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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Free ebook on dating for Aspie men |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2008, 8:53 pm
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Replies: 32
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Free ebook on dating for Aspie men |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2008, 9:38 pm
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Replies: 32
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| The odometer is ticking up. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A bunch of girls. |
| Complex |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2008, 10:06 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,500
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| Talking to as many people as possible never hurts. You're not being unfaithful if you''re not in a relationship. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Confidence Myth |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2008, 8:42 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 3,935
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| Everytime I've been confident in asking a girl out, they always say no. Every single time (how many times has that been? 20? 30? +?) But everytime I'm obliviously aloof, it's gotten me somewhere....Like my first girlfriend, a mutual friend told her that I liked her, and then she told me she wasn't ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Confidence Myth |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2008, 8:21 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 3,935
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| Let me guess, complex and LPP have gone to war... I'm not going to continue debating this guy, I am not doing war with you. I don't have to as I'm the one who goes to bed with a woman every night. How NT this attitude is , good for you , since you are the one who goes to bed with a woman every nigh... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Confidence Myth |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2008, 3:19 pm
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Replies: 30
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ToadOfSteel wrote: Let me guess, complex and LPP have gone to war...
I'm not going to continue debating this guy, I don't have to as I'm the one who goes to bed with a woman every night. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I've got a question YAY! yay? |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2008, 9:53 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,345
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| Sounds like you're on the right track. Good idea taking speech class BTW. Public speaking helps with confidence. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Guys: Confidence and why it matters |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2008, 9:48 am
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Replies: 39
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| I didn't hide anything. If you've going to be confident, you need to act the part by dressing decently and having a few things to talk about. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Ladies who have tried it, how do you feel about anal sex? |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2008, 11:53 pm
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Replies: 157
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| Sorry if I offended anyone. I didn't mean to kill the "Anal" thread. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I've got a question YAY! yay? |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2008, 11:41 pm
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Replies: 11
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| Perhaps you should ask her if she wants to study with you or hang out with you at the library. Trust me, I'm a librarian, and the library can be a cool place to hang. I've had many of my most intense romantic moments at the library. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Guys: Confidence and why it matters |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2008, 11:20 pm
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Replies: 39
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| I really don't know why you find it so unbelievable that us Aspies can learn some mainstream skills and land a girl without being rich, having high status, or mad skills. Most men do it naturally with none of these things, it's just more difficult for us to grasp. I have fairly high status (at leas... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I've got a question YAY! yay? |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2008, 10:44 pm
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Replies: 11
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| Hmmm....the lack of email could be a dodge on her part, don't know enough about her though. Just talk to her as much as possible at school for a few weeks and see what happens. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I've got a question YAY! yay? |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2008, 10:19 pm
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Replies: 11
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It means that if the spark is there, then because you have a lot in common, it's a good basis for a relationship. You might want to pay special attention to this girl.
Is she the redhead? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Guys: Confidence and why it matters |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2008, 8:25 pm
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Replies: 39
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| So you did developed mainstream hobbies beside your geeky aspie hobbies.....is there anything else that you forgot to tell us too? Being a librarian doesn't even pay what a teacher makes. It's an OK living, but not great; kind of a dead end job really. I dated my first girlfriend from 19 to 22. I l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Guys: Confidence and why it matters |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2008, 8:17 pm
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| Confidence alone is not enough , you need high social status , success , skills (ie. dancing), hobbies (not geeky hobbies) such as sports ,car , to be indifferent...etc , good shape helps a lot too. You need solid ground so you can stand your confidence on its legs , confidence can't be spawn insta... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Did I make something wrong? What should I do? |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2008, 7:22 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,560
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| Thank´s a lot for all your suggestions , they are really important for me! :) , it´s sad that even if we are considered smart people we suffer for this situations :( ..ahh the ways of an aspie I guess. Don't feel bad. When I was single, those things happened to me all the time. Looking back, there ... |
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