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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Girl at college, does she like me? |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2016, 2:19 pm
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I used to think I could pick up on pings of interest from girls, but now I realize I can't.
Lots of girls are just friendly people, and some girls have actually felt sorry for me (which is the polar opposite of them wanting me! ). |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being rejected when they find out your autistic |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2016, 2:15 pm
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Replies: 48 Views: 6,555
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If someone truly likes/loves/wants you this won't make a difference.
If someone wasn't really into you before, knowing that you have an ASD will be the excuse they use to ditch you. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am the XX year old virgin. Add your name to the list. |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2016, 2:12 pm
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Replies: 837 Views: 177,494
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| Me, both by choice and circumstance, but more the former. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any practicing Christian females on the autism spectrum? |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2016, 1:46 pm
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| Hey--with the new year I figured I'd give this a shot. Worth a try, eh? :wink: Me--I'm mid-30s (look and act younger), reasonably healthy, live in southern California but travel a fair bit, and am a somewhat serious* Christian believer. I drive and am semi-independent. My main AS-related struggle is... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Was Ted Bundy Actually Autistic? |
| socalaspie |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2014, 7:41 pm
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Replies: 65 Views: 19,757
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| I'm sick and tired of the "no Aspie can ever be a murderer/rapist/molester" line that is often repeated by ASD apologists. Let's face it, there are good autistics, evil ones, and everything between. If we want to be taken seriously we will acknowledge that basic fact. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: abstaining from premarital sex, thoughts? |
| socalaspie |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2013, 1:39 am
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| I was in one relationship that ended terribly in early 2006, and haven;t pursued anyone else since. Its not an easy life by any means, but its better than whoring myself out from desperation (pardon the language). I long for the day when I can finally share both my life and bed with a Godly woman, ... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Animal torture in Gaza :( |
| socalaspie |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2013, 2:37 pm
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Replies: 15 Views: 1,615
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Just another day for the "religion of peace".  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are there any single CHRISTIAN women on WrongPlanet.net? |
| socalaspie |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 10:19 pm
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Replies: 21 Views: 38,234
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| Inspired by ehymw's thread here--I'm asking the exact same question, but have made it more specific--do any single Christian women exist, presently, on WrongPlanet? By that, I mean not just nominal, born-a-Christian folks like something like 80% of Westerners are--I mean serious, dedicated, born-aga... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: We have ourselves to blame |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 2:19 pm
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Replies: 89 Views: 6,089
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| I know that some Aspie men are hated by women. It's a fact of life. So, the question is--are we going to just accept that and mope and rage at the world, or are we going to try to figure out why we are hated and attempt to work on that so that it's not as big of an issue going forward so that we can... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: We have ourselves to blame |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 9:51 am
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Replies: 89 Views: 6,089
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| I know this thread will ruffle lots of feathers, and I don't really care. The vast majority of the time we have only ourselves to blame for our struggles and failures in the world of dating and relationships. When I look around, I see a lot of extremely selfish ASD persons that make absolutely no at... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Pat Robertson on Women Choosing Jerks |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 9:37 am
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Replies: 15 Views: 1,833
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| Women are looking for handsome, strong, confident men, not jerks. If the choice is a handsome, strong, confident jerk and an average-looking wimp, they will choose the former every time, but they really want a handsome, strong, confident gentleman. (Granted, this is just barely scratching the surfac... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Pat Robertson on Women Choosing Jerks |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 9:36 am
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Replies: 15 Views: 1,833
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| I don't think women want jerks per se--they want handsome, confident men. If the option is a handsome, confident jerk and an average-looking wimp, they will pick the jerk. Of course they'd really like a handsome, confident man who can treat them well. (That's just scratching the surface of what is r... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do single women exist on wrong planet? |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 9:31 am
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Replies: 160 Views: 9,543
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| The question, for me, is whether or not single Christian women exist on WP... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men, would you date a hot girl with a crap personality? |
| socalaspie |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 9:30 am
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: TV Shows with Aspergers!! |
| socalaspie |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2012, 4:56 am
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Replies: 34 Views: 16,797
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| I think Max on Parenthood is a terrible depiction. As the show has progressed, he has become a very selfish, rude person, none of which is due to AS, in my opinion. I think that his parents babying him so much for having AS has morphed the character into somebody who feels entitled to everything th... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: TV Shows with Aspergers!! |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2012, 4:54 am
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Replies: 34 Views: 16,797
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Best by far is Dr. Brennan. Sheldon Cooper is a total and absolute douchebag (sadly a lot of Aspies are like him, but that doesn't mean he should be any kind of a role model).
I know it's not extremely clear if he's supposed to be one or not, but Dr. House is kind of cool. |
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