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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Taking on a new challenge - travelling alone to Dublin |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2018, 1:58 pm
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| Hi, I don´t really know where I am going to start this thread and it´s going to be long (sorry!). But for a long time I had a thing for challenges. I don´t know if it counts as a interest or my personality but it is something special about challenges. Both the small and big ones. You take out a path... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: An aspie in need of advice and support :) |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2016, 4:07 pm
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Replies: 7
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| I know I didn´t post it before, but thank you both. I´m more determined to figure out where this road leads. Even if it all goes to h***l, I will at least have a better answer than before. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: An aspie in need of advice and support :) |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2016, 10:29 am
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kraftiekortie wrote: If you feel a tingling "down there" when you think about a woman kissing and fondling you, then it's a true feeling, and not merely a special academic nterest.
My gut has told me that too, but sometimes you question yourself... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: An aspie in need of advice and support :) |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2016, 10:21 am
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| Well, if you're the experimental type and want to confront this vague "maybe" and get some real data on whether or not it might be so, there's nothing wrong with that. Just make sure you have a safe and respectful way to do so. My advice if you do want to try with a woman to sort out your... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: An aspie in need of advice and support :) |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2016, 5:07 am
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| Do you feel like you want to explore women further than kissing? The good thing his: the atmosphere is much better for this sort of exploration than previously. Yes, I can see myself with a woman beyond kissing. But it´s like being a teenager again, you´re nervous, it feels like walking in an unkno... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: An aspie in need of advice and support :) |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2016, 1:44 pm
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| Hey everybody, I think that I need some advice and support. I have had some thoughts about my sexuality for a couple of years. It all started in upper secondary school ("gymnasiet" as they call it in Sweden) when I dated a bisexual male. I didn´t really care about his sexuality, and that g... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Aspie + a couple of drinks = Normal |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2011, 5:02 pm
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| I can definitely relate to that in a way. But I rather relax more with other people after a few drinks, but it also makes me not as sensitive to the unwritten social rules, what´s acceptable and not acceptable behaviour. So often after a night out, I regret and feel anxiety about the things that I´v... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Does your taste in music isolate you? |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2011, 4:50 pm
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Replies: 126
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| Well, the music i listen to isn´t always automatically what everybody else is listening to. But people accept that, there are other thing about me that people think is not normal or weird. |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Fav song lyrics |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2009, 7:28 pm
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Replies: 166
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| "Girl from the north country" , by Bob Dylan and Johnny Cash Well, if you're travelin' in the north country fair, Where the winds hit heavy on the borderline, Remember me to one who lives there. She once was a true love of mine. Well, if you go when the snowflakes storm, When the rivers freeze and ... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Wkat languages do you speak other than English ?... |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2009, 6:40 pm
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| Swedish (quite naturally´- I am from Sweden). I can understand Danish, if I read it, but it´s impossible to understand Danish when people speak to you. I think it´s a shame, because my great-grandmother was Danish. |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: What is your favourite CD? |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2009, 5:49 pm
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| Well, here you have one more who likes Foo Fighters. My brother is more of a fan, I think he has almost all of their album... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: I confess..... |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2009, 5:46 pm
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| I confess that I tonight watched a movie on youtube, just to recall my childhood. And I confess that I still love the movie - it has a great soundtrack, great peicture and a good script. With other words; a great movie for the whole family. And I confess that I´m going to buy it to my little sister,... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Gay Aspergers ! |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2009, 5:01 pm
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| What do you guys think about the whole Gay marriage thing. Do you think you'd like to get married someday? Im not homosexual, but I have friends who is. I can´t see something wrong with, because there´s this thing called love and who are we if we say that they can´t have a ceremony to demonstrate t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Doubting your suitability as a partner |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2009, 4:43 pm
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CrinklyCrustacean wrote: I think I'd be ok as a partner, but I don't think there are that many people who would properly match my personality. It's very unconventional in some respects.
Well, I can say that you´re not alone about thinking like this... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Adults with AS, how do you find eye-contact? |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2009, 4:31 pm
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| Yes, much easier. But I think that once lack of eye contact becomes an issue to the person I'm talking to, it is perceived as abnormal. I then get the impression, rightly or wrongly, that I am taken much less seriously. My wife tells me that part of my problem is that I "over analyze" my interactio... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: What is your favourite CD? |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2009, 5:08 pm
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| My favourite artist is Swedish, and he sings in Swedish too, so none of you would know who he is anyway. But my favorite artist who sings in english is Richard Hawley . I can warmly recommend you all to listen to him, especially his first record, "Late Night Final" (2001). After that I think you sho... |
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