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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2008, 2:32 pm
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| Update time... First of all, thanks to all of the people who had good intentions to help and not just berrate me. I really appreciate it. I actually took one the advice of one of the first responses I received here. "G" wrote on the bathroom door the other day, perfectly clear I might add, "Do not e... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2008, 6:55 am
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| This mother is complaining she has a son. I AM NOT complaining that I have a son. How dare you! You are the most despicable person I have ever met online - a cruel and sadistic person who is obsessed with me, my 5 year old son and your mother. It's really starting to give me the creeps. You really ... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 8:54 pm
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| To the OP: I suggest you seek help from an organization in your area, if there is such a thing in your area, for people with autism and AS, and speak to someone one-on-one, in person. Also there are many books that can be helpful - please browse the other threads in this forum for titles that other... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 8:48 pm
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| Emoal6, I think you are having a difficult time separating yourself from my son and truth be told, it's making me kinda uncomfortable. I'm not sure if you're in a place to give such advice because your experience has apparently made you so bias and hostile towards anybody who has frustrations with t... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 7:16 pm
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| I will say one thing though GEESMOM... His coping skills aren't really "immature". I meant "immature" as in, underdeveloped. I did not mean it as derogatory. I can't believe anybody would use it as an insult to their own child to begin with! Having said that, I am not a physician or therapist and i... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 6:54 pm
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| I'm ashamed on her behalf. This is not the way to "educate" the OP on how to best deal with difficult behaviors, by making her feel even worse than she did when she came here. Name calling and viciousness have no place on this forum, or any other. Thank you sinagua. At least there are a few compass... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 6:44 pm
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Thank you so much 2ukenkerl for understanding that the intent of my asking for help/advice.
I really appreciate you! |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 6:40 pm
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| Your absolutly ignorant to believe its "NO ONE'S FAULT". IT IS YOUR FAULT. ACCEPT THE BLAME YOU DESERVE. YOU CHOSE TO HAVE KIDS. NOW YOU'RE CRYING ABOUT HOW THEY ARE. Unlike you, I don't think my son's existence needs an excuse nor does it require blame of any kind. Why would I blame anybody for a ... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 5:47 pm
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| Emoal6, as you stated previously, I'm sorry your mother was horrible and didn't breastfeed you or whatever, but I am not your mother and I refuse to be the conduit of your resentment towards her. My son is a beautiful little boy, full of life and humor. Yes, I get frustrated and tired of always havi... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 5:23 pm
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| Well, I COULD conceivably have stayed at the same school for until 12th. I stayed through 2nd, went elsewhere for 3rd, and came back only for 4th. The 3rd grade was apparently where my life COULD have kept going, but changed for the worst. ALSO, being at the school through 12th could have given me ... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 5:18 pm
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| It's one thing I've learned over the years is that kids need their own behaviou reflected back on themselves to "get it", for instance when I have to babysit, and the boys are getting into a fight, the older one usually picks on the weaker one and sometimes it 'gets out of control', to the point wh... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 5:13 pm
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| You're a mother of 2, just like my mom. You're complaining about the same sh**, just like my mom. That means, like my mom, You are a horrible mother. You're crying on the internet. And you wanna call us "trolls" because we're giving you "tough love". We're simply telling you that what you're asking... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 3:56 pm
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| Geesmom, I hope you didn't miss my last message. *I*, for one, understand what you are going through, and you ARE showing some care I don't think my mother ever really showed. Of course I was in a "normal" private school early on, but I always complained about being taught what I knew, and not gett... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 3:51 pm
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| Okay, obviously this thread is being taken over by really angry "I have mommy issues" trolls. I love my kids. I had them because I wanted them and I wouldn't trade them or their uniqueness for anything. Again, I will not apologize for admitting it's hard and I get frustrated and sometimes I do over-... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 3:43 pm
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| I mentioned Explosive disorder because the behaviors you listed are symptoms of explosive order. Anyone who can read and is knowledgable about psychological disorders could discern that. It doesn't take credentials just reading comprehension. He is having issues coping with transitions and changes ... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Where can I get behavioral help for my Aspie son? |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 1:01 pm
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| The tantrums you are describing shouldn't be blamed on Aspergers. It sounds like he has Explosive disorder. A lot of Aspergers people are extremely quiet and sit in the corner like a mouse. He is quiet for the most part, it's just when things don't go as planned or his rituals are disrupted, he has... |
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