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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Hell is Other People |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2012, 3:46 pm
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Replies: 12
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Thank you =)
*I* know that, but without giving too much away (it's not my place to tell them about his AS) it's hard to explain to them. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you get a girl to hang out with you? |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2012, 8:10 am
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Hell is Other People |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2012, 8:02 am
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| I have to say that I get very frustrated when other people think my AS guy isn't a very good person because he says something socially/politically/ideologically inappropriate at a party. Anyone with ideas about how to handle that sort of situation? I'm stumped, because these are close friends of clo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Discussing important relationship issues with AS guy |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2010, 11:11 pm
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| Hi again, starygrrl, When I try to discuss the issues about the bills, the sex, the procreation, with my partner calmly, most of the time he changes the subject or walks out of the room to do what I feel is try to distract me away from the topic. Recently I have followed him and continued to talk ab... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Discussing important relationship issues with AS guy |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2010, 9:29 pm
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| Also, therange, Just so you know, I don't "nag and nag and never give up". I just require actual answers to questions I ask rather than being told he doesn't know and given no indication as to when he plans to give me an answer or even think about the things I've asked. I don't "already know what th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Discussing important relationship issues with AS guy |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2010, 9:16 pm
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Hi, therange,
None of those statements are the truth. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Discussing important relationship issues with AS guy |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2010, 8:12 pm
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| @starygirl: I understand that my partner has meltdowns. I believe I phrased it that way in my initial post. I would like to know how to help deal with them more effectively. What are some of the things your boyfriend does to help you when you have them? Also, I understand that me initiating conversa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Discussing important relationship issues with AS guy |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2010, 12:34 am
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| Thanks, everyone, for your opinions. Pretty much, the way I look at things usually in order to form a valid opinion, is to assess each point of view, one at a time, and review which aspects of each opinion best fit my situation. To start with, these arguments only happen every few months or so. Then... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Discussing important relationship issues with AS guy |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2010, 6:24 pm
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| Hi Hope, thanks for your reply. At the moment we don't have the money to pay the bills, let alone $90 a week to see a counsellor. We did, about a year ago, go and see a counsellor who we paid $90 to discover that she wasn't too bright and didn't tell us anything we didn't already know or could not h... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Nice Guys and Love, what's your take on the issue |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2010, 6:07 pm
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| In defence of the women who "like men who act like []..." Sometimes your judgement is not to blame. Sometimes the surface of a person looks very different to what lies underneath. Abusive men are extremely apt at showing one face in public and another in private. Often, you'd think he was a really n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Discussing important relationship issues with AS guy |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2010, 5:55 pm
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| Hi, therange. Thank you for your constructive reply. Did you read the whole post? Do you know the history of the relationship? We love each other, we have many things in common, we enjoy much of our time together. We make each other laugh. We like a lot of similar things, but we also have our own in... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Discussing important relationship issues with AS guy |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2010, 5:37 pm
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| Hi all, I'd like to ask your advice on something. My partner (mostly mild AS guy, early 30's) and I (NT woman, was Borderline personality disorder until I grew up - 40) mostly have a happy relationship. Our bills have gotten on top of us lately and my partner hates his job and is subsequently very s... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Are there any women who actually enjoy performing fellatio? |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2010, 4:53 pm
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: aspie males too shy/weak to be partner material |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2009, 3:10 am
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| Aspie guys seem to be the needy type. Most women hate that. I find the exact opposite actually. Our relationship is the other way around. I (nt) am the needy one whilst he (Aspie) just goes about his business and doesn't see that I need him until I wave my hands around and say "Helloooo, Something ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an AS guy...would like some advice. |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2009, 10:55 pm
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| Hey girls, It's like we're all the same ;P Me: 39, NT, overanalytical assertive woman who gets things done. He: 31, AS, slinky, blurts things out, sometimes comes across as a bit gay, can't lie. Us: in relationship for 1 1/2 years Yeah, JennaJ! I wonder if that's a common trait or just a co-incidenc... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Loving an Aspie =) |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2008, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 22
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We found this this morning. He IM'ed it over to me and I had to share.
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