, 1:06 am
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| My whole life just feels like I a waste....everything....I'm sorry i'm sorry to say that but I really beleive it's true. Nothing I have done has felt "true".....I lost myself a long time ago.....I have just been on a lonely path to nowhere....never actually had a relationship or a real encounter wit... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Age 17-21: how was it for you? |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 6:45 pm
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Replies: 15
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| For me....I'm 25 and I barely feel like I can let me emotions out.........barely starting to mature.....but I have my reasons for this (brain imbalances from some addictions of mine) that no doubt have had a big impact on me. 17-21 like ages almost 5-25 have sucked terribly for me. I'm sure you will... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: PUA can be dangerously effective. |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2012, 2:32 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 7,237
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| Boo> Its all in that guys personality. Thats who he is. He is a conniving malicious, manipulative person. Was he completely different before he started learning PUA? I don't really believe it. Is that what anybody here aspires to be so they can get girls? The whole befriending the boyfriend to get ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: PUA can be dangerously effective. |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2012, 11:59 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Boo> Its all in that guys personality. Thats who he is. He is a conniving malicious, manipulative person. Was he completely different before he started learning PUA? I don't really believe it. Is that what anybody here aspires to be so they can get girls? The whole befriending the boyfriend to get c... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Social Network rejection!! ! |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2012, 11:51 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,283
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| Maybe its not quite rejection, its just that people don't really care. Some people (usually girls....hey I'm just saying!) post something really inane and possibly with a picture of themselves, and they get at least 5+ comments. If you have almost no social pull, nobody really is going to care about... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: What is it with college people? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2012, 11:38 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 4,180
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| basically I was just saying: The overall vibe of students my age...I just don't get. Whatever makes them feel and act the way they do, it isn't in me, and its off-putting. There is something very annoying about it. forget about the specifics of what I said. Theres vibes that other people create, and... |
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