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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: NT Women...how do you deal with them as an aspie male? |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2011, 2:07 pm
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Replies: 61
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| I've had this problem with men. There are a lot of men in the world that I would not go out with. However, it does not mean that I do not think of them as human beings that might be interesting. Does this mean that I should not initiate enjoyable conversations with them? To have had an enjoyable co... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "I have no emotions" ... |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2011, 8:05 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 4,878
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In order that the important thing is not to get carried away by emotions.
I think we have a handicap for. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "I have no emotions" ... |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2011, 11:30 pm
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Replies: 51
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| I feel sadness . I feel fear to social situations, no, not fear just dislike . I feel anxiety (it is a feeling?) I feel laugther , and I like to smile alone while I am driving. I feel shame of to do something wrong, again, in social situations. Yes, I have lots of feelings, or emotions, or things. I... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I can't go it alone anymore |
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Posted: 20 Jul 2011, 9:49 pm
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Replies: 19
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| To be clear, when I say I want to be more honest and open about my personal problems, I mean that I want to open up more to the people closest to me, such as my parents, but not everyone I know. I will take it slow though, so thanks for that advice. Maybe I am not the best to advice you. I don't re... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I can't go it alone anymore |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2011, 11:16 pm
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Replies: 19
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| I use to say that friendship is overvalued. My advice, is that you "walk with lead feet" (gingerly, --translator said--). When you decide it is time to be more opened: do it little by little. There are lots of people that seems to be great friends, specially when they begin opening their minds at yo... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Those on the spectrum not good at math and science.... |
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Posted: 02 Jul 2011, 11:40 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 5,284
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| I was above the average at school. I think I did not have significant problems with any subject. Even so, I've got not superpowers. I found my vocation several years before I realized my lack of socialization skills. I've worked at electronics world most of my life. I am good enough an is a subject ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Violating the social code of conduct |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2011, 9:49 pm
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Replies: 6
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| Hi! There is a rule that i broke deliberately each time i make or receive a phone call. (Telephone ringing) --Yes? --Hi Luis, how are you? (Sometimes that question came from work partners that I just saw at the morning, some times it came from people who I am sure they don't care a little bit how I ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I don't even fit the DSM-IV criteria for Asperger's anymore |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2010, 9:47 pm
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Replies: 16
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| Hm, here's a question I'd like to ask: how much of this forum doesn't even fit most of the DSM-IV criteria anymore, but still considers themselves Aspie? Autism symptoms trend to disapear with the age. Not because the brain becomes typical, but the person learns to behave ahd to understand the othe... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you remember? Autobiographical memory |
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Posted: 12 Jun 2010, 12:43 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,171
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valoyossa wrote: I remember many things since I was a baby. People often tell me that I lie.
This is to I what I refer. My first memories are from when I was almost 5 years old.  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you remember? Autobiographical memory |
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Posted: 12 Jun 2010, 8:24 am
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Replies: 13
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| Thank you for your replies. My doubt was answered. It was because nobody mentioned before like a symptom of AS but the article I was mentioned. Maybe this article and the another posted by skysaw are mistaken since they are trying to explain the lack of social skills and lack of goals based in this ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you remember? Autobiographical memory |
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Posted: 11 Jun 2010, 12:22 am
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Replies: 13
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| I'm reading now: "You might be an aspie if..." a thread who started in 2005, and still going on. In it; everybody feels the impulse to write his/her own experiences tips (in a very funny way) which indicate the presence of Asperger syndrome. The issue is that nobody, at any Asperger forum that I had... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you pay attention to how people MOVE.....? |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2010, 10:48 pm
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Replies: 12
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| I don't want to say I'm blind to it but even If I did watch I don't remember how people really move or walk. I don't even remember the different faces people make and these are people I know like work place people my parents, my sister and so on. It's like I see and then I don't see it. Know my sis... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What motivates Self-Diagnosis? |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2010, 11:21 pm
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Replies: 69
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| Maybe you will begin to laugh because of me. But I always believed that I was a normal guy. I mean, knew I was different, but different like all the people is different. Not different but equal to another different people. Between the "instructions" that I recieved, just remember lots of critiques a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What motivates Self-Diagnosis? |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2010, 11:25 pm
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Replies: 69
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| Mine is a different case. I was in a ride, in the car with a job partner. He told me someone out in the sidewalk just said hi to me and I did not notice. Like a way to say him that was normal in me (when i ride with my wife is the same history): I told that I had small autism. Was a joke, but it was... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: If a cure was forced upon you |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2010, 12:03 am
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Replies: 43
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| Once, I had an idea: I wondered what if I could choose between have more social skills but lose my way of think. Definitely I can't be my self if I can't think like I do. And the best I have is my way. Yes, I spend lots of energy trying to understand what I must do to fit or not be abnormal on certa... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you negative? |
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Posted: 18 Dec 2009, 11:38 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,089
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| I really thing that I am a positive person. The problem comes if you ask to the oters. |
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