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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Struggling with depression over always being single. |
| AroDweeb64 |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2026, 4:48 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 443
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| Modern dating in America is a scam. Autistic men, especially in this country, are very prone to abuse and manipulation so perhaps it is best you dont date. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating autistic women |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2026, 6:14 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 691
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| Fair. But people hate me and want me dead just for being the average autistic male. Have to look out for my own safety at this point. I can't comment for certain on your specific circumstances, but for most people including the average autistic male , believing the general public hate them and want... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating autistic women |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2026, 5:09 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 691
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| I'm sure I'd just run into the same BS if I ever tried again, honestly. It's not luck. It's this generation. Not cut out for it. This sounds like how Eeyore would evaluate things. Or Squidward... Fair. But people hate me and want me dead just for being the average autistic male. Have to look out fo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating autistic women |
| AroDweeb64 |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2026, 5:06 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 691
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| Well, I'm autistic and asexual. I have dated hetero and bisexual autistic women and if I am going to be completely honest- the experiences were worse than the neurotypicals I've dated. One decided to yell at and berate me for "not doing enough" when I was working my ASS off at the time an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating autistic women |
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Posted: 10 Feb 2026, 9:54 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 691
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| Well, I'm autistic and asexual. I have dated hetero and bisexual autistic women and if I am going to be completely honest- the experiences were worse than the neurotypicals I've dated. One decided to yell at and berate me for "not doing enough" when I was working my ASS off at the time and... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to respond to being called "so hot and out of league?" |
| AroDweeb64 |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2026, 10:45 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 166
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MaxE wrote: Probably intends to take advantage.
Ain't that the truth? Seems like that's all women want to do these days. I kind of just ignored her and will probably unmatch. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How Would You Rate Yourself In The Following Categories? |
| AroDweeb64 |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2026, 10:44 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,816
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| Face: 5 (could maybe be a 6 or 7 if not for the cleft palate) Body: 3 (fat, man boobs) Hairstyle: 0 (clean shaven so what is there to even judge) Fashion Style: 2 (oversized hoodies and sweats for days I hate dressing up) Athleticism:0 Personality:5 Intelligence:5 Sense of Humor:7 Social Intelligenc... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to respond to being called "so hot and out of league?" |
| AroDweeb64 |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2026, 9:13 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 166
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cyberdora wrote: AroDweeb64 wrote: I am a guy who is only 5'6 and on the fat side LOL. AroDweeb64 wrote: Her first line was "you are so f*****g hot and out of my league" Spidey senses tingling.
Normally, mines would be too. But they're white and definitely not Trans. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to respond to being called "so hot and out of league?" |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2026, 3:36 pm
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Replies: 12
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| Im bored so I decided to install tinder as I heard other asexuals have had success with it. I recently matched with a girl that is a bit younger than me (22 and I am 30). Her first line was "you are so f*****g hot and out of my league" and I am a little surprised. I have never had that adj... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Should I have lots of money by my 30s |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2026, 11:30 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 375
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| I have 32k saved up right now. s**t has become overly complicated now that my mom passed and I have a house in my name while still having my apartment (at least until July because I plan on leaving after five years with this going on). All paid off- just have to take care of fixing things/painting a... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Autistic cleft palate survivor, 30 years old living in MO |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2026, 11:26 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 84
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| I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your parents. It's seems like many of us autistics have little to no family left / in our lives, so you are in good company here. I do have an older cousin helping me out with the things I am terrible at (documents, getting all this insurance BS under my name now... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Autistic cleft palate survivor, 30 years old living in MO |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2026, 11:24 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 84
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| I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your parents. They were likely very important to your life, even if that wasn't obvious or clear...though I suspect you were aware of it. Horror movies? If mixed with either Comedy or Science Fiction it might be a movie I'd be interested in seeing. And, have... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: What was the last game you won? |
| AroDweeb64 |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2026, 9:27 pm
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Replies: 149
Views: 52,835
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| Decided to have a chill session before work- Super Mario Bros (all courses) and Chip and Dale for NES back to back before it was time to get ready. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Autistic cleft palate survivor, 30 years old living in MO |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2026, 9:26 pm
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Replies: 6
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| Just realized I didn't do one of these when I joined. Anyways, my name is Evan and I've been living alone for the past 5 years in St.Loser, Misery (IYKYK). Classic games, old anime and horror movies are my thing. Mainly just here to shoot the s**t since I lost both parents recently and don't have mu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do women really think of autistic men? |
| AroDweeb64 |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2026, 9:10 pm
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Replies: 47
Views: 1,191
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| They frighten me. Sorry guys, it's nothing personal, but I've had one too many bad experiences with abusive guys trying to frame their abusive behavior as "sorry babe I'm just very neurospicy lol lol" So now if a guy tells me on a first date that he's on the spectrum, I'm slamming the &qu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Who else here has never had a crush? |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2026, 11:20 pm
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Replies: 0
Views: 48
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| I mean, I guess maybe I had some fictional crushes when I was really young but other than that it just never really happened at any point in my life. It feels really weird knowing this when so many other autistics seem to be overly obsessed with the concept of finding romantic love (with the most fa... |
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