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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fear of Rejection |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 12 Jun 2025, 3:28 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 855
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babybird wrote: I'm sorry man
That must be really tough for you
It is. In ways that others just don’t understand. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fear of Rejection |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 12 Jun 2025, 1:04 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 855
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| This certainly plays a role for me but it’s not the main reason as to why I’ve never been on a date at 30. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Making up for lost time |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 30 May 2025, 9:51 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 2,081
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| From my experiences, it has become impossible to date and be in relationships. I’ve found that women around my age (I’m 30) want to date someone who has experience. They don’t want to go teaching someone the wants/needs/expectations to those who have none at our age. I’ve personally discovered that ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does "losing my virginity" make me "more of a man?" |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 1:23 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,718
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| Lol I had sex (lost my virginity) and I don't feel like a changed woman In that sense, sex is overrated because people place SO MUCH stock & emphasis on it! The things that would actually make me feel "more like a woman" are as follows... -Getting a good job/career -Learning how to dr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does "losing my virginity" make me "more of a man?" |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 1:12 pm
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Replies: 17
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| It won’t make you more of a man but having sex is a pretty important milestone for everybody. More important than people want to admit. It’s highly unusual for anyone to be 30+ and still be a virgin. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worried I'll be the only one left behind |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 1:20 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 3,430
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| Well you won’t be left behind. I’ll most likely be a 50 year old, 60 year old, 70+ year old virgin who’s never been on a first date. Women (both NT and autistic) don’t want to date an ugly and autistic man. Unfortunately that’s what I am. There are some exceptions & my current girlfriend is one... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Coping with being undateable. |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 3:45 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,642
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Coilette_91 wrote: I already saw the supposed red flags, they aren't all red flags to me. You never know, we might actually hit it off.
If you say so. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Coping with being undateable. |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 3:44 pm
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Replies: 14
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blitzkrieg wrote: 30 years old is still young. There is hope for you yet.
It is from an overall life perspective but it’s unusual for someone to be 30+ and have no experience. Most people get them in their late teens to 20’s. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Coping with being undateable. |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 3:28 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,642
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| Heck, I might even be interested. No it’s not possible. I think I might have found your problem... I mean I did say I have a bad personality that I can't change and understood why I'm seen as being undateable to women. However even with this, I'm still bitter that I'll never experience it even thou... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Coping with being undateable. |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 1:44 pm
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Replies: 14
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| I had followed the dating advice and became the best version of myself from a dating standpoint. It didn’t matter. Women were repulsed by me and I’ve even creeped out some by accident. After all of that, I relaized that I’m just undateable to women. try redirection. take your mind off dating altoge... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Coping with being undateable. |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 1:30 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Hello everyone. I was wondering if anybody could tell me what are some ways to cope with me being forever single. Now before anyone says I won’t be, let me tell you about me. I’m 30, man, autistic, universally ugly to women, women repellent, never been flirted with, never been on a date, still a KH... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Coping with being undateable. |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 1:21 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Women experience this all the time too. You are not the only one. And yes, it is possible to learn and make changes that others will appreciate so that it doesn't have to be a lifetime situation. Finally, developing friendships -- real friendships, not looking for anything romantic or physical -- i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Coping with being undateable. |
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Posted: 07 May 2025, 2:10 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Hello everyone. I was wondering if anybody could tell me what are some ways to cope with me being forever single. Now before anyone says I won’t be, let me tell you about me. I’m 30, man, autistic, universally ugly to women, women repellent, never been flirted with, never been on a date, still a KHH... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What could her facial expressions mean? |
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Posted: 06 May 2025, 12:29 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,554
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| Cold approaches never work, and this is her workplace. Prove it! There is not one couple of the face of this earth who met by a cold approach? They are becoming more and more rare though. Women would rather be warmed approach (being friends with the same friend) nowadays. That or don’t approach at ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you think she likes me? |
| Escape1894 |
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Posted: 05 May 2025, 11:17 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 2,489
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| Met up with this couple I am friends with recently for her birthday She's 22 and said to me "You look really smart" and also when I put brill cream in my hair "You look slick" Judging by her comments do you think she might find me somewhat attractive? Is she already in a relatio... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worried I'll be the only one left behind |
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Posted: 05 May 2025, 11:15 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 3,430
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| Well you won’t be left behind. I’ll most likely be a 50 year old, 60 year old, 70+ year old virgin who’s never been on a first date. Women (both NT and autistic) don’t want to date an ugly and autistic man. Unfortunately that’s what I am. |
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