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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks?

Posted: 13 Sep 2019, 3:42 pm 

Replies: 478
Views: 8,734


Marknis wrote:
The incels that live in liberal areas and want to move to the Bible Belt baffle me. Even in the Bible Belt, you aren’t going to get any dates unless you are a “bad boy”. Just being a man is not enough.


Everything about the thinking of Incels baffles me. They miss the mark on absolutely everything.

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: Ruined reputation

 Post subject: Re: Ruined reputation
Posted: 13 Sep 2019, 3:35 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 274


I don't know if a "ruined reputation" are a the right words to use to describe my son's situation. He will graduate from college this year. He is articulate, friendly, and respectful but because we live in the same neighborhood that he grew up in, all my neighbors refer to him as "th...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks?

Posted: 11 Sep 2019, 1:56 pm 

Replies: 478
Views: 8,734


My redneck father used dating sites despite being married and has a ton of mistresses. He tends to aim towards women looking for “sugar daddies” or “high status males” and being a doctor makes him come off like those. He would be incel if he wasn’t a doctor. He sounds like a jerk. I'm glad I don't ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I Have Kept Myself Single For A Reason.

Posted: 11 Sep 2019, 1:52 pm 

Replies: 34
Views: 577


Often what people offer to each other is as simple as the ability to understand and relate. That does not require success, riches or perfection. In fact, success, riches and attempts to be perfect can get in the way of feeling any real or deep connection. Since you do see yourself marrying someday, ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks?

Posted: 11 Sep 2019, 1:43 pm 

Replies: 478
Views: 8,734


Yeah, sorry about that. Ok, GF 1 at college. Both belonged to the same computer game and design club, and spent 90% of their free time in a game lab on campus, programming and playing computer games. GF 2 through a summer job, where my son taught computer programming and game design to little kids....

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks?

Posted: 10 Sep 2019, 6:38 pm 

Replies: 478
Views: 8,734


There are many unemployed, ugly, jerky, and dirty guys who seem to have no trouble getting women..... I used to know some of them. The ones I know tend to settle for women in similar situations and looks to themselves though I sometimes see fat guys with skinny girlfriends. They luck out because th...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Study: No Dates Correlates to Less Depression.

Posted: 10 Sep 2019, 6:27 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 355


I think this tends to be teens who are making an active choice not to date because they are either aware they aren't ready, have larger goals dating would interfere with, or have values they strongly believe in that ask them to wait, etc. I would agree with this. If there's any validity to this stu...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks?

Posted: 10 Sep 2019, 4:10 pm 

Replies: 478
Views: 8,734


There are many unemployed, ugly, jerky, and dirty guys who seem to have no trouble getting women..... I used to know some of them. The ones I know tend to settle for women in similar situations and looks to themselves though I sometimes see fat guys with skinny girlfriends. They luck out because th...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Study: No Dates Correlates to Less Depression.

Posted: 10 Sep 2019, 4:02 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 355


The Journal of School Health published a study from survey-based research of 594 students in the 10th grade and concluded that students who weren't dating had significantly higher teacher ratings of social skills and leadership.  Additionally, it found that those students also had lower ratings of ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks?

Posted: 10 Sep 2019, 12:51 am 

Replies: 478
Views: 8,734


There are many unemployed, ugly, jerky, and dirty guys who seem to have no trouble getting women..... I used to know some of them. The ones I know tend to settle for women in similar situations and looks to themselves though I sometimes see fat guys with skinny girlfriends. They luck out because th...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Turned 31 without a girlfriend. Is it time to give up?

Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 8:40 pm 

Replies: 122
Views: 3,528


Moretto wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
I'm going to be a broken record: you can't live your life looking for a relationship. They happen when you aren't looking. Live your life for you.


This is advice for women.


It's been working for my son.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Am I always destined to be single?

Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 8:33 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 253


You have time to change your story. 28 is not that old. I didn't meet my husband until I was 34; my sister not until she was 39. Live your life for you, be your best self, forget about looking for relationships. When you live for yourself and engage in the world the connections you make are your bes...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Turned 31 without a girlfriend. Is it time to give up?

Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 8:19 pm 

Replies: 122
Views: 3,528


I'm going to be a broken record: you can't live your life looking for a relationship. They happen when you aren't looking. Live your life for you. Find a way to be content with who you are and what you do without having a partner to do these things with. Learn to be happy with you. Be your best sel...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks?

Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 8:10 pm 

Replies: 478
Views: 8,734


There are many unemployed, ugly, jerky, and dirty guys who seem to have no trouble getting women..... I used to know some of them. The ones I know tend to settle for women in similar situations and looks to themselves though I sometimes see fat guys with skinny girlfriends. They luck out because th...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks?

Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 8:08 pm 

Replies: 478
Views: 8,734


I devote myself to romantic interests, doesn’t matter cause they never let me close to find out. Have you ever asked any friends what you project? It is what you project that will make someone want to find out more. It's tough, I know. I used to project "stay away from me" even though I h...
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