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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Societal Conditioning about Marriage!! ! |
| Pink Zeppelin |
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Posted: 21 May 2025, 11:50 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,762
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| I agree, but unfortunately that's the way society is and will continue to be. If being single and childfree was shown more in a positive light in the media more people would feel comfortable with where they are in life. Read up on evolutionary psychology. It explains all of this. It isn't social co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 21 May 2025, 11:45 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 8,413
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| Autism doesn't override all DNA and inherited social behaviors, just a few of them. Yes, the environment can play a part also, but the idea that people only want to get married and/or have children is because of social conditioning really doesn't hold up to most scientific findings. Plenty of people... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 20 May 2025, 2:57 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 8,413
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| You must have that built-in desire for marriage and children Yes, it isn't just social conditioning. We are genetically programmed to want relationships and have children. Some people end up not wanting one or the other but they are a minority. If we didn't have that pre-programmed desire, the huma... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Female Vocalist Appreciation |
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Posted: 16 May 2025, 12:33 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 7,777
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Random Discussion - Music |
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Posted: 16 May 2025, 12:30 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 11,096
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| Love that I can find any song or album I want to hear on Youtube today (especially Pink Floyd and Led Zeppelin). No longer need to buy anything music related. Saves a lot of space in the house also |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Supplements and chronic tendinitis |
| Pink Zeppelin |
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Posted: 16 May 2025, 12:22 pm
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Replies: 0
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| Been experiencing tendinitis in my knee for the past 2 years. Been taking collogen supplements for the past couple of months. Has anyone found other supplements that help with tendinitis? I know Tumeric is supposed to reduce inflammation, but once tendinitis reaches the chronic stage it may no longe... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Societal Conditioning about Marriage!! ! |
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Posted: 16 May 2025, 12:17 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,762
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| I agree, but unfortunately that's the way society is and will continue to be. If being single and childfree was shown more in a positive light in the media more people would feel comfortable with where they are in life. Read up on evolutionary psychology. It explains all of this. It isn't social co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 16 May 2025, 12:16 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 8,413
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| You must have that built-in desire for marriage and children, Yes, it isn't just social conditioning. We are genetically programmed to want relationships and have children. Some people end up not wanting one or the other but they are a minority. If we didn't have that pre-programmed desire, the hum... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What could her facial expressions mean? |
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Posted: 06 May 2025, 2:15 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,523
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| My third trip, I got bad vibes when I entered so I didn't speak but she said my name for the first time when she told me to have a good day My most recent trip, when I walked in. She gave me this look that gave me bad vibes and when she finally finish helping a customer. She said my name again but ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How come some people still get married rather young ? |
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Posted: 06 May 2025, 12:18 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 7,536
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| Because they insist on being miserable and want to place major barriers to breaking that goal in case they get a wild desire to be happy. Having the courts impede on any separation and decide how to divide assets is a proven way to maintain a sense of misery through any periods of personal desire f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What could her facial expressions mean? |
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Posted: 06 May 2025, 12:17 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,523
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cold approaches never work, and this is her workplace.
Prove it! There is not one couple of the face of this earth who met by a cold approach? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worried women will expect me to be "experienced" at 30+ |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2025, 12:03 pm
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Replies: 24
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| Worried women will expect me to be "experienced" at 30+ This has not been my experience. I have never had a bad reaction from a woman when I told them I was a virgin, including women I was dating. All of the virgin hate I got came from men. My experience was the same as yours. You don't e... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If I'm unhappy single why don't I prioritise it ? |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2025, 10:20 am
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Replies: 20
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| I don't think anyone can become abusive. People whose values include that violence is wrong wont. I haven't experienced marriage as being super tough most of the time. You just have to live with the idea you won't get your own way most of the time. If you have the level or type of ASD where everythi... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Half marathon |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2025, 1:55 pm
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Replies: 30
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| I guess one positive thing about having ASD (probably the only positive) is that I no longer fear death. I can't wait to check out and go somewhere where I fit in better. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Just signed up to Betterhelp to get a therapist |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2025, 10:21 am
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Replies: 87
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| Therapy doesn't work well when someone is intoxicated. Too hard to build connections that are authentic |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: bored, sick and tired |
| Pink Zeppelin |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2025, 10:19 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,816
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shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
nothing i do is ever good enough.
Who tells you this-yourself or others?
And the truth is we cannot do anything we set our mind to. That is the big egalitarian behaviorist lie we have been fed. We all have limitations we can't overcome with all the effort in the world. |
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