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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Men, Women - how easy is it for you to find dates?

Posted: 29 Jan 2013, 8:09 pm 

Replies: 51
Views: 4,006


I'm 34 and male. Here's the thing . . . when I was in high school, I was dateless. I had no clue what the hell to do even when it was obvious a girl liked me. Eventually, everyone just decided I was gay. In college, it got easier because I lived on a co-ed floor in the dorms. Girls were able to inve...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What type of people from the opposite gender do you usually

Posted: 29 Jan 2013, 7:49 pm 

Replies: 41
Views: 3,140


#1 by far: Emotional trainwrecks who just lay everything out there before any sane person would consider it appropriate. #2: Younger chicks attracted to my aloofness who seem to mistake it for some kind of fatherly quality. #3: nursing students who want to talk endlessly. #4: therapists. No I don't ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Boyfriend with asperger

Posted: 29 Jan 2013, 7:38 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 998


What else do you connect with him on?

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Keeping interest in a romantic relationship...

Posted: 27 Jan 2013, 7:23 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 9,504


I never really heard the stereotype the AP mentioned, but it fits my experience to a T. I tend to invest a lot of time in figuring someone out. Once I have them figured out, they're just one more person to me.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do you keep dating from wrecking everything else?

Posted: 25 Jan 2013, 2:30 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 1,368


OP. It sounds as if you came along a possible solution in your original post but may not see it clearly. I think the solution is to find a way to not allow anyone to be a distraction for you. I know that is a solution considering my history. In fairness, the easiest way to do that is to go back to ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do you keep dating from wrecking everything else?

Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 8:10 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 1,368


The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
What I know that she stays at the shop till 9:30 pm (and starts around 9-10 am) , 6 days a week.


Nursing student in an intensive program. Same problem, basically, just she starts earlier and drives to school, too.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do you keep dating from wrecking everything else?

Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 4:19 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 1,368


What you need to do when you arrange to meet someone on-line is to meet in a public place without either of you knowing initially where the other one lives. That is precisely what I try to do. You'd be surprised the number of online dating females who like the attention but are averse to the risk o...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do you keep dating from wrecking everything else?

Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 10:51 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 1,368


how many texts a day are you talking about? I'd have to go back and count. The answer is "a lot". Especially if I make the mistake of feeding into it. if you are dating fun and flirty girls that are in non-stop party mode on the weekend, then they may expect the weekdays to be like that as well. Th...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do you keep dating from wrecking everything else?

Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 12:28 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 1,368


I'm having no trouble getting face-to-face dates, The problem is filling the spaces between dates. Women like the constant texting. They never frickin stop. Last night I went to a show and told this one chick I'd be out of communication for a while. Her response? More texts and a sexy photo while I'...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: frivolity

Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 12:12 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 852


I hate to say it, but . . . here goes . . . I treat it as no different than getting upset at a dog for licking his balls. Dogs lick their balls. That's just a fact. It would be cruel to abuse him for licking his balls. Someone wants to take a more epicurean approach to life, I don't really sweat it ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do you keep dating from wrecking everything else?

Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 11:59 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 1,368


This is a question for those aspies who have a record of at least some stable dating. I've been trying to do regular dating the last couple months. I'm on the big two dating sites, OKC and PoF, and I'm getting dates without too much trouble. No real surprise to me, because the last few years I've go...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: A date - this Saturday

Posted: 11 Jan 2013, 1:26 pm 

Replies: 58
Views: 4,459


I don't sweat these things too much. A big part of day-to-day functionality for me, especially as it pertains to the opposite sex, is trying to not leave myself emotional dependent on how I hope things work out. The nice thing with missing something with someone from a different culture is you're no...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: A date - this Saturday

Posted: 10 Jan 2013, 11:57 pm 

Replies: 58
Views: 4,459


Generally, Tunisians (yes, even those living in their mainland) are the least rigid in those matters, I knew some Tunisiennes who are promiscuous more than any westerner imaginable. So, the big takeaway here for me is if I couldn't swing the Tunisian girl, don't even bother with any other Arab ladi...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: A date - this Saturday

Posted: 10 Jan 2013, 2:58 pm 

Replies: 58
Views: 4,459


My dating experience is entirely with women from western countries. The couple times I have ever tried hitting on an Arab girl I ended up very concerned I was going to be murdered. Seriously. There is a Tunisian girl I met in France who looks like Penenlope Cruz minus the weird nose that I consider ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dating tips please?

Posted: 10 Jan 2013, 1:06 am 

Replies: 2
Views: 799


Here's the basic math of talking to women: 5% playful / sexy 95% thoughtful / direct Now, thoughtful does not mean going full aspie and discussing minute detailed stuff. But, you can unload more aspie-ness than you think and leverage it for conversation topics. It's not as bad as many ASD folks act ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: A date - this Saturday

Posted: 10 Jan 2013, 12:19 am 

Replies: 58
Views: 4,459


If your dates are costly, you're doing it wrong. I cannot express this strongly enough: women are not impressed by money, gifts, things. Activities and moments are what women want. They need an experience, not a receipt for some expensive crap. Having money is a good thing. Women like that. Spending...
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