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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: when to give up? |
| hon |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2008, 4:26 am
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Replies: 29
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| Hey what happened? :? I thought hon was going to not be pushy and accept the relationship on his terms or meet each other half way? You sound like me in that you constantly need reassurance, very big mistake. well, i guess there would be no relationship at all if one person doesn't want to work it ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: when to give up? |
| hon |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2008, 12:34 pm
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Replies: 29
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| to AUTISTICMALCONTENT, i was not able to read everything of your post yesterday..where is it now? can you post that again?thanks. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: moving on |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2008, 12:06 pm
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| Sorry you post is too vague, but I get the feeling this guy is holding you back from where you want to go. im sorry. i ended a relationship a week ago. i want to move on but i still got this feeling of I HATE HIM (because of the things we said to each other) but I STILL LOVE HIM. i don't think he i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone epic fail in a conversation before? |
| hon |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2008, 11:23 am
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Replies: 34
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| how is it goin now? i hope everythings goin on well.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: moving on |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2008, 11:20 am
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| i've been on an on/off relationship for almost 4 months and about a week ago, it's our last blow. i'm on this "I HATE HIM BUT I STILL LOVE HIM" stage, does opening the communication with him again helpful? i really want to move on with my life. does dating someone help me move on? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone epic fail in a conversation before? |
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Posted: 07 Oct 2008, 5:15 am
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| It's not so much the fact that I dropped the ball that is the epic fail (I do that all the time), but the fact that I really creeped her out in the process... You're assuming you creeped her out. It might be good to either chat by text or send an email. Women appreciate honesty too, you don't have ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: one tiny bit of advice i think most people here can utilize |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2008, 11:44 am
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Replies: 29
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Saffy wrote: nor are we self centred thanks very much.
i certainly agree on this..NT are not self centered at all... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: when to give up? |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2008, 12:14 am
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| a post from me..TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO GAVE THEIR POINTS OF VIEW,THANK YOU VERY MUCH!! I do appreciate everything and was all taken into consideration. I already have an answer to my question-WHEN TO GIVE UP? And the answer is YES,im giving up and ITS OVER. Thats what me and wanderer decided yesterda... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: when to give up? |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2008, 2:45 am
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| This sounds like a very silly soap operish type plot. It is nice to know that love and care for him, but ultimately it is up to him to make the final choice. You need to tell him that, and tell him that he isn't going to get anywhere by bitching about love and loneliness when he has someone who car... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: when to give up? |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2008, 2:34 am
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| i was in my senti mood yesterday..so i just cried and cried the whole day thinking and wishing that we are still together, that i was the one he knew before his ex wife, that his kids are OURS (sounds selfish here..) and most especially i thought of OUR little PHOEBE (we had a miscarriage anyway..) ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: when to give up? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2008, 12:34 pm
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Replies: 29
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| How is everything going between you two anyway? still the same...but im happy coz at least we chat almost everyday now and somehow i know he's alright. i would say that this is the best experience i have in my lifetime...loving someone without expecting anything in return....though sometimes-i just... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: when to give up? |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2008, 5:03 am
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Replies: 29
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| to mr. wanderer, i dont know what to say anymore...maybe ill just give you this song: After all the tears I've cried You'd think I would give up on love Get off this line But maybe I might get it right this time I was there as passion turned to pain Sunshine turned to rainy days Yet here I am Ready ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: hello everybody! |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2008, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 12
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| hello again everyone!! just dropping by to say thank you for all the welcomes.....see you around...i enjoyed learning something new everyday... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: when to give up? |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2008, 8:07 am
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| The fact that he's saying "you deserve better" indicates that, whether romantically or just pragmatically, he does care about the way you feel. Many aspie men have known nothing but rejection in their lives. The fact that you actually accepted him produced an anomaly in his mind, since in his mind,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejected fat girl asking me to give her massage |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2008, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 76
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| dont judge someone about her physical attributes, you'll never know, that person is the one who will accept and love you inspite of your condition in life. i agree that you dont have to hook anybody up and wait for the right person..but mind your words..nobody is perfect, not even you.. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: confusion about mixed signals |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2008, 9:00 am
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Replies: 34
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| I've been married to a man with AS for the last 10 years ( together longer). There are some things you might find helpful 1. Do not expect him to guess or know what you are feeling/thinking - unless you tell him. 2. If you want to know how he feels about something - give him time to answer, give hi... |
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