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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living with another aspie :( |
| LipstickKiller |
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Posted: 05 Apr 2012, 11:50 am
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| An update for whoever is interested: The relationship ended after my now ex-boyfriend discovered I'd been emailing a friend with in a romantic way. I had promised my psychologist to give it another week, but the issue was forced and we broke up. Itw as relaly rough at first. But now we're actually k... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living with another aspie :( |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2012, 12:40 pm
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| So now he stays at his house a couple of days a week. But all I feel is relief when he's gone, not so much that I miss him . My psychologist pointed out that I already do know I'm not in love with him. But can I get those feelings back? My mind has started to wander to other men. I'm not interested... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living with another aspie :( |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2012, 12:09 pm
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| So now he stays at his house a couple of days a week. But all I feel is relief when he's gone, not so much that I miss him. My psychologist pointed out that I already do know I'm not in love with him. But can I get those feelings back? My mind has started to wander to other men. I'm not interested i... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Post Autistic TV characters you notice |
| LipstickKiller |
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Posted: 07 Mar 2012, 5:25 am
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| Dr. Gregory House - "House" I actually just started to wonder about him. It seems like he knows he is saying socially awkward things and does it on purpose, but I started thinking maybe he deliberately says things to be awkward to cover up that he is truly awkward? Plus, he is very obsessive about ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living with another aspie :( |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2012, 9:02 pm
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| Update: I think it's beginning to really hit home what I mean. He actually took the initiative himself and made sure we had a couple of long (painful) conversations about feelings and needs etc. He then asked me to rate how much of a difference certain things would make for me on a scale from 0-10, ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living with another aspie :( |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 12:37 pm
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| If he doesn't ease up on the 24 hours a day thing, then its going to end up 0 hours by the sound of it. I have one thing to add though. You said at one point he said he would leave as soon as he felt mentally up to it. He also kept his old place. These two things make me wonder how committed he rea... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living with another aspie :( |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 8:02 am
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| Well he managed to have a relationship with you before he moved in, didn't he? If you guys were in a relationship before he moved in then you wouldn't have been seeing each other every day. So clearly what he said isn't true in reality, only in his mind. Sounds like he's just scared that if he's no... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living with another aspie :( |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 7:06 am
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| Have you considered that it might be best for your relationship for you to live separately? As in, he moves out? Honestly, I think you have done pretty damn well by yourself. Look at it this way, he probably needs his own space. You definitely need your own space. Unless you both have enough space ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living with another aspie :( |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 4:41 am
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| Relationships are BS? Meh, That's why I'm attracted to anime women. They don't cause grief and trouble. No. Didn't realized I'd get bleeped. A female dog is what I went for. But don't mind me, I'm just tired and cranky. I like my imaginary relationships too. I hang out with Day9 a few times a week,... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living with another aspie :( |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 4:16 am
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| First I want to say you are not a dunce, you are doing amazing. I could not face being a single parent, and I don't know how anyone does it with other issues going on too. You talk about his problems, but not much about your own needs, maybe you could work out what you need and write it down and sh... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living with another aspie :( |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2012, 7:29 am
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| I just spent the past hour with my psychologist talking about my relationship with M. It's not going so well. It's really hard trying to live with another aspie. He's not like anyone I've ever met, for better and worse. He's constantly trying to improve and be a better person. This involves everythi... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: ASD and non-sectarian Buddhism |
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Posted: 13 Feb 2012, 2:02 pm
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| I'm interested in Meditation to. Right now I'm trying college again and I've decided to use Meditation for my research paper. Personally, I've done something like Meditation to relax at the end of the day. I've read that's not really recommend because you'll fall asleep, but that's kind of why I do... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Starcraft 2 thread. |
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Posted: 06 Feb 2012, 10:10 am
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Replies: 47
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Perk of playing zerg is all your stuff comes from hatcheries. So all hatcheries as one control group and then just learn the hotkeys for different units  I really should start hotkeying my queens though.... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: ASD and non-sectarian Buddhism |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2012, 6:10 am
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Replies: 147
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Art-sung wrote:
When the Buddha was passing he stated that when he was gone let the Dharma [teachings] be the Teacher.
Thank you. That does help |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: ASD and non-sectarian Buddhism |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2012, 3:45 am
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Replies: 147
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| I have a problem. I have come to understand that many consider it a bad idea to try the buddhist path without a teacher. However, the number of teachers in any given order are very few here. My problem is I have real difficulties connecting with other people and often feel uncomfortable or distresse... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: ASD and non-sectarian Buddhism |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2012, 8:32 am
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Replies: 147
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| I have tried the slow walking meditation before, but I need the physical exercise. SO it's fast-paced walking, focusing on each step and listening to my breathing. Of course, I get interrupted by the dog, but I consider that part of the practice. I find that single-pointed meditation, or in this cas... |
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