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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fallen in love with another aspie, but struggling |
| KnightGhost |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2010, 10:42 pm
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Replies: 26
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| Epic Failure. An Aspie simply can't compete against a Player, especially when distance is involved. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fallen in love with another aspie, but struggling |
| KnightGhost |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2010, 7:47 pm
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Replies: 26
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| Cost isn't a problem, I make 6 figures. May even have a 2nd house there and see how it goes. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fallen in love with another aspie, but struggling |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2010, 8:44 am
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| Told her. She also said she feels the same for me, but split between 2 guys. Will see where it goes. That's great news! But does that mean she plans on dating both of you, or that she just needs time to decide? Both. I believe, if you lived closer to one another your relationship would have a bette... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fallen in love with another aspie, but struggling |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2010, 8:53 am
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Lene wrote: KnightGhost wrote: Told her. She also said she feels the same for me, but split between 2 guys. Will see where it goes. That's great news! But does that mean she plans on dating both of you, or that she just needs time to decide?
Both. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fallen in love with another aspie, but struggling |
| KnightGhost |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2010, 8:12 am
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| Told her. She also said she feels the same for me, but split between 2 guys. Will see where it goes. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fallen in love with another aspie, but struggling |
| KnightGhost |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2010, 7:51 pm
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Replies: 26
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Lene wrote: BetsyRath wrote: I think you should tell her that you are in love with her. Agreed. You've nothing to lose, everything to gain and if you let this slide, you'll always wonder.
Thanks. Working on it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fallen in love with another aspie, but struggling |
| KnightGhost |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2010, 6:27 pm
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Replies: 26
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Ad wrote: Just explain to her about her aspergers and tell her not to date him because he's an NT and they use people and manipulate them and bully us. I've done the later half (she agrees) and am working on the first half. Day by day. Though even as logical as we are, we still have irrational feelings. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fallen in love with another aspie, but struggling |
| KnightGhost |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2010, 2:23 pm
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Replies: 26
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fallen in love with another aspie, but struggling |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2010, 12:14 am
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| I appreciate the post. I've been intimate but he hasn't. Its... complicated. And I'm 37. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fallen in love with another aspie, but struggling |
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Posted: 13 Feb 2010, 10:10 pm
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| Over the last several months I've fallen in love with an absolutely perfect lady... who is an undiagnosed aspie and doesn't realize it (working on explaining it to her). We 100% click. I've never had anything even close to that happen (I and was married 12 years, divorced now). Problem is that I tra... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should aspies hook up with other aspies? |
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Posted: 13 Feb 2010, 9:52 pm
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| It would vary by the two Aspies involved. I still don't buy the 4:1 ratio, especially since the AS diagnosis is being phased out anyway. I fully agree. I know several aspie women that won't get diagnosed expect from a specialist because females have so much more social practice, not to mention easi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is the point... |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2010, 9:38 pm
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Replies: 17
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| What is the point dating before it's possible to get married? I mean, all dating is, is to check if the other person is possibly "the one". and when your to young to get married, it seems senseless... Can someone explain? - Im not sure why we teens date at such a young age starting at probably 10. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Gay Aspie Student |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2010, 7:57 pm
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| Homosexuality is not natural. It has been determined that relationships must be done with a man and woman since the days of Adam and Eve. ROFLMAO!! ! Anyway, I know several aspies who are practicing gay because that's the only way they can find a relationship. Not for me, but more power to them if ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Wait it out, or move on? |
| KnightGhost |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2010, 10:55 am
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Replies: 64
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| Please, do not believe the comments about "rules of the game" and other such fallacies. There is nothing that says that one's feelings cannot change over time. I would, however, also discourage pushing too hard about what she does not like about you. One, it comes across as insecure/needy from what... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is the point... |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2010, 11:28 pm
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Dating is about finding that person that adds a rainbow of colors to your black/white/gray world.
Its about learning that the touch of that person can send you to heights that no drug on the planet can reach.
That person is about making you feel complete in ways that never imagined. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Wait it out, or move on? |
| KnightGhost |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2010, 11:25 pm
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Replies: 64
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| No, according to rules of dating game, it is now or never. I'm in a similar situation, and that just killed my night. Darn humans. In my situation, she's also an Aspie, says that I'm perfect, but because I can only be there on weekends it isn't enough. Time will well, but the next several months ma... |
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